Why do some people describe having sex until marriage as a disgusting thing? Because of these taboos, I can't be feminine. I suppress my gender and desires and I have fears about sexuality. I can't find a reliable boyfriend either.
Many years ago it is the very last day of school I was in my very last class and the teacher handed out to all of us little flyer say what are you going to do since you graduated and it had a list of 20 questions on there we had to answer them all and then we had to pass them forward passing to the right passing forward passing to the left or the right and then she started asking questions on each question that she had asked there was one question that said when you get married do you want to marry a virgin or somebody that's not a virgin she has three or four people what was on their paper and then she said did anybody have a answer that says they want to marry a virgin well this was a hard question for me but I was the only person in there that said they wanted to marry a virgin I lost my virginity when I was 15 and a half 16 years old and I can tell you it was one of the best experiences ever because it it totally sucked but I was lucky because the girl that I lost it too was 19 she was home for the couple weeks for college break we had sex I thought it was terrible she said it was great we did it two more times it was the same thing I was angry because I thought for sure I was going to go to hell and all three times sucked according to me according to her it was great on the fourth time she called me up and said her mom is going to be gone Saturday for me to come over so I did I had three days to think about it how was that going to make it the best when I got there I did everything completely opposite and it was the best out of all four times it was absolutely the greatest because I made it all about her I changed everything up anyway being a virgin I think is a beautiful thing for a lot of different reasons done single right now and if I had an opportunity to go out with the Virgin I definitely could do it and I would explain to her that I'm not a virgin but I have needs and when I'm in a relationship I'm 100% committed I would ask her to do me a favor we could make out have foreplay and even go as far as doing everything except for penetration there's something very sexy about that and very hot but I would want to keep her virgin if that's what she wanted I respect that but I would still want to let her feel but it feels like to have the best orgasm and there's ways to go about that I think it's a beautiful thing and I think you should do what you want to do you have more strength than me you're a better person than me because I wanted to feel what it felt like at an early age and I do not want to wait I mean there's a lot more to it I would love to tell you but I'm at at a room text anymore
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I highly value a virginity, I am not into hos, I also respect girls who wait until marriage.
Try finding a reliable boyfriend while HAVING sex before marriage! It's even harder.
Also, you say you're suppressing your femininity? Well, welcome to the club. We men have been suppressing our masculinity for the past 30 years.
I don't find anything wrong with it.
You can be as feminine as you like
As you know everybody is different
I agree. There's absolutely nothing wrong with femininity.
Most probably just don't see a reason to wait until marriage. If you want to do it you can, but for many it's just a holdover from the past
As an advocate for abstinence for reasons other than religion I'd say waiting until marriage is ideal for many reasons and having sex before that leads to instability in that aspect of life. That's the short version if you're interested in the details then speak up
Very few men expect to find a woman to marry who is a virgin. Most just want one who hasn't been promiscuous having a lot of casual sex outside of a committed relationship. that's just a big turnoff to most guys.
That has a lot to do with how such a person was raised.
I have question...
Why people wait till marriage for sex?
some because of their religious views. My reason is family pressure
Ohk. Than what you do you get divorce from you husband after having sex. ?
No, you get me wrong. I'm not against it, my family and the society I grew up in and live in now mostly (80-90%) think like this. My problem is that I have experienced these taboos and traumatic events, that's why I can't be comfortable.
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