Guys, What do submissive boys love in relationships?

my boyfriend told me that he want me to dominate him in general and also in bed and I agreed but I don't wanna mistreat him I just wanna satisfy him and also my self. I enjoy being dominant but I haven't tried it before.

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  • For ne, when I want to be dominated, is about a girl doing all the things I don't want to be done to me, but not being allowed to have a say on it.

    To be edging is very important, being touched and when I'm about to finish she would stop and not let me.

    To be tied up and she would sit on top of me and ride me like crazy, then sit on me face and asfixiate me with your vag, not caring if the juices of my dick are still there.

    She would pee on me if she has to, on my dick or my face and mouth. And she would try to finger my ass even if I restle. because I don't like it.

    That's qhat I like when being dominated. Funny enough, I like girls forcing me to do what I don't want to be done to me 🤣

    But be careful, you need to know where the line is, everyone draws the line somewhere different. For me is actually hurting, like bleeding and stuff.

  • It means he wants you to control the relationship that you tell him what to do and you have your way with him , I honestly don’t see that relationship lasting very long , sorry to say , because most girls tend to want to be dominated by their men and not feel like they are babysitting a little boy , you will eventually feel your wants and needs aren’t being met if you are the only one that has to initiate everything leaving you feeling one sided , There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to be submissive to his girl here and there but he should want to dominate her more , to make her feel safe and secure and protected in that relationship , when a guy just wants to be submissive to a girl he isn’t capable of being a leader sorry to say

    • I literally understand what you are saying and that's one of the things that I am worried about...

    • Thank you really

    • No problem , For his sake , hopefully he learns how to be dominant toward you to balance the relationship out or you are going to get bored eventually and you are eventually going to want a man that can dominate you , I am definitely more dominate when it comes to sex , but I also like to be a little submissive sometimes as well to spice things up , Most girls I have been with love being dominated and love being submissive and told what to do , so through my experiences with girs’ if she tries to be more dominant to me , it pretty much means she is losing interest in the relationship , she doesn’t feel the passion anymore she is more on the lines of let me use you to get off on so hurry up and finish , When a guy allows that to happen in a relationship he is pretty much on the edge of losing her His job is to put her in her place and make it clear that she is not the leader in the relationship that she either respects me or she can get the fuck out , Girls love that shit lol Most girls are drawn by a guy’s masculine energy , A guy that she can look up to

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  • Tie him up.

  • I’d say just initiate more, always have respect ready if things are not what he wants but he wants you to use him in the bedroom but enjoy it a lot and in real life be a leader. I think that’s what most subs kind of want

  • You should ask him. You might be surprised

    • We will meet next week at his place we maybe talk again I just want to have an idea before

    • Text him

    • Can you dm me?

  • it depends on how dominant he likes you to be, extremely dominant, tie him, whip him, peg him, humiliate him, or he just want you to take the lead, that's all.

  • Being face sitted. Piss play. May be. 🙂

    • You two need to talk a lot a out it. Spit roast?

  • he wants to serve you. make u happy. pleasure your sexual andcdaily needs. he just wanna be q good boy

    • thank you mistress

    • You are so sweet

    • thank you milady. its a honor to give you good answers

  • In the bad. He will slap ur face slap ur butt. Choked and deepthroat etc.. moslty roughf sex.. IRL i dunno

    • He will slap me? not the opposite?

    • Ah i read it wrong my bad

    • He wants order from u

  • It is all about what you want, use your imagination, please yourself using him

  • He wants you to be in control of his body, actions and orgasm. You touch him how you want, not how he wants. He touches you how you want, not how he wants to touch you. You control his orgasm, it is up to you if he orgasms or not.

  • They like dominant women who can guide them, lead them, love them and respect them yet treat them like your property. let him serve you, give him orders, do not consider what he wants - think of what you want, he has to match your desires, he has to make sacrifices, he has to obey you, keep it private - do not touch his professional life, never doubt your superiority over him.

    • That's very nice thank you

    • Anytime