I mean women who have a high body count of 11 men. Say you were promiscuous in your youth, but you’re not now, but you have that history. You’re not shy around guys and you know how to talk to and turn guys on on dates. Yet you don’t dress, look or act like you have a high body count?
You're quiet when it comes to your sex life, since you don't act like you been with 11 guys. I think most women are that way. You shouldn't worry about it.
For me, last 2 girls I've been with were "experienced". Actually all except one. But I never really had any thoughts on it except, "this feels great and fun". What else should we think? ha ha
Our pasts are our pasts. The guy should be happy that an experienced women knows how to give him some great orgasms
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I never asked a woman about her body count and none ever asked about mine.
As long as she is now looking for an exclusive type of long-term relationship, is no longer promiscuous, and is happy with me, I figure the past is the past.
I would much prefer an experienced, sensual, orgasmic women who knows how to please a man, over a timid virgin who never experienced life.
Everyone has their own path to getting where they are. As long as a woman has self-respect, self esteem, healthy morals, values, hopes and dreams, and a positive outlook on life, I think being a sexual being is a positive. I consider that a normal and healthy attitude.
What I don't care for are religious or sexual hang ups.
11 isn't high. Iv had sex with around 50 guys and it doesn't bother me or my partner. Infact', I don't know many guys who are bothered by it. It means you like sex and know what you want and how to get it. If a bloke can't handle that then he's insecure. I don't dress or act slutty like guys on here assume. Life is for living... be safe and live
Not interested. I am only interested in a good, moral person because I am only interested in a potential partner for a long term exclusive relationship.
You are unlikely to form a strong emotional pair bond with someone for long term at that point.
I've never had a sexual partner that didn't have a large number of previous partners. I don't think anything bad about it.
I don't have an opinion on them, honestly.
I only have interest in women with a body count of zero.
Seriously, 11 is not even close to being high.
I was thinking the same thing. That seems like a moderate number. Both my ex and my current partner have a number that could more than triple 11.
it's an euphemism for a girl wo fucked around.
Probably Skilled in Sexy sex. If I'm lucky I'm next.
I don't give a shit about body count. It's bullshit.
Works for me, lol.
That’s not that bad if you’re in your 30s , most guys won’t care
11 is a lot of dudes. In general in today's world I guess some won't even care but if you say something of your 11 body counts they probably aren't going to take you seriously relationship wise.
Really! 11 is not a lot of dudes.
@Samantha36: Then what is a lot or little?
I don't know, I don't judge. Its just sex. There is no right or wrong answer. My body count was around 40 when I was 21. I'm 36 now and it's gone up to 50ish. That's high compared to some people and low compared to others.
Damaged goods.
I enjoy experienced women. I don’t think 11 is a high body count. Lots of people just enjoy the hell out of fucking and multiple orgasms.
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Id be completely fine with it
They are fuckable.
It seems most guys don't have a positive opinion of them. But why should it matter? Do what you want.
A person's first sexual partner is usually special (assuming it was a positive experience), especially for women, due in part to the hormone called oxytosin. Women typically have higher oxytocin levels than men. Research from the Medical Institute for sexual health shows the importance of oxytocin when it comes to pair bonding. Casual sex leads to a decrease in this neurochemical production and interferes with further pair bonding. Repeated sexual encounters with multiple partners, neutralize the brain, especially in women.
Pair bonding is critically important in a lasting, successful marriage. But because of the relative rarity with which pair bonds are formed in other mammalian species, we know surprisingly little about their underlying neurobiology. But science is beginning to show the importance of pair bonding in both physical and psychological health, and its powerful contribution to a lasting, successful marriage.
But despite the relative lack of science to back it up, men have always instictively known that promiscuity in women is an indication of a lack of ability to pair bond. Women have their own unique sense of intuition in men and relationships, but this one is more unique to men. It's widely considered to be a sexist double stadard, but it is a justified one.
For men, marrying a virgin is a worthy goal, but unrealistic for most today due to the changing views on sex. But disqualifying proscuous women from consideration in choosing a wife is definitely a realistic goal, and a very wise one considering the prevalance of divorce and the fact that it i women who file 80% of divorces.
They may seem harsh, but those are my views on "experienced" women, and most men feel the same whether they say so or not. And for good reason.
Fair enough 😊. This is an open debate. I’m not looking for a ‘right;’ or ‘wrong;’ answer. Just genuinely curious about others’ opinions.
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