What do you think about fuck buddies? Pros and cons? is it better than having a bf/gf?

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  • It definitely comes with it's own host of challenges, my work leaves me with no time for relationships so this has become the norm for me, it kinda sucks tho cause I'm the relationship type. The thing is that if you're having sex with someone, you're not just interested in their body 99% of the time. Being fuck buddies means you will probably do this more than once which will eventually cause feelings or emotions to run high. One or the other is eventually gonna ask for something more, at least in my experience. One girl I really started to like but like I said my work keeps me from intimate relationships so I just chose to stop seeing her altogether. I didn't want to but I knew if we kept things going the way we were I may never have a chance to get to know her again in the future. Unless you know without a shadow of a doubt you won't ever see yourself in a relationship with that person, don't do it. If there's even a hint of personality chemistry that transcends a physical relationship it will fuck up.

  • That depends of your needs. If you just need sex, it could be silly to take a boy/girlfriend.
    Please, not "fuck buddies", it's ugly, say "sex friends" or "friends with benefits".

Most Helpful Girls

  • One of my guy friends asked to to start a 'friends with benefits' thing with him a couple of months ago, and I said no to it. Cause we're friends, it'd be too weird to do that sort of thing with him, plus if something were to go wrong (not that I'm saying it would), I might end up losing him as a friend. He understood that, so it might work for you too

  • Pro-you have sex and flirt and don't have to worry about much else, Con-there's no commitment so they can flirt with someone else or drop you right away if they are really interested in someone else, you can start to have feelings for them or vice versa and the other person doesn't feel the same

  • Pros?
    You have sex whenever you want
    No need for explanations
    You have your bed for yourself
    You CUM and go
    No spending money on each other
    you can have more than one
    No emotions involved

    Cons?
    It will be temporary until someone better comes along

    • Fuck buddies were a lot of fun, but nothing is better than having sex with someone you love. Making love is wonderful! <3

  • i think the fact that 2 people just get together for sex without a deeper connection is so desperate. there's just no self respect present.

    i mean at least sex with a bf/gf means that there's some sort of emotional intimacy there.

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  • I'm not sure what this is, but can only imagine. NO THANKS>

  • pros: sex!, no commitment
    cons: might develop feelings, pregnancy..

    I don't think I could do this without catching feelings lol so id rather just have a boyfriend

    • That's the problem about friends with benefits, getting attached. That's why the best solution for me is a girlfriend.

  • I think it's better than a girlfriend, but that's just because I don't want one.

    So it depends on who you ask...

  • They're fucking stupid

  • If I have a boyfriend then I wouldn't need a fuck buddy or buddies. I can have sex with him any time I want. I rather have a boyfriend than a fuck buddy.

  • I think fuck buddies are stupid think for somebody who is not adult enough to have relationship. But immature people should not also have sex.

  • I've never had one but I'd rather just have a girlfriend. I'm not comfortable with casual sex so...

  • Better for a guy, worse for a girl.

  • I'd like more than one!! I think they are worth it if u have a good one!! ;-)