I'm a 28 year old and I'm still virgin because it's a big deal for me to lose my virginity before marriage. So, is it weird for you that I'm only want to lose it on my wedding night?
I’ve dated two virgins. Both were very weird and it made sense why they had never had sex. It was cute when they first told me but once I got to know them it became clear why they had never had sex.
So for me if a woman is a virgin in her mid 20’s and onward, it’s a red flag. Unless she’s abstinent or religious it’s a red flag for me.
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arabgoddessYoda
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Good on you for having self respect for your body.. I was just like you and waited till wedding night.. It was a huge mistake!! I encourage all girl to at least make out or do half sex before in case it didn't go down so well 😬😬
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TheRealQuestion2
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What went wrong if i may ask?
arabgoddess
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Weren't sexual compatible.. It was dead lol
TheRealQuestion2
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Thats gotta suck. How were the two of you incompatible?
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arabgoddess
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Actually we're incompatible.. Didn't really know him when I got married.. It's been 11 yrs!
TheRealQuestion2
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Ahh ok. So it just took some time to adjust.
arabgoddess
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Lol it never adjusted..
TheRealQuestion2
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So im confused... You got married, found out you were incompatible, and you're still together 11 years later? Or you're not together? 😶
arabgoddess
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Still together... no sex
TheRealQuestion2
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Im sorry. 😣 but im still curious how you and he are incompatible.
arabgoddess
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On all levels.. Personality, mentally, values, he's sexually attracted to me but I am not at all. It was not meant to happen but I didn't know better at the time.
TheRealQuestion2
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Its sad. Is there no hope? Could he learn to be what you need?
arabgoddess
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No.. Also you can't force someone to love you the way you want or have sex with you if they don't feel safe or comfortable. Some catholic priests have woken up to the consequences of no sex before marriage... Hence why there's so many divorces
TheRealQuestion2
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I think most priests are supposed to be celibate. And im fairly certain that most marriages today come after sex. I doubt that waiting till after marriage for sex would cause as big of an impact as you seem to infer.
arabgoddess
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Our priests our married and have kids so they understand. Every couple is different 🤷♀️everyone experiences different things
TheRealQuestion2
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Very true, everyone is different.
sean1234Guru
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Its not weird... will you marry me? XD lol! Ladies and gentlemen, the perfect woman! :) Miss Anonymous 2019
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JbarryXper 3
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It's great. No worries.
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shanto_nsXper 2
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Doesn't matter, I just want a girlfriend, and that's it, virgin or not black or not, it doesn't a matter in a relationship, love and understanding, and care 😊🌈🖤🌈💫
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dahvoXper 2
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I think you are amazing! Thank you for being so unique and special.
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LemiaExplorer
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Sex is enjoyable no matter what age you lose your v. Just remember blood sweet and some tears
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Reaperbot666Guru
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Rare to find people willing to wait until marriage these day. Depending on where you live that is.
But it is totally your choice to wait.
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Asker
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Well, is it OK for you to be in a relationship with a virgin woman? And will you respect her if she told you she can't have a sex with you until she gets married?
Reaperbot666
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1) do you mean anything and everything sexual? 2) do you just mean penetration? 3) do you just mean traditional penis into vagina sex? at any rate. if we got along well and I really liked her. I would/could be willing to wait until she is ready. however I am unsure if I will or want to get married myself. have seen a lot of marriages fall apart over the years. yet people who have been together for longer. stay together and loyal to get other. without getting married by church or state.
ECityGirl89Xper 6
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My ex boyfriend was a virgin when I first met him he was 28. I think people have their moments wanting to wait for that special someone but if you feel best to lose it on your wedding night that’s all up to you. I never judge people for what they decide for their sexuality desires I guess in that term. He said he had no regrets and you know what it’s something special people have it’s up to you.
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DargilMaster
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Nope. It's a fair choice but total abstinence is a problem for a satisfying relationship.
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ShadowofRegretGuru
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Not at all, I am the same way!😄
I am saving myself for a particular woman.
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Kayla45Guru
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They're people
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Ripper_EMaster
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That is entirely your choice. I don't think it's weird.
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Alexandrubaschet08Guru
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I'm just very surprised that you still exist. Personaly i whant to ask how do you hadle the temptation of sex? You don't feel good to kiss? to cudle? how can you keep youreself virgin whntile 28 and even farder?
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Asker
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You surprised because is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Asker
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Alexandrubaschet08
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i think is a good one, religion aprove me, but moust of people don't care enymore about that, but olso i whant more experimented girl and olso i don't minde to have a virgin wife or a sluty one, i just don't understand how can you still be and whant to be a virgin in our times, can you explain that to me?
LegendhardonXper 5
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Its fine dont worry about it ☺ .
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CasaNorbaGuru
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I think virgins are just normal humans.
till then I hate to break it to you but losing your virginity before or during marriage does not make any difference. I still dont understand why so many people obsess over saving their virginity till marriage today in 2019 (almost 2020)
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sean1234
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because most who do, do it before marriage end up being single parents? lol
CasaNorba
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@sean1234 not sure if that makes any sense since marriage doesn't save you from anything. is not as necessary or even as natural as breathing or eating. its just man made scheme created as a liability in a relationship; all part of a business.
sean1234
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It was created by God, not man. Its in the bible. But then again, one should obey the rules and commandments of God/Jesus also. Marriage and God go hand in hand.
Shark_61695Yoda
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Indifference, I'm a virgin but it isn't something that matters to me either way.
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genericname85Master
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I don't mind a virgin but if she waits to marriage, I'll move on. That's a deal breaker.
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xane838
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So you rather a woman who has been with 10 guys vs 1. I say 10 because the average woman nowadays have that many partners before settling down because they have to fk a football field to know if the guy has good dk
genericname85
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@xane838 I don't mind her having previous partners. That means she probably knows what she wants. For me, without having had sex I can't decide if I want her, so waiting till marriage for me is not gonna happen.
xane838
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okay
Titanic1912Guru
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No. I’m wanting to lose my virginity on my wedding night too.
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16 75I’ve dated two virgins. Both were very weird and it made sense why they had never had sex. It was cute when they first told me but once I got to know them it became clear why they had never had sex.
So for me if a woman is a virgin in her mid 20’s and onward, it’s a red flag. Unless she’s abstinent or religious it’s a red flag for me.
Good on you for having self respect for your body..
I was just like you and waited till wedding night.. It was a huge mistake!! I encourage all girl to at least make out or do half sex before in case it didn't go down so well 😬😬
What went wrong if i may ask?
Weren't sexual compatible.. It was dead lol
Thats gotta suck. How were the two of you incompatible?
Actually we're incompatible.. Didn't really know him when I got married.. It's been 11 yrs!
Ahh ok. So it just took some time to adjust.
Lol it never adjusted..
So im confused... You got married, found out you were incompatible, and you're still together 11 years later? Or you're not together? 😶
Still together... no sex
Im sorry. 😣 but im still curious how you and he are incompatible.
On all levels.. Personality, mentally, values, he's sexually attracted to me but I am not at all. It was not meant to happen but I didn't know better at the time.
Its sad. Is there no hope? Could he learn to be what you need?
No.. Also you can't force someone to love you the way you want or have sex with you if they don't feel safe or comfortable. Some catholic priests have woken up to the consequences of no sex before marriage... Hence why there's so many divorces
I think most priests are supposed to be celibate. And im fairly certain that most marriages today come after sex. I doubt that waiting till after marriage for sex would cause as big of an impact as you seem to infer.
Our priests our married and have kids so they understand. Every couple is different 🤷♀️everyone experiences different things
Very true, everyone is different.
Its not weird... will you marry me? XD lol! Ladies and gentlemen, the perfect woman! :) Miss Anonymous 2019
It's great. No worries.
Doesn't matter, I just want a girlfriend, and that's it, virgin or not black or not, it doesn't a matter in a relationship, love and understanding, and care 😊🌈🖤🌈💫
I think you are amazing! Thank you for being so unique and special.
Sex is enjoyable no matter what age you lose your v. Just remember blood sweet and some tears
Rare to find people willing to wait until marriage these day. Depending on where you live that is.
But it is totally your choice to wait.
Well, is it OK for you to be in a relationship with a virgin woman? And will you respect her if she told you she can't have a sex with you until she gets married?
1) do you mean anything and everything sexual? 2) do you just mean penetration? 3) do you just mean traditional penis into vagina sex? at any rate. if we got along well and I really liked her. I would/could be willing to wait until she is ready. however I am unsure if I will or want to get married myself. have seen a lot of marriages fall apart over the years. yet people who have been together for longer. stay together and loyal to get other. without getting married by church or state.
My ex boyfriend was a virgin when I first met him he was 28. I think people have their moments wanting to wait for that special someone but if you feel best to lose it on your wedding night that’s all up to you. I never judge people for what they decide for their sexuality desires I guess in that term. He said he had no regrets and you know what it’s something special people have it’s up to you.
Nope. It's a fair choice but total abstinence is a problem for a satisfying relationship.
Not at all, I am the same way!😄
I am saving myself for a particular woman.
They're people
That is entirely your choice. I don't think it's weird.
I'm just very surprised that you still exist. Personaly i whant to ask how do you hadle the temptation of sex? You don't feel good to kiss? to cudle? how can you keep youreself virgin whntile 28 and even farder?
You surprised because is it a bad thing or a good thing?
You're *
i think is a good one, religion aprove me, but moust of people don't care enymore about that, but olso i whant more experimented girl and olso i don't minde to have a virgin wife or a sluty one, i just don't understand how can you still be and whant to be a virgin in our times, can you explain that to me?
Its fine dont worry about it ☺ .
I think virgins are just normal humans.
till then I hate to break it to you but losing your virginity before or during marriage does not make any difference. I still dont understand why so many people obsess over saving their virginity till marriage today in 2019 (almost 2020)
because most who do, do it before marriage end up being single parents? lol
@sean1234 not sure if that makes any sense since marriage doesn't save you from anything. is not as necessary or even as natural as breathing or eating. its just man made scheme created as a liability in a relationship; all part of a business.
It was created by God, not man. Its in the bible. But then again, one should obey the rules and commandments of God/Jesus also. Marriage and God go hand in hand.
Indifference, I'm a virgin but it isn't something that matters to me either way.
I don't mind a virgin but if she waits to marriage, I'll move on. That's a deal breaker.
So you rather a woman who has been with 10 guys vs 1. I say 10 because the average woman nowadays have that many partners before settling down because they have to fk a football field to know if the guy has good dk
@xane838 I don't mind her having previous partners. That means she probably knows what she wants. For me, without having had sex I can't decide if I want her, so waiting till marriage for me is not gonna happen.
okay
No. I’m wanting to lose my virginity on my wedding night too.
Yeah good luck with that.