What do you think about the age of first sex?

Is 16 too early to have sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Many girls have their first experience with sex by age 15 or 16.
    I lost my virginity at age 16 to a 15 year old girl who had had one previous boyfriend.
    If your boyfriend is a virgin, you don't have to worry about STDs. The only other must is to get on the pill or some other form of birth control. Condoms detract from the experience.
    But if you are physically mature and decide that you are ready to begin the journey into adulthood, then I think it's find to begin learning what it's like to be a woman. it's wonderful! I see nothing to lose.

    • thanks for inform me. I fear about the pain of it cause he is a virgin too and doesn't know what he should do well

    • All I can say to that is, you need to be aroused before penetration so that you'lll be good and wet. If he is willing, he could lick your clitoris and also get lots of saliva on your vagina. And try to look forward to it rather than being nervous. You're vagina should be relaxed. It won't be if you are nervous. Beyond that, tell him how much you want him inside you but to be gentle and slow at first. He shouldn't just plunge in. Although, if you have a tight hymen, he'll have to enter you far enough to make contact with it, and then make a sudden, quick push to break through. That will be the painful part for you. But after that, you're done. You'll never have to go through that again. I wish you the best of luck and great happiness.

  • Yes. Most people don't understand how sex works or what it actually is when they first do it. You have to speak about STIs, STDs, the possibility of pregnancy, the anatomy of your own genitalia, the anatomy of the female genitalia, contraceptives, what consent is, there's a lot. Very rarely are people ever ready to have sex but no one that young will ever be ready.

    • Thanks for inform me🙏 I can't think rational now thus I need to ask someone about it. I'll try to resist my feelings

Most Helpful Girls

  • Obviously for legal reasons many would point out you need to be at the age of consent for your country. But even then many girls won't be mentally mature enough. Others in my opinion may be too dumb to be having sex and shouldn't be allowed anywhere near a penis.

    • To be fair the same should be said of the owners of the penis. There should be a qualification the owner must pass before being allowed a penis in first place.

    • I entered puberty in my 9th age so I think I'm more mature than my peers and I want it but I fear about the pain of lose hymen cause my boyfriend hasn't have sex experience too

  • I think it varies, depending on the person. Some people are emotionally prepared for it in their early teens and some should wait longer. I do think that a teen girl should not have sex with any guys older than her... especially for the first time.

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  • Many kids have sex at 16. Doesn’t mean it was the right decision for all of them. I was 18 and I’m happy about it.

  • I said 15 the earliest. 14 is too early. I think 16 is good.

  • Ask your parents.

  • I'd wait quite a bit longer then that yes, how much longer depends on a lot of things.

  • I think that's way too early.

  • i had my first at the age of 16... she was too 16 and i banged her so I guess not too early

  • I would wait until 18 for intercourse

  • historically its quite common for people to lose their virginity before 18

  • That’s not too early. If you have other questions I’ll answer them also.

    • Does your boyfriend have a big penis? That may affect the pain.

  • Only you can truly decide. If the guy is pushing you, it is not the guy and not the time. When the right guy is in your life you will not need to ask us this question, you will know the answer. He will not push you.

    • I really want it but some of my friends says that it's too early for it also my boyfriend hasn't have sex experience so far thats why I fear about it

    • Your choice, as long as he is not pushy. If neither of you have experience, no big deal, you know the basics. Talk to each other, help each other out. I am not saying do it, just saying, your choice.

    • Thanks for your help. I'll talk to him about it

  • 16 seems average. Almost everyone I know lost their vcard around 16 or 17.