What do you think about the "Soft Swap" concept?

What do you think about the
I recently discovered a show online that's called, "Playboy TV Swing."
Couples go to the Playboy mansion to try swinging for the first time. Some like it, some hate it, and some just aren't sure. I like the show, because it's so damn rare to see something erotic, that actually has a plot, and makes you think.
What do you think about the
Every couple that goes to the mansion, agrees to their own set of rules, and the other swingers abide by and respect their rules. The couple below has a rule of Soft Swap, only. That means that they can do anything they want with another couple, except intercourse.
What do you think about the
I don't know why, but I found that rule to be quite fascinating. So a husband is OK with another man's dick in his wife's mouth, but just not in her vagina. (and vice versa)
And another rule that baked my noodle, was that some couples won't allow their spouses to kiss another person on the lips. So the hubby can kiss another woman's pussy, but just not her lips. Wifey can suck another man's dick, but not kiss his lips.
So I can see where this entire hobby would be a turn-off to some, and I can see how it would be a turn-on to some. But I'm fascinated by the rules, and what some couples deem as being off limits.

Question: If you were invited to the mansion, would you go? And if you'd go, what would be your rules?
What do you think about the
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My bags are packed!! Let’s goooo lol. I’m all for it!!!

    • LOL, me too. This site is baffling. Some have told me that the show if fake. Who gives a shit? What show isn't fake? Many say that this type of thing is horrible! lol Really? Then don't do it. My only question was about the rules or boundaries you might have. I never meant this question to be about the crime of the century. lol

    • I know right lmao! As long as it’s all in good fun who cares?

    • You should check out the show. Whether or not it's real, it's fun to watch.

  • would certainly love to participate.

    • Well, it sure does look like fun. :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm all for eating pussy, she can suck cock

    • What about you?

    • What do you think about the "Soft Swap" concept?
      I would lick that liquor off of her ass and pussy, and then guide by boyfriends cock in her.

  • it sounds quite good.

    • When he cums inside her will you suck the cum out of her pussy?

    • Thanks for selection!

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  • I think the whole thing is just wrong on so many levels. But then again to me an "open relationship" and swinging are wrong.

    I would not let another man put his dick in any of my wife's orifices. To me those rules are absurd. If you have a relationship where you are ok with your partner having any sexual/romantic contact with someone other than yourself... Call me old fashioned... But to me... that's messed up

  • As much as the guy in me would love a free pass for some NSA strange, haha, I’m not really wired to share my lady. I’m not the jealous type whatsoever, but I kind of expect that I’m living in a world where I don’t have to realistically worry about her hooking up with someone else, not to the point of naivety, but enough reasonable trust that she doesn’t live like that. So I just couldn’t give that permission to stray, as much as I’d selfishly love to partake, lmao, but that’s not a trade I’m willing to make. I feel like that could rear its head later in the relationship, or at least kind of eat at you silently, maybe you’d harbor some resentment or be regretful. Other people clearly don’t give a fuck, and god bless ‘em, do you. But my lady, SPOKEN FOR, that’s all me going forward haha. So two spots are up for grabs, we will not be attending😝

    • Good man

  • No swapping for me. If I have a sweet guy that I'm all in love with, the last thing I want to do is share his penis with another woman. He got his share of kisses, blow jobs, and other vaginastuff before we got together. I likewise got my share of fun with guys in years past. But now that we are an item, no way I'm swapping him off to another woman.

  • You really have to resort to this kind of trash to keep from being bored? These reality shows are for producers to make money. Most of it is scripted and not really "reality". People who watch this garbage have no life outside of TV.

    • LMAO Bored? You're wasting your time on GAG! You must not have a life.

    • Shit, you got me. But that just shows I can speak from experience. GAG just helps me let off steam.

    • Sure, but people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

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  • Well, my opinion is pretty negative about the whole thing. So, you love each other very much, right? And you want to spice things up. So you go to a swing party and agree upon some rules. "Because I love you so much, you can suck a dick, I'll find some pussy to lick, but for the love of God, don't kiss the guy because that's too much". Like, what the hell? If you guys love each other so much, respect each other, too. Now, I know, some will say "but that's a fetish, that's what excites them and they should be able to do it". No. They are a cheating scum who doesn't know how to control basic animalistic urges to stick a dick into something or have a dick being stuck into her something. I don't buy it, I think it's weird, creepy and highly disrespectful to your partner to even ask to do something like this. Those kinds of fetishes only fuel the already weakened moral aspects of relationships. Relationships should be a bonding of two people into a very deep, emotional union. And if you let, voluntarily, someone third to violate that union, then you aren't really ready for a relationship of any kimd because, to me, you are a very weak human being. Amd that is a very bad thing, because we have more and more weak human beings who lack basic self control and would do anything for a cheap physical thrill.

  • How can I find this online?

    • Just go to pornhub and enter in a search. Playboy has other TV series like this, but I don't like them. One is about foursomes, but it seems like they spend all their time arguing and stuff. Nothing more entertaining than a good argument! :)

  • I would not go, but I understand why men consider PIV more much more serious than oral.

    tvtropes.org/.../TechnicalVirgin

    • I would have never guessed that, but I find it interesting.

    • You would have never guessed that even though it's an common loophole abuse? :)

  • My rules are, we go there and I just start round-house kicking everyone in sight. Like a ninja, just BOOM now you're face is broken. However, they're not aloud to round-house kick me. They can round-house kick my girl, but only if I'm not looking. I just hear BOOM and it's OH NO my dear lady! So I just start round-house kicking in a circle, spinning like a helicopter until I take off, busting through the ceiling and ride a magic rainbow to a pot of gold.

    Very sexy, but I'm know I'm kinda insecure like that when I bring my lady to get banged by some dude.

  • My only one rule would be that she can do whatever the heck she wants as long as it's with another girl (or group of girls). And I'd let her do it even outside of that mansion and TV show.

    • 90% of the couples ONLY play with another girl. That seems to be the main rule.

    • I like the way they think lol

  • Thought they were just Z-list actors. Guess with reality TV, the line between fact and fiction blurs.

    The rules seem random. Look, if your partner really hits it off with someone, you're probably screwed no matter what rules you set up beforehand.

    You expect to keep her because you made a no-kissing rule if his dick feels 100 x as good as yours inside her? Not likely.

    • I'm sure the actors are fake, the show is fake, but that wasn't the point of my question. I was wondering what YOUR rules might be. That's the mind-candy I was seeking.

    • Rule: Formulate your question in the actual heading of the question.

    • Trust me, that doesn't work. This is GAG.

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  • I don't think I would do swinging for health reasons.

    • I understand, but that wasn't really my question. If you did go that route, what would be your personal rules?

  • No I wouldn't go

  • Some of these rules seem bizarre and picky.

  • I guess the show is fake. Just to excite couples

    • I'm sure it is fake, but what TV show or movie isn't? lol My question was about soft swap vs full swap. I was curious what people thought.

    • I'm open to idea of my girlfriend watching me with another girl or threesome of fmf. With me. But I'm single nowadays. Lol

  • I would never do that

    • Nor did I ask you if you would. Thank you.

    • Those are my thoughts

    • I know, and I understand. I've never once been able to write a question and have people understand what I meant. I guess I'm just shitty at conveying my message. My message wasn't meant to be about swinging vs not swinging. I was just interested in the rules that people put in place if they decide to do it. I'm guessing that you're not interested in any facet of this hobby, and I understand that. I was just intrigued by those that are willing to open the door to this, but only part way.

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  • I’m not married, so I can’t answer. 😎

    • Is that a GAG rule?

    • No, the photos showed married couples going to the Playboy mansion. I’m simply saying I’m not married.

    • What if I asked if you would be willing to live on Mars? It's just a hypothetical question. This site is just about questions and answers. I don't care if you're married or not. I just want your thoughts.

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  • My parents were swingers in the past and went to clubs. My mom sucked so much dick she got throat cancer from the HPV. No joke. She had a cancer growing on a gland in her throat she was very sick for a long time until the doctors found the source of her illness. It was a cancer from HPV.

  • Sounds like it might be fun in a way.

  • It's what works for them. For them the kissing is more intimate then fucking. Or oral is something that they are comfortable with their partner doing with others. It works for them so I guess it works.

    • I agree! Good answer.

  • Wonderful😀

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