What do you think about this case?

My friends daughter is 24 and needs money. She took a ride from a dad's friend who is 57 and she confided in him about her situation ahe later asked him if he wants to have sex with her for money, and she gave him a BJ, rimjob, and they had sex.

I felt pretty conflicted about it.
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  • This is complex depending on your integrity level. here's one of possibly many but doubtful, when analyzing situations of which sadly you had no exposure to it takes away the sense of knowing should it ever rears its ugly head. In this case use their brain when attempting to answer for their decision. When you don't follow the code of human beings it's more unspoken than any organization existing. Quick example I male, you female for literal purposes you drop your wallet, we connect via eyes And as a gentleman handed it to you versus you dropped your wallet and as I picked it up I started going through its contents also if you meet someone and they offer salutations via handshake hood gesture but if the hand is extended to your backside and squeeze your booty hey See what I mean. If you're able to assess ANY situation thoroughly then and only then will you see it clearly. Always remember the average doesn't but the un average do. Imagine whatever you need to know you do. Now how do you facilitate with people? But if your standards are high then you will be do far ahead that the average person wouldn't think of associating with you which is hood because the average do not have to offer but to take with subliminal unconditional assumed amongst people that you will reciprocate. It's what you eouldnt couldn't but guess what you got knowledge and I'm glad to have taken the time to give you an over lifetime if experience, advice, fact and just plain human reality. It's her thing if you decide you wish to intervene make sure without a doubt you know the overall circumstances surrounding these peoples lives cause it could be completely weird far fetched who knows if you're not going to invest as if you have an investment then you must stay on the sidelines.

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  • As your friend's friend, and although you are pretty conflicted, it is your responsibility to do nothing.


    Were you present when your friend's daughter took a ride from a dad's friend? How do you know she confided in him about her situation and later asked him if he wants to have sex with her for money?


    She may or may not have asked him for money or given him a BJ, rimjob, and had sex.


    But it is an assumed consensual affair between two ADULTS, who are entitled to their privacy. You can and should do nothing, unless one of them claims a crime was committed.

    • Thank you for MHG!

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  • He took advantage of her situation and she consented to it, hell she even initiated it. Sure, you could argue that desperation makes for bad decisions, but she's an adult and willingly chose to make him that offer. The fact that the man is someone she knows actually makes it a much safer choice than some random guy who could take even more advantage of her vulnerability and abuse her for the money he pays.

  • yeah I would say that next time she needs "money" she should go find a regular job. I worked at a call center at 24, working 40-60 hours a week making 12$ an hour! That's what she should be doing.

    • That sounds like a shitty job for too little pay. If you hated it, then you shouldn't suggest her doing the same thing. Plus don't judge just because she was willing and made a choice based on her situation. Maybe she needed more money immediately that a $12 hour job couldn't get her.

    • @Iknowbestgirls you dont have daughters. Or else u would not have said that. Sucking dick for money is not ok.

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  • Is this some porn plot? How do you even know this story? I mean, why would the girl or anyone from her family volunteer this information to you?

  • Disturbing

  • If she was doin escorting for a business/job, I wouldn't have seen a problem with it. She's working, paying her bills and living her life. Because he was friends or an acquaintance of her dad's, he should've declined or just offered/loaned the money to her. I think a friendship is more valuable than a quick sexual release. I would never do something like that with a friend's daughter or wife for that matter. I probably would've had a private conversation with her father to let him know that she was in trouble.

  • HER (questionable) choice...
    many desperate people barter their innate talents for legal tender;
    pragmatically 'intimate massage' well done, is no different

    Ask any of the sanctimonious generation's WW II vets about
    the 'value' of cigarettes, chocolate bars or nylons?

  • What's your conflict?

  • Well it was prostitution. But really not your concern. As long as it isn’t your daughter, this doesn’t have much to do with you.

  • Well , just like a sugar baby , she offered , she made a decision , he took her up on , its not for me to judge anyone. Demand v Supply , I dont have an issue with it.

  • Pretty weird you "found out" about this. Is this some kind of weird excuse for you to share in an odd perversion? You just invited me to answer two weird-ass questions.

    • What the fuck are you on about? Go take your shit somewhere else

    • I'm on about you being an absolute weirdo, don't send me a bunch of invites slag.

    • You are a weirdo yourself

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  • Well she basically just whored herself out.

  • I do believe that some people think sex is a form of payment instead of money which I do not agree with

  • She's is old enough to make her own bad decisions.

  • They are both adults.

  • She's pretty desperate for money. They are consenting adults. It was her choice to participate. Who knows, maybe she enjoyed do it?

  • Sounds like she is trying to earn money lol

  • At 24, she's an adult and is responsible for her actions. It's not an ideal situation but if that's what she wants to do, who are we to criticize her?

  • I would be too.

  • In my opinion she was desperated and him an abuser. How can a normal person ever exploit the situation of his friend's daughter so to get sex?

    If he gave her the money after she had sex with him, means that he had it and he could also give it without humiliating her.

  • Well she seems to feel fine about the decision if she shares the details about it to her parents. It's questionable legally depending where she lives, but morally I don't see a problem with it. She offered, he accepted, nobody seemed forced. So I'd say it's fine.

  • Um that's really messed up

  • I mean, ultimately she made an adult decision. Was it a right decision, well that will always be up for debate, however she made an adult decision and nothing was forced.

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