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What do you think about the way women have the most sexual power when their young yet dumb?

Girls, are you angry about the injustice of this situation? You get hit on the most when you're young, which does not leave you much time to learn about your weaknesses that men may take advantage of in order to get you to have sex with them, or to learn how men think about relationships, or to learn about how to be the most successful at maintaining a healthy relationship with a good guy? By the time most women do learn how to be successful with men, they have wrinkles and men don't want them anymore. Meanwhile, men get to keep learning about women their whole lives, and they're in their sexual prime when they're older and have implicitly learned how to react to all of women's hard to get games in a way that maintains women's low self-esteem estime (called having a rotation of women going on whereby the women never know when he'll call, cause he's purposely on to women's power games).

Guys, how do you feel about how easy women can be to get sex out of when they're younger due to them having no self esteem as well as the difficulty to ask directly for what they want? I mean it must be annoying as well for you, as you have to put up with how much drama women cause as a result of their low self-esteem.

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  • OMG Bethany, I wish I could first give you a big fat crushing hug to give you all the confidence I have and squeeze out all your anguish. I as a guy never feel the way u do, but I feel your pain and cynicism. But may I tell you, you are being too hard on yourself. First find out what is it that you truly want both in a relationship and also sexually, and I will show you a simple step by step approach to reach them both. Your wants are so simple and basic you should have no problem in reaching them. Don't take all your problems all at once, attack each one separately.

    Yes you are right and woman by her lot is a more insecure situation, Freud described it as, Penis envy, now these are all very complex, deep and sophisticated concepts, don't let them worry you. But always remember, neither men or women have it any better, whatever advantage either sex has in one area, is then a less advantage in another area, so it all evens out. Whether you are a man or women, it all depends how you play the cards you are dealt with. Always learn from your mistakes and be positive. Like I said tell me exactly at each step what you want, and I'll show you how to swing it. As I said your wants are very basic, get a guy, have a little romance/intimacy etc. Those are all very simple things. You seem to be a little down on confidence that's all. I saw ur pic and you are uber beautiful, I think you are a stunner, so that is a start and makes it much easier. Tell me which guy you are really trying for and I'll think of a way to get him. But remember, getting the partner you want is easier than then making that relationship work, that is much harder. That is why you must choose wisely. Don't go for looks, or money, but go for the total package etc. However, it will be a little of a chase with ups and downs, thats life, learn to live life on life's terms, but never compromise, shoot for what you really want, make your heart ur guide. God bless you, and just take things a little easy nothing is worth getting upset about, you have more going for you than most.

  • How is it fair that men start their adult lives with ZERO sexual value, and must work so hard and build their value, which most don't achieve until long AFTER their own sexual peak years? Did you know that nearly half of all men under 30 are either virgins or have not had sex in more than a year? Even though their sexual peak years are 16-25?

    The reality is that the world isn't always fair. But here's the difference: men are told (by everyone!) what their reality is, and are told to suck it up and work harder and do better if they want any hope of getting a girl. Meanwhile, most women are coddled and lied to and sold a package of lies that they are all princesses and that they all deserve the very, very best of everything, and shouldn't have to provide anything in return.

    I don't disagree with your premise - it's true that women have their greatest sexual power when they are young and inexperienced, but in the past, women used to be told the truth, and had a support system around them that prepared them for the decisions they needed to make. Moms and grandmothers taught their daughters about the reality of the world, and their dads generally vetted their suitors, because they desired to protect her and give her the best possible long-term outcome.

    Feminism specifically set out to destroy all that, and largely accomplished that mission. Are women better off as a result? That's for women to decide, but what is true without question is that women report being FAR more unhappy today than before these changes were put into place.

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  • I disagree that every woman who is sexually active has low self esteem. It presupposes that having self esteem means that the only goal in life is to get "married" and have babies. And I think "purity" is an absurd concept.

    I think that sexually active women, in many cases, are the normal ones. They want to experience life to the fullest (in every way, not just sexually), as opposed to being mere baby factories.

    I respect women who want boyfriends and aren't sexually inhibited. As they learn from life, they gain knowledge and experience, and become mature and discerning enough to be a good partner and mother, and to choose a man who will be a good partner and father.

    Guys go through the same learning process.

    Older guys who go after young women are only interested in appearance. They are like the kind of women who are mainly interested in money and status.

    Women in their late 20s and 30s aren't old and wrinkly. Even if they no longer look like a 20 year old, their appearance has developed character. But by that time, most have gained the ability to recognize a good man. Plus, there are studies that indicate that the ideal age for a woman to have babies and be a great mother is in her late 20s to early 30s.

  • Arrgh , you make some absolutely wonderful points , so very true.

  • That's literally what parents are for. If a woman's parents didn't teach her all that stuff, they are failures at being parents.

  • I really hate that and have always hated them making me a 'SLAVE" to my erections they way they always have! I hate it, I hate it, I hate it. Even when they were young and dumb and I was young and dumber, they ALWAYS saw that bulge in my Levis, and knew what it was and pointed and snickered, in my kindergarten class.

    They always seemed to know how to bring on that wet spot in my diaper, and that was soooooo frustrating, I wanted to throw my baby bottle at 'em. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • They're at their most attractive and most fertile point. Their SUPPOSED to have the most sexual power! That's the way we're "designed". All the other animals start having young when they, themselves, are still young! They say a dog ages 7 years for every one of ours, that means that my dog had puppies when she was only about 8 years old in dog years!
    I understand the whole pedophilia thing and little girls SHOULDN'T be having babies and we don't fully mature until we're 24 years old but, still, according to laws, we're completely wasting our most productive years!

  • You just gotta get over yourself lol. Realize that power over a large generalization of people is not something healthy to want. You want integrity in yourself and integrity in a relationship.
    Basically: who gives a fuck, bro? Go figure out your life.

  • this is a spot where parents, honestly and truthfully, teaching their children comes into play and is very important. yes both are best to teach from both gender perspectives. then if more homes do this the children can exoand some with their discussions with peers since there mite be this one piece child A's parents taught him/her that child B's patents either missed on or did not know themselves.

  • If your dumb you woint realize you can withhold sex or tease a way to influence a guy’s decision and persuade as bribe. But you make it benefit you if your horny

  • Muwahahaha! Take that women! Once again your plebeian rodent dreams of equality have been crushed upon the shores of this mighty Red White And Blue patriarchy! Again HA! #TeamDikinbaus

  • It’s interesting. Both genders suffer in their own way. Parenting is so important when it comes to dating. A well raised young woman should know how to not be dumb in the dating world

  • We were taught in Biology that men reach their sexual peak (hormones and sperm-count, etc) aged 17 or 18.

    Women reach their equivalent peak at between 28 and 30.

  • Women are very sexy. What's wrong with it?

  • true

  • Actually, women are much easier to get sex from when they're older. They want it more, they appreciate it more, and they take it for granted less.

    There are two sides to this coin. Women have all the power when they are younger, and young men tend to resent that. After about age 30 the tables turn and its men who have the power.

    Is that fair? I think so.

    • No, because what I'm trying to explain is that while women have their power when they're still too young to have developed any strategies to get what they want out of relationships, men get their whole lives to practice what works and what doesn't.

    • Hey, I think if you know you don't understand how to establish that with a man, you need to find out why that is and talk to someone about it.

    • I understood what you were trying to explain. No need to repeat it. I was just correcting some inaccuracies for you, and pointing out that your concept of 'injustice" is very gynocentric.

  • There's a very small amount of bad people who ruin dating for everyone. Players and fuckboys who trick naive women, getting most of the women to have sex and ghosting them making them feel used. Slutty girls who sleep around and do friends with benefits, making all guys think every girl is promiscuous and turning them off women and commitment.

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