What do I do when my boyfriend's mom catches us having sex?

I just was caught having sex with my boyfriend by his mom. She was pissed, and he just sat there. Hurried to get dressed and she called me and told me "if she sees me at her house again she will call the cops. also you are no longer welcomed at my house". So I don't know what to do
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Damn you're screwed. How old is your bf? He's going to have to talk with his mom and let her know that it's his house he allowed it to go down he knows what's OK and what's not and yet he still let it happen? It's not your fault trust me I know how men are my experience did that with me would make me have. Sex with his mom next door even though I said no he said "she won't hear" nope she did and booy was she mad

    Anyways it's up to him to talk and let her know he knew better and yet still let it happen and eventually it should get to a point to where all 3 of you are sitting down to discuss the situation and coming up with a resolution because obviously you two are still going to want to do it it's natural

    Good luck

  • He must've knew not to say anything to his mum to against her for you. You will have to find somewhere else now. But she didn't say you are not allowed to date him. i think she just felt disgusted when she saw her son with you naked. (panicked and threatened you).

  • Tough situation, I think she's feeling disrespected, have you talked to your boyfriend has she cooled off. She can't seriously be living in denial that that's an activity her son isn't partaking in. Granted not everyone is.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's a consensual relationship between people of legal age. Calling the cops is an idle threat. That said, so long as he's living at home, he's living by her rules. It's on him now. He's either going to have to be in the open with the relationship and convince her to allow it to continue (good luck with that), or you'll have to end it if it's unworkable. Continuing in secret will only bite you in the ass harder the next time you're caught.

  • Your boyfriend has to talk to her, you can't do anything, it's not your mother, you're just a stranger to her, so it's your boyfriend's job to try to bring some sense to his mother.
    I mean you're 19 (right?) it's normal at this age to be having sex.

    • yeah but she is weird with him. She treats like he is her daughter and she is the father

    • Yeah, but you can't do nothing about it. If she doesn't listen to him, she's not gonna listen to you either. You should stop going to her house, and make you boyfriend grow some balls and talk to her about this.

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  • Your boyfriends mom has no chill.

    ... start hanging out somewhere else.

  • wow lol what a B... like her son wants to be there. I hope you met her a few times before that?

  • You don't go back and just let time heal. If you guys are dating seriously and you think it'll be long term then she'll have to accept it eventually.

  • Don't have sex with her son at her house anymore.

  • Just don't go back there.

  • That's what you get for spreading your legs under her roof. Not cool.
    She will never respect you as a woman again and probably always look at you as some "hoe" not really a serious girl in her child's life.

  • She was just upset because you didn't offer her to join. Next time just let her join in.