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Sexual Health What do men mean when they say they like a girl with "meat on her bones" ?
ScarlettKiss Xper 3
Are they admitting to a fat fetish? I hate it when guys refer to 'meat'!! What the hell is meat? I'm not a chicken!!
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It means they like fat asses
Yeah, so like I said, fat?
Its not fat, if its just the ass 😁
Perhaps it's a metaphor. Don't take it literally.
This means they just don't like skinny girls and they prefer curvy/thick girls
it means we don't like stick thin girls.
not skinny
There are saying they like curvy women or thick women. It has nothing to do with a fetish.
Being into fat girls is a fetish. Not the norm /gets you off = fetish
I disagree that being into fat girls is a fetish.
@_NeverBeenKissed_ ok, you're entitled to your opinion as I'm entitled to mine. It is not the norm to be attracted to fat, add the sexual component to it & that is by definition a fetish. Most are not attracted to rolls and blubber
That "your entitled to your opinion I'm entitled to mine" bullshit is riduculous. You can go ahead and believe the earth is flat. Ya it's your opinion but you're just stupid. Secondly, curvy and fat isn't the same thing. Most guys are into fat women. When we say thick we mean curvy. By the way, what's up with your defensiveness. Are you anorexic?
Aren't into fat women*
Anorexia isn't something to joke about. I am recovering from eating disorder issues
No wonder you're so angry at the other woman for saying liking fat women isn't a fetish. You wish it'd be.
What does that mean? I'm not fat or angry. The reality is it is not normal to like obese chicks, that is a fetish
Just because you may like land whales does not make it the norm!!
Actually I'm not claiming you're fat I'm actually saying you're probably a skinny anorexic person. And if you don't know, thick and curvy isn't fat, let alone obese. It's funny how you were angry at me for asking if you're anorexic but you go around saying the word obese.
People like you are deplorable.
And then land whales? I just saw that! How does curvy and land whales equate. Look you're probably a ugly anorexic trash that men don't want so you hate big women.
Men don't want big women. I get hit on all the time. I didn't get angry at you for asking if I'm anorexic. I said it's not something to joke about. It's a serious disorder. would you make fun of cancer? I have recovered from my issues & am definitely not skinny, but not big either. I hear this 'meat on the bones' thing a bit when guys hit on me. Because of my history, I'm sensitive to any comment about my weight /size. Obese is a medical term. I can definitely refer to people as obese. And if that's how you like your women, that's on you. What do you think thick is? That 'thickness' comes from extra fat!!
I wouldn't make fun of cancer but I'll make fun of an anorexic bitch making fun of bigger women. Most men that I know prefer curvy women, that's why the saying of preferring women with meat on their bones originates from. Anorexic is just as much of a medical term. Are you playing dumb with me? You think you can have a pass by using the term land whales. Anyway most guys would take a curvy woman over a skinny woman anyway of the weak.
Ok, maybe we're picturing 2 different things. Show me a picture of what you mean by 'curvy'. Most men do not want a land whale
No body wants a fat woman but I think is very hypocritical for you to complain about me doing something and going on and do it yourself.
Sorry i can't I need to be Xper 2 but go ahead and google curvy
And no one wants a anorexic bitch playing victim.
It's not hypocritical, eating disorders are a medical condition that a person really can't help getting. Most people can help getting obese. It is usually not related to a psychological issue
I have googled curvy. They were fat. It's subjective anyway, that's why I asked for your opinion. I'm not an anorexic bitch. I WAS an anorexic bitch. Told you I'm not even skinny!! If I was I wouldn't be hearing the "meat on their bones" thing...
Not necessarily, obese is more a health issue that people who may not even eat a lot will have. Anorexia is branded as a eating disorder because we leave in a society of victimhood. Where it's never your fault.
Well if for you curvy is fat then that's you. But to me there's a difference between that and fat.
I'm not playing the victim. I took control of the situation & got help. This was years ago. I'm much better now but still sensitive to comments regarding my body. It is a psychological problem that consumes a person, it's not just about wanting to be a skinny bitch. Most obese people are that way because they're lazy & can't put the fork down
I said the Google image search was a bunch of fat chicks. There used to be a thing called curvy before it was hijacked by fat girls to make themselves feel better about being fat. If a girl calls herself curvy, watch out she's a cow. I think real curvy is like Beyonce, Nicki Minaj, the Kardashians, Marilyn.
There are lots of people who like fat (not curvy) women without it being a fetish. Some people have a preference. It may not be a norm to you but I know plenty of 250+ women who have found love & have husbands & kids & families. Just because it's not something you maybe into, understand, or is a norm for you does not make it a fetish. There are reasons someone can be obese or fat. Women with PCOS often times have a problem with weight. People who have problems with their thyroid can also have problems with their weight. This whole post comes off as you being a woman trying to fat shame & throw hate at bigger people. You are skinny/fit/active weight. You came out of anorexia, that's great. I wish you continued success with that. But please take your hate & body shaming & write it in a journal somewhere. No one needs this offensive question that you put out here.
I put this question out there because I hear this phrase directed towards myself. You can take your PC fat acceptance bs somewhere else because bottom line is obesity is not attractive or healthy. Instead of pushing for everyone to accept you as you are, actually work on yourself
It's not attractive to YOU. "Instead of pushing for everyone to accept you as you are, actually work on yourself." So change yourself for others is basically what you are saying. That is complete BULLSHIT! It's sad that you are so unhappy with yourself that all you can do is spread hate. Stop projecting a let people do them. If someone is fat & another person finds that attractive, why does it matter to you? Live your life & stop shaming people for accepting themselves & others. It's not PC to have heart & accept people. Someone with a past eating disorder that you claim to have had should be the last person to shame anyone about weight. You seem like very negative, closed minded, sad person. I hope it gets better for you.
No change yourself because it's unhealthy. Fat is not the way to be for many reasons. The majority of people will never accept obese people. It's not attractive to MOST people. Most guys don't want to be smothered by fat rolls. The only people that are attracted to that are sad losers that know they could never get a hot girl. by the way, google it. Being into curvy girls may be a preference but being into morbid obesity IS in fact a fetish. I'm starting to believe that you must be a fat chick. Try actually loving yourself by getting your body & health together instead of hoping for that .001% of the male population that is into lard. Good luck hun
@_NeverBeenKissed_ I must admit that obesity even fat isn't really attractive and very few guys are into that. Plus it isn't healthy however, I don't appreciate someone crying that I called them anorexic and turning around and doing the same things. It's ridiculous! Curvy however is something that guys are remotely into which to me isn't fat at all. You can be fat with zero curves and that shit is unattractive. To most though. Though I'm out here speaking for thick and curvy women who aren't fat.
Cuz they remind u that u r thin.
I being skinny get that bashed by people often
But now I started working out and have started gaining confidence in my body
So I don't care nowadays what those haters say about me
they mean girls who are neither fat or lean
Meat is muscle tone.
A fit girl like a college cheerleader has some meat on her bones.
XD HAHA
We mean that we like a girl with a nice natural shape. Not someone who looks unhealthy because they are too skinny