What do you do when you want affection and there’s no one?

It would be nice to have someone for love making and affection without lust.. I’ve been in celibacy 4-5 years.. I have sex toys , but refuse to bed with someone.

Are you single and get like this?
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No temptation or lust more of control of my sexual urges when this pops up
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  • I don't get it? All sexual urges are a form of lust. So to indulge in the satisfing of the flesh is sex. You mean just only using toys and oral for ya? Sure. You'd have to find (technically is what it'd be) your non penetrating Master. Which is totally possible. Find your local dungeon, and look around.

    • No all sexual urges aren’t lust it’s a moment from time to time

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's really that hard for lesbians to find affection without lust and sex? :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllWomenArePrudes

    • Yes men and women can lust

    • Yea, but women are known for not lusting as much as men.

      tvtropes.org/.../AManIsAlwaysEager

    • I’ve been lesbian most of my life and lesbians can and will list the same bs men do with women is the same thing women do with women

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Honestly? I don’t know. I too have those moments where I crave companionship, cuddles, and a relationship. I mostly try to distract myself by reading a book or watching a show.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Usually just distract myself with politics until I'm exhausted. Or, back when personal ads were a thing on Craigslist I used to write steamy and/or hilarious ads and then troll all the guys who replied asking if I'd swing that way. Fun times, simpler days..

  • I'm single, but I don't yearn for skinship. It's more along the lines, "make do with what you have".

  • If there’s nobody in person then you have to go to the computer and get a computer girlfriend

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    • Nooooo..

    • F no

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