What do I do in this situation?

I want to have sex so bad but my parents say I should wait till I marry a gut, but I don't even have a boyfriend right now so what can I do? Any tips on toys? Or things I can do, or if I should go against my parents wishes?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I dont think it's wise to seek someone out to marry them, only to have sex. You're 18 or older, meaning you're over the age of consent. Your parents likely don't want you to get hurt or pregnant, but there are safe ways to explore your desires. I'm not directly telling you to go against the wishes of your parents, but exploring yourself or with a trusted person close to you is a perfectly normal thing.

  • First, your parents are idiots.
    Second, sex shouldn’t be an objective. It’s a perk of a good relationship.
    Third, you can’t marry anyone without knowing them. That means dating a while, living with them and having sex. Then…maybe…marriage. Your parents be damned.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s your body. Do what you want with it. Personally I think a girl should learn to have sex first befor marriage. If you’ve experienced sex then you can gage what he’s like as a lover which can be a good thing to know because it will tell you what he’s like as a person. Does he take care of your sexual needs? Is he selfish? Does he experiment? Etc.

  • Find a guy to love you... don't rush into sex wait at least 6 months so you know the goof is serious... then if the relationship lasts 2 years get married lol

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  • Make your own decisions.

    As for toys, yes. Get yourself a moderate size dildo. It's obviously not the real thing, but you will enjoy it and it will help somewhat.

  • I would at least wait until you find someone who you like and feels the same about you. Meanwhile, use a vibrator.

  • If you are (presumably) a virgin, you might consider a Satisfyer Pro 2 air pulse stinulator. It delivers fast strong orgasms and is non-penetrating; saving that sensation for the real thing.

    • If you aren't offended by AV, you can see one demonstrated at one of the AV aggregator sites.

  • They don't have to know

  • You are an adult and get to decide who you want to sleep with. Also, what if you don't want to marry?

    Anyways. They don't have to know. Or you can always masturbate.

  • Pay for sex?

  • I would advice you to wait. Masturbate! And get a discreet vibrator if you don't want your parents to know or simply practice by humping pillow

  • i, d advice u same...
    please consider me as a brother and save urself till marriage ♥️💕

  • If youa re asking this, you are too young to have sex

  • Do what you want. You're of age so you're considered an adult

  • Get toys, DM me

    • I do t have enough xp level

    • Tell me your username