What do you think about sex without love. Like hookup, one night stand or friends with benefits?

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  • Back in my youth one-night stands (that is what term we used) were the norm.
    You spend time with someone at a bar and go home and screw each other's brains out.
    Sometimes you end up dating, or get together every once in a while, for a repeat performance, or you never see them again.
    It was guiltless sex, you weren't leading someone on just to get laid, and some nights were ok, other nights you had trouble walking the next morning.
    It was just recreational sex, no love, no expectations, just 2 people enjoying each other.
    It might not be for everyone, but as long as both parties are in agreement why not?
    I used to work for a construction company, we did road work and were gone most of the summer, and we worked way up north where a big town had a stop sign with a flashing light, and were in a bar and a girl walks in and announces "I want sex".
    She was pretty so I walked up, grabbed her and planted one on her lips, (kissed her) and said let's go.
    I never did regret that night.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think it is normal.

    The problem with women and sex is... they have this Disney view that you have to be in love. And when you have sex there will be cute little cartoon bunnies and such all around you. That is just nonsense.
    Many times, the first time with a new person and nothing seems to go right. It is awkward.
    But all these women that "wait for marriage", which with 25 years of marriage exp I can tell you is probably the worst thing you can do going into a marriage. You cannot learn sexual compatibility. You need to make sure you both are on the same page going into the marriage.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex does exist outside of love because at the end of the day it's physical pleasure much like masturbating. Is sex better with love? Absolutely but it can also happen just out of lust and not love.

  • 2 separate things. But can enhance each other

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  • Well I would take issue with the idea that sex itself is not a form of love. I believe pretty firmly in the literal meaning that having sex IS

    • stupid thing posted by accident before I was ready. I was saying, having sex IS making love. literally. So I think it's completely fine to have a purely sexual relationship with someone and still be able to say it is a relationship full of love. it's just not the same kind of love most people are talking about. So I really don't see what the problem is with people who just want one night stands, hookups or friends with benefits. it's all love based. it's just not the kind of love people like to count among the ones that matter. I just see it very differently. In fact I would go as far as to say I think most people should just be having sex all the time. if you find that one person you want to just have sex with for the rest of your life that's great. just have a good time fucking your way through the masses until you find them.

  • Pointless. I rather take care of myself then expose myself to whatever diseases a rando or someone I am not into has.

  • Gross.

    Those people ate tainted for life.

  • Sometimes, casual sex is exactly what a person needs. Other times, an emotional connection is preferred.

  • Sex is sex. Love is love.

  • If it ever happens, I'll let ya know!

  • Everyone is different. Some people want to be in a serious relationship before they will have sex, others don't care. Only you know what works for you.

  • I am personally against it all

  • Sex and love have nothing to do with each other.

  • Too risky to bother.

  • I'm okay with friends with benefits, but I'm not a fan of a ons or hookups.

  • At some points in your life it's preferable. Got no problem with it.

  • It’s always been like that for me

    • @desii_girl10 because of my traumatic childhood experience

  • I have only had a few one night stands (I used condoms every time) it was fun to get naked with someone new and share a bunch of great orgasms. How about you?

    • It's always exciting with a new person. Also i prefer friends with benefits. Less drama more fun

    • Agreed I am in a loose friends with benefits relationship right now in college. Lots of sex and no hassles

  • I essentially stopped having one night stands when I got married when that ended I hadn't had sex in 6 years so yeah I'm back at it today

  • Pretty normal I wouldn’t judge it

  • Pointless and adds trauma to the people involved

  • Everyone has needs and desires to each there own

  • Not against people who do it but I think at least some connection should be there like attraction and you should know the other person a little for having sex.

  • I'm all for it if you have an itch that needs scratched. Sometimes you just need to fuck and get off

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