Guys, What do men usually fantasize about when thinking of a girl they like?

I understand there are sexual thoughts but what do they usually hope to imagine her doing specifically? Oral? A specific position? Do you imagine a lead up to the sexual act or do you just imagine only the sexual act itself?

And as far as romantic thoughts, do you have those? Do you fantasize of kissing her? Or holding her?
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  • I try not to think about it too much. Because it's not good to dwell on these things. It just messes with your mind.

    And I also avoid thinking about it regarding any particular person. But this is what I envision in general:

    - Meeting her for the first time.
    - Shaking her hand.
    - Sitting down in a restaurant and talking to her. (One of the quiet ones. Not the type where you keep getting interrupted by a waiter.)
    -Texting her daily and having fun conversations. (But also serious and meaningful conversations.)
    -Talking to her on the phone (occasionally).
    - Going out on dates.
    -Me getting to know her and her getting to know me.
    -Building trust.

    Okay, and this is the biggest part (which has the most meaning, and leaves me the most vulnerable beforehand but gives me the most confidence -- and drive, and motivation -- afterwards): Her finally telling me that I am acceptable to her and that she wants me and wants to be with me. That will be a life-changing moment for me. Because after that we can start making plans for what our future would look like together and I can start making goals and saving money. And I can finally pour my heart out to her and tell her how beautiful she is and how much she means to me.

    That is my fantasy.

    • That is so sweet. ThNks for the reply!

    • You're very welcome! Thank you for appreciating it. 😊

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  • When it's a girl I like, I'll tend to fantasize more about romantic scenarios, mainly just wanting to hug her and be near her, getting intimate, kissing, spooning maybe, lying in each others embrace, or even chilling on the couch in any position. Unironically I wouldn't mind stargazing on a beach either, or similar activities, which is a far cry from the usual maledom oriented stuff I like to imagine, lol.

    If actual sex does become involved in the fantasy, it's likely still intimate stuff, which if the scenario takes place in the bedroom, will just evolve naturally. Maybe missionary with her legs and arms wrapped around me. She could be on top too, but either way there'd be a lot of eye contact.
    A slightly less vanilla position I like to imagine in bed would be taking her from behind, but also pulling her up and caressing her. Running my hands over her, maybe grabbing one of her breasts or her neck, and she'll turn her head so we can kiss. I'll kiss her or she'll kiss me. Whichever is fine :p
    If not in the bedroom, I'd picture myself taking her on the spot, in a manner similar to the examples in bed, but we'd avoid getting on the floor, so maybe I'd pick her up and hold her while she wraps herself around me, and we fuck against a wall or a table. If on a table, she could ofc just lie down on it once I've picked her up and placed her on it.

    Hopefully it didn't end up sounding too crude or cold, lol. The point was to give you a detailed answer, not write a romantic novel ^^

    What about you? And what made you ask?

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  • When I've fantasized about crushes it's usually me going down on them. Also like the idea of just carrying a girl while she is hugging me in a non sexual way.

    • Thanks for the honesty!

  • I fantasize about us making love together in bed and seeing her smiling face and hair draping down over me. And I specifically mean "making love," not f*cking. Like, cuddling, foreplay, kissing, spooning, all that stuff. I don't really think about raw, dirty, porn-like sex if it's a girl I genuinely like and feel romantic chemistry towards. I am mostly a hopeless romantic, in this regard. I don't think about f*cking women I have romantic feelings for.

  • Yes and everything. But depending who it was or something else even let's say u and I are talking and your hott I would thing every thing I would see about you I could build a beautiful fantasy I could tell you and you would love it. But if we did all the above and I added feeling your energy and then touching it then that fantasys gets hotter by 25 easy

  • I've found the fantasy I had of a girl I was smitten with, sometimes paled too the notions of a girl on my tail who was bold enough too make me aware of how smitten with me she really was. This revealed my fantasy self, and real life self, too be clueless and timid. The. girl pursuing me didn't mind, because the power trip of being the assertive one in our relationship was an aphrodisiac for her primal urges, and the one I originally had a crush on relieved of an annoying boy's fascination, likely focused on a boy with class and charisma and happy too be rid of 🐶 tail me. Surprisingly, body shapes and sizes change more rapidly than the rules of ritual crush obsessions.

  • Sometimes yes, what leads up to the sexual act crosses my mind. Other times just her giving me a blowjob, or pounding her doggy or missionary, imagining what her moans sound like.
    Romantic thoughts; A moonlit walk and then cuddling on a bench, deep talks, surprising her with something and imagining her reaction.

  • It varies for me... there's one girl I fantasize about and it's mostly focused on hard, deep fucking... doggy style... ass slapping... hair pulling... primal fucking like a caveman who hasn't had sex in years...

    Contrast that with another girl I've been crushing on, and it's mostly fixated on me giving her oral... for as long as she can take it...

    It's not that I don't think of each of them in more than what I mentioned, it's just the central theme...

    • Thanks for the honesty!

    • Welcome. It's more fun being honest with stuff like this :)

  • I just imagine how i will meet her afther a hard day and she will whait for me somewher and be the fisrt person who will hug me.

    • That is so sweet

  • Her riding me on top, me bending her over and fucking her doggystyle

  • I fantasize about looking in her eyes, being close but not touching each other and a good breeze of her fragrance and she playing with her hairs. May be maximum hold her hands and when we get tired laying my head on her lap and take turns. Doing all of this in a forest where no other could see us

  • I imagine she sits on my face.

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