What do you think, is it bad if a girl is open with her sexuality?

It came today to my mind and i asked me is it bad if i am open with my sexuality and that not only to my partner even friends. Like just talking about these kinda topics i dont know i get more and more the feeling its not right. How you see it Guys and Girls what do you think about that.

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  • I had a younger 'friend' at Firestone, that was very open with me, and probably also with others as well. She was very expressive with me and we had a "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" session after work in her car. She had a long-term boyfriend that she traveled with several times who was an Akron Policeman.

    This 'goof' did not marry her, (I think because her was 'afraid' of her sexuality) and I never knew what happened to her or where she went after Firestone closed down. Still think about her

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  • It depends on the context of the conversation. If you are talking about what you like with other guys who may have interest in you, sounds disrespectful to your partner. If you are talking with friends and the matter comes up about whatever sex matter, then just converse as normal, if it causes you anything else other than "a talk" then, I don't know might be innapropriate. And if you find yourself always bringing up that subject, then it might me something that you would do better expressing in bed with your partner.

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  • I think it's fine to be open with people which you trust if you are comfortable being it.
    You mention though that you get the feeling of it might be not as good so maybe these people have other views on where the limit is if it comes to openness.
    It can be difficult to maybe see other people's limits with it if your's is somewhere else. Best way to find out should be to ask when you get the feeling :)

  • Yes. Think about this way. If a guy comes on to you as very sexual you would think that’s all he has on his mind and the only thing he wants. If you do the same then guys will think the only thing you’re after is sex. So if your looking for a one night stand then sure be openly sexual. If your not then let him know by being not sexual.

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  • It’s not necessarily bad. However, there are clear benefits to only sharing that piece of yourself with someone who is truly special. Being “open with sexuality” could mean a lot of different things. At the end of the day, you have to do what you are comfortable with and what feels right to you.

  • Discussion is important especially with regard to expectations, rules i. e., values, attitudes regarding sex and sexuality.

    But even more important is respect and ambiance by those rules. If you are not into butt stuff make it plain and clear. Not an open relationship or casual flame, not a problem. But again make it plain and clear.

  • No its not bad, although your sexuality should not define you.

  • Draw me a picture... what does "OPEN" mean?

    Let's say we were in a relationship and were intimate with each other. Does this mean you'll be sharing intimate details about us with other people?

    If so, I'd dump you as soon as I found out because, to me, you broke a bond of our intimacy and privacy with each other by sharing our intimate life with those who are not part of our 1 on 1 relationship.

    What do you mean by "open"?

    • Hey there With that i dont mean that i talk about that what i do with my Partner. Its more about talking openly about sex, without Putting the Subject directly on the topic. Just normal talk about those things :)

  • think it would be really cool to

    let the other guy or girl their sexual past and information.

    to have all parties have a safe relationship with or without sex.

    it could help prevent STD's and stuff like that.

    other matters offline ad our private business,

    anyway

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  • It was really refreshing to me when I finally met a woman who was open about sex and actually told me that she actually enjoyed sex. The girls before that acted like they were doing me a favor just being with them.

  • I don't see any problem with it.

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  • I don't think it's a bad thing.

  • I think it is actually good

  • I happen to really like it. It ggets bullshit out of the way

  • Only if you are comfortable with it

  • Yes, it is a positive thing.

  • It not bad at all to be open about your own sexuality it actually good and healthy to be open. When people are not open they are usually lonely or not very happy. It shows that you are willing to know what you want or feel when it comes to sex with a guy or girl and it makes sex more fun and enjoyable when you are open and won't have bad experiences of sex.

  • Not at all. You should get sexually empowered. If that means fucking 1000 guys, enjoy. If it means staying a virgin till your married, awesome. We shouldn't judge others for their choices.

  • I definitely think it's a positive thing

  • i see no problems if someone is open and honest

  • It’s not bad at all

  • LiliTyaka. it excellent that you are open about your sexuality with your partner and friends. Ain't nothing to be shame about.

    I have good friends where we are open about our sex lives and its great to have friends you can just talk these things with. Just not everyone😍

  • Should be ok