What do you advise women in regards to getting drunk knowing how frequent drunk rape cases happen?

A woman loves alcohol but is afraid of getting rape while drunk.

What is your advice to her?

Drink but not too much
Vote A
Drink all you want. You are safe
Vote B
Drink all you want. Don't worry about drunk rape
Vote C
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So if she gets drunk while she is with her friends and wants to have sex with a stranger. What should her friends do in that situation?
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  • Soft jab at your poll options, you had a real oppourtunity to provide varying options but I guess that's just more evidence that you needed to ask in the first place. There are many tools today used to be safe while out drinking. Snapchat offers a location service and there are several other apps that allow you to ping your location. Ask the person you've been talking to what their job is and lead up to finding out the company name, lie detection training is free and easy to learn online to make this question more valuable. Ultimately you're the only one responsible for your own safety so the more effort you put into finding/researching the many clever ways to stay safe the better results you'll have. Good luck, I fear you'll need it, no offense.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Most of these "drunk rape" cases are just a girl who hooks up with a guy while drunk, and regrets it.

    Granted, a guy should never have sex with a girl when she's passed out- from alcohol, or when she's clearly falling all over the place, but I believe these are the exceptions to the rule.

    Girls often travel in packs as well, and it's a standard practice for the group to watch out for its members, which includes preventing them from going off with strangers.

    • I think "most" isn't accurate wording for the first statement and actually does a great disservice to the victims that experience rape in the form of people in your second point that don't see a problem with taking advantage of super drunk/passed out women.

    • @Notcreativenough What evidence do you have that "most" doesn't apply here? I point to every publicized campus rape case that the media has tried to make an issue about over the past 5-10 years.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. Unless you're in comforts of your own home and/or in the company of trustworthy people, just drink in moderation.

    2. Don't leave your drink unattended to prevent sinister people from slipping a date rape drug in.

  • Be smart. Either don't get drunk, or save your drinking for where and when you have trusted people to watch out for you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • drink with people you trust, stick with people you trust, know your limits

  • Don’t drink at all, it’s literally that easy.

  • Either date in groups, or don't over-indulge when you are on a date unless you know and trust your date. Don't get drunk unless you would be okay having sex with the guy.

    • "If she gets drunk while she is with her friends and wants to have sex with a stranger. What should her friends do in that situation?" If she knows that sh makes poor choices when she is drunk, she should discuss that possibility with her friends in advance.

  • I say the world's a dangerous place whether we liked it or not, I as a man if I know that the fuckin Albanian mafia hangs out in that certain place then I go to the place next to it and cause trouble then get kidnapped and shot in the head in the middle of nowhere who's fault is it? It's the same as jogging at 2 am alone while listening to music through earphones, how can people be so dumb, every person's job is to survive so don't put yourself in that situation to begin with

  • Drink in private. If she gets drunk and wants to fuck someone, don't let her because she's gonna ruin that guy's life.

  • I would just advise her to get drunk with her friends at her place to mitigate the potential problem.

    If she HAS to go out and get plastered, she stays with her friends the whole night. Doesn't matter if she wants to get fucked or not, no sex when drunk. Her friends clam jam her and keep her safe.

  • Drink at home. Have a buddy system. You're going to have drink with friends, number one use a ride service. You stay together until 1 gets home and the other one stays in the car until they get home

  • Same advice I give to myself, and to anyone else who drinks.

    Drink in moderation, don't overdo it, and always be aware of your surroundings. Don't put yourself in a situation that could be risky or dangerous.

    • Re: Your update. She and her friends should have talked about this before the evening started. Considering they haven't, her friends should politely intervene and take her home. If she's drunk, she cannot make legitimate decisions for herself... she will probably regret them later if she does.

  • Use common sense

  • Drink at home or with people you trust

  • None of the above. Always go out with a friend the more friends the better. Always let friends know where you are and who you are with. Let your friends know that you are safe and at home when the evening is done.

  • Drink at home with friends.

  • They should ask her what’s she wants and how she wants to handle the situation. If she herself wants a dude dick, as her well wishers tell her to be safe and be there for her is she need you guys. You should support her for her and make sure she is safe and comfortable. This is what I do to my female friends. ASAT

  • Drink at home without any guys around.

  • Someone who “loves alcohol” has a problem, so should not consume alcohol.
    The Alcoholics Anonymous definition of a problem is more than two drinks during a day, more than twice per week.
    I will defer to the collective wisdom of an organisation that was founded by and is comprised of alcoholics.

  • Always have a designated driver or sober person

  • I don’t drink more than two drinks in public. If I want to get drunk I’ll do it where I’m safe and don’t have to drive. If I pass out then I’m home or at a friend’s home.

    id recommend the same for everyone.

    and no one should have drunk sex unless it’s with someone with whom you’re already in a relationship. Otherwise regrets will surface. No drunk sex outside of a relationship.

  • Don’t drink.

  • Don't drink in public places.

  • simple: don't get drunk around people you don't know and never drink so much that you litterally pass out. get drunk in a safe environment and drink responsibly. that doesn't only go for women. men too.

    • also, i don't know who needs to hear this but: sex you regret the morning after is "regretable sex", not rape. we all do stupid things when we're drunk. don't make your mistakes other peoples problems.

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