What do you think about "degrading" sex?

It's a hot fantasy for me to be degraded in bed 😶
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Most Helpful Girls

  • As a dominant and sadist, I am often asked to degrade people emotionally. I don't do that. I don't degrade people's bodies either. I don't think it's very healthy to want to be emotionally abused in that way. Even if you consent to it, I still think it's beyond the scope of ethical BDSM and D/S for a dominant partner to do that.

    But it also depends on what you consider degrading.

    Men come to me and say "I want you to degrade me by forcing me to lick your p***y." And I think, "what is degrading about that? Giving a woman oral sex is incredible. It's not degrading at all, and seeing it as degrading is pretty insulting to women."

    • haha I get it XD

    • those boys should lick dirty boots your stink feet instead

    • @coolguy277 I don't let people fuck up my shoes with spit. And my feet have never stunk a day in my life.

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  • I loved being called names in bed – whore, slut, cum slut, etc but it’s really hard to find guys who will actually use these names. Even if I ask for the guy to use that kind of language they feel like theyre doing something wrong. They don’t get that it’s one of the easiest ways to turn me on.

  • Everyone has their kink and that's a super common one, I'm the same 😂

Most Helpful Guys

  • Me and my girlfriend both loves it.

    She loves to be dominated and get degraded physically and verbally. She's so super kinky and developed a high amount of trust with me so over time she opened herself more through her comfort zone. It's so enjoyable and turn on for her to be dominated and controlled in bed.

    I enjoy it too because naturally i'm dominant. So we entirely melt each other down through these fantasies.

    Good Luck.

  • I've been with several girls who were WAY into it. My current girl likes a little of it now and then, but she's more of a "show, don't tell" kind of girl.

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  • For me it is something that I have never been interested in and several guys in my past soon learned that and were instantly gone.

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  • A no no for me

  • I like it a lot. My boyfriend does it sometimes which i love but i wish it was more often

  • Not unusual for people who normally don't get degraded to be interested in that.

    • Do you like it?

    • @aaa9501 undecided.

    • Lol have you ever done it before?

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  • I can relate to an extent. My hot fantasy is for her to physically dominate me, rough me up a bit and to do it because we both get off on it. Degradation & humiliation aren’t in it, but I do get it.

  • I like it best.

    • Like breaking down organic hydrocarbons

  • I love it

    • That's hot. So you like being called a dirty whore and naughty slut?

    • @aaa9501 only in a sexual setting

  • All that matters is whether or not it's hot for you. Everyone has their fantasies, and some of them may seem odd to others or extreme, but only you can determine what turns you on, not someone else.

  • Not for me :/

  • I only like high grade sex

  • Like role play maybe but i dont want to really be disrespected

  • Can be pretty hot when the girl is into it :)

  • Same. I fantasize about being dominated and being tied up and shit.

  • Sounds fun but I wouldn't want my partner to call me any names because I might get my feelings hurt.

  • It's kinky stuff some of mine fantasy too🙈

  • If that's what you like then that's fine. As long as it's doesn't become something painful that depresses you it causes blatant pain.

  • If my partner would be into it, it would be a huge turn-on for me to be degrading her in bed.

  • Not me. I'd rather build up, rather than tear down. If there HAS to be degrading, I'D be the one to take it!

  • Not into it

  • so hot

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