What do you think fo those young people who have kids like bunnies?

I mean with all the birth control methods we have today and all the knowledge we heard or read, some young adults who are not even wealthy but keep having and having babies like there is no tomorrow. Let me bring a case and ask if you have heard cases like this. I have a a female second cousin (the kid of a first cousin) who now is 25 yrd old and she alreayd has 2 small sons and today I found out she is expecting a 3rd kid ( this time is a girl). I was like in schock to heard about the news because she alreayd had 2. She finished high school years ago of course but never enter college. Her 2 sons were because she got knocked up, at least the sons are from the same man and the 3rd one she is expecting is from the same man as well. She is not married.

My cousin ( the father of this 25 yrd old lady) is not a rich guy, he lives modestly, he always had work in an auto shop so he must not earn a lot of money. My cousin wife, never finished high school but she does not have a steady job. When my cousin daughter got pregnant the first time she was 18 and she was still living with the parents, when she gave birth she kept living in her parents house and she did not even have a job to support her son, well, her father was the one who had to support her, her wife and his other 2 kids he has with his wife, plus his daughter and her small baby so he had to support 6 back then. Then the greatgrandmother worked as a maid at some house and she also helped his son in the house. The father of the small boy did not finish high school either and he was raised in a neighborhood with a certain "bad reputation" (similar to ghettos, but he is white), he has many tattoes.

Anyway, my first cousin daughter found finally a job after giving birth to her 2nd child and I believe she now lives apart with her partner. Now she is pregnatn with her 3rd child. She now works at Walmart as a warehouse employee and her partner wokrs in an auto parts
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shop. I mean of course any job is worthy but they job they both have is not enough to support now 3 kids, rent, utilities and other house and personal expenses. So back to my question why some young people simply do not protect themselves with all the birth control methods we have today and have kids like bunnies. My cousin daughter is now 25 with 3 kids already all of them are small. She and her partner have jobs sure but their jobs do not make earn a lot of money. They live very modestly.
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. I dont doubt that in 2 years this female cousin will have another kid, her 4th kid only at 27 years old.
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  • My husband and I have been married almost 23 years and were high school sweethearts. We decided not to have kids. It turns out that was a smart choice because at 37, I was diagnosed with a rare genetic connective tissue disease.

    These people who keep having kids drive us crazy. We especially do not like how government keeps financially rewarding people who keep breeding. These people also get lots of public assistsnce. They also get large tax credits when filing taxes each year.

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  • My mum actually had her first baby when she was 17 and she has had a few since then.
    I don’t judge people for things like this. I don’t know their story behind it nor do I care. People have kids, doesn’t really matter what age they are.

    • But with todays birth control methods you can be smarter before having kids just because you want kids without thinkinbg of the future responsability.

    • So no one should have kids because no one knows what the future holds? Is that what you’re saying?

    • Im saying that if you can't support or give your future kid a balanced or worthy life, do not have kid as having kids is a huge responsability and if you are not ready do nto have them so please protect yourself.

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  • Most are just having kids because you get paid too at that. You qualify for so many programs and they pay more for each kid each kid and thanks to a economy of scale each kid actually gets cheaper and less work. buying bulk having the older ones look after the younger ones so on.

    So if you poor can't take care of yourself pop out as many kids as you can and government will take care of you and all of your kids.

    • I dont live in the USA where those programs take place.

  • I have twelve children. And 23 grandchildren. My youngest is 27 months , oldest is 32 . My ex-passed first wife and I had 10 , new younger wife two and I'm finished.

    • Maybe you could afford to support all your kids?

    • Yes of course. But being a parent is much more than just finacially being able to afford it. That wasn't so my first two and without them I probably wouldn't have crested a way to support as I eventually did. So who's to say otherwise?

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  • Have a browse through gags questions and it's clear a lot of people either slept through sex ed or have the attitude it's fake news, leftie brainwashing, I don't believe in experts.

  • I know some people like this to but honestly I won't be doing it

  • Sigh...

  • Their very sexually active and can't seem to control them self.