Girls, what do you think about boys who have a big ego, is very aggressive and is very violent?

I'm a very egotistical person, I'm very aggressive, and I'm also very violent.

People, including girls, always hate me because of that, but I've also had the time where this girl was begging me to fuck her because I was being so aggressive, and she said that she gripped her tit when I said I will kill him. I also had this girl that threw herself at me even though I didn't want her to, because I was being so aggressive.

I had knew long ago, that girls like boys who are aggressive and violent, so when girls hate on me (online on Discord) because of how I act, I always deny it, knowing that deep inside, her feminine instincts are that "he can provide, he can protect".

But that is Discord, and it's online, a place where people can say whatever the fuck they want, so I'm here today, asking you girls to be frank about what you think about boys are have a big ego, is very aggressive and is also very violent.

Do you rather have a boy like me as your boyfriend, or do you rather have a passive boy as your boyfriend?

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  • for me confidence in guys is like my #1 turn on😅😅 but ego is nottttt🙅🏻‍♀️ i think aggressiveness can be super hot in the right time & place too!! but violence? no thanksssss😵😵 violence is immediate turn off and no contact🙅🏻‍♀️ just send me all the confident nonviolent men instead!!

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  • I recently rejected a guy who had a big ego and was arrogant. I was just so turned off by that to a point that I could not continue communicating with him in any way. I even told him the reason openly.
    Aggression and violence is also a deal-breaker to me.

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  • Having those qualities is what makes you a boy and not a man.

  • None of those are qualities I look for in a guy. I’ll take confidence over cockiness/ego every day.

    • A boy with a big ego is automatically very confident. A boy with a big ego does things that any normal boy who is confident can never do. A boy with a big ego can go into those dangerous situations saying and thinking that he can tackle it, and say, think and do it without fear, while a confident boy will always remain true to himself, knowing that he cannot do it, and will almost certainly never be able to do it. An egotistical boy will attract more girls than a confident boy because the egotistical boy manifests much more confidence with his inflated self-esteem. People often associate a boy with large ego as being insecure, like they do with me, but very often on the contrary, this is the type of boy who has a lot ofconfidence, nothing that he is insecure about. Arrogance is ego that is overbearing, which is cockiness. For instance, if you keep saying that you will beat me in a fight but you're untrained, than you are guaranteed to lose, because I'm a trained killer. That's arrogance. If you say that you can beat a person in a game that you are bad at, and you are literally bad at the game, and everyone knows that, and you keep saying that you will beat him, then that is arrogance, because at those points, it just becomes so annoying and frustrating; it's ego but overbearing. More or less, it really depends how it comes off, because arrogance is also ego, but nevertheless, there is the confidence that a boy who is just confident will never be able to manifest. Nevertheless, those are still attractive traits to girls, because it shows that the boy is able to put up a fight and has great self-confidence and confidence.

  • There's this nice balanced little place that's middling perfectly between aggressive and passive. I'll look there, thanks, because neither sound that alluring, and both give me the heavy impression they wouldn't last long.

    • What do you mean by "they wouldn't last long"?

    • Relationship-wise, I can't see them prevailing.

    • What about a big with a big ego? You can have the balance between aggressiveness and passiveness, but can you put up with him being so full of himself? It will show in one way or another sooner or later in the relationship. Is it attractive, hot?

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  • Such men are the weakest emotionally.

  • Sounds like you’ve never had sex.

    • So boys like me are a bad thing?

    • Depends on the boy.

  • Certainly not someone I would even bother giving the time of day for.

  • Violence is a turnoff but at least the sex is good, problem there is I may not be in the mood... That's not someone I'd date

  • I try to avoid them.

  • Egotistical and violent? I'm not a fan.

  • Well we only like u for being aggressive sexually otherwise being violent n aggressive is never going to be acceptable honey

    • Does a boy being egotistical, aggressive and violent not turn you on, like I think it does? It's primal. A boy like that manifests a lot of confidence and can fight; can fend of attackers and can hunt, can be a good provider.

    • Yea ofcourse it turns me on but well u can't stay violent all the times

    • Ok, so aggression and violence in men does turn you on, but what about a boy with a big ego? This is the guy you see being so full of himself, having great self-confidence, saying things that he clearly he cannot do, and just having an exaggerated sense of self-esteem. Can you put up with him? Is it attractive and/or hot to you?

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