I did the Overseas thing and am years into happily ever after.
It is up to you, for your self protection, to ask and answer questions as best you can to the limits of a (?) language difference. When I did this, one my first emails was to tell her "how I want this to go" and gave her the steps I planned to take right down to a fiancée visa and marriage. I asked her if she would think in that direction and she said yes.
I was online with her for 14 months (no sexy online stuff) and I made two conjugal visits. When I was with her the first time, I declared her to be my wife and the rest was just paperwork and waiting. My second visit was, literally, our first vacation together.
Kinky Romantic aside: When I was with her sexually the first time, I placed an engagement ring on her finger at the moment of orgasm. It was hard to keep my mind on that, but I managed.
What he said was that he's calling it off because you're being flaky. I wouldn't travel overseas for someone who wasn't sure, either.
I hinted it only but for future reference. We where talking about making it official but because I told him I had no idea he wanted to be more than friends he had a second thought, and called it off. Guess he thought it was obvious
You hinted it, but only for future reference... I get it You're one of those people who think everyone else is stupid aren't you?
If you needed to ask the internet when the message is perfectly clear is telling.
he sounds angry or frustrated by the situation, so I wasn’t sure to wait till he cools off and see if he wants to try again..
What is the situation exactly?
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