What do you think of comfort sex?

Newly single, and sounds like a pleasant opportunity to me 😂...
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I. e. Fucking somebody who's on the rebound, knowing they're going through something, and could use a bit of pleasure to take their mind off of things
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  • There are times when you have sex to soothe yourself or each other emotionally through sex. Comfort sex happens inside and outside of marriage or relationships. But it is not like friends with benefits or one night stand – (It may be during sunny day time too). Anyone who has been in a long-term relationship knows, comfort sex is relatively common, even if you have never thought of it in those terms. I and my husband – both have done it in some difficult time for each other. First time it was when I was looking to soothe myself emotionally as much as sexually. We have never thought of it outside our marriage because of our cultural and social reasons. The sex is good, but it is not life-changing. Every time it goes pretty much the way I expect, or more, and they do leave me full of endorphins and also that warm, safe feeling I get from simply being held, exactly what I needed. Comfort sex does not have to be shady. What makes it comfortable, in my experience, is that you do it with someone you know. No orgasm means not so comforting. For me, I need to reach climax. And to me, there are many things equally or more intimate than intercourse, so I do that with my husband until we have been to bed or anywhere we can do it. I tell my husband exactly what to do. It is emotionally more stimulating to be with someone I am comfortable with. From different positions to different places and different time, we are constantly encouraged to try something new and fresh, for sex. I also enjoy the moments afterwards. We all deserve to be in sexual partnerships that make us feel respected, listened to, and, above all, nourished. Because sex is an intimate exchange of energy, comfort sex can be an opportunity to check in with ourselves and our partner, regardless of the dominating or submissive roles we play during intimacy, we have the right to have sex that feels truly shared. Ultimately, comfort sex is not about “taking” comfort or pleasure from someone else. It is about connecting with the loving energy inside ourselves in order to create comfort together. By nourishing each other, we are left more abundant.

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  • I think it is grand sweetie. You should be comforted, and why wouldn't you be the best one for the job. Only you know exactly what you need... Am I right?

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you trust the person and they are proven free of disease, then it sounds like an ideal solution for people who are single for any reason, not just newly single. It would be satisfying and soothing for a person. Not much difference from a friend with benefits, except it may be more temporary or one time thing.

  • I am all for it, however being on the rebound can cause them to have mixed feelings as well. If it is purely sexual and both understand that, then yes it can be helpful. But when emotions get involved it can get tricky too. No one wants to hurt the other or be hurt.

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  • If you have a clean partner and y'all do it responsibly with birth control or contraception... Yeah go for it! A little stress relief and intimacy can really get you over the hump from all that depressing baggage of a breakup. Hooray for Tinder!

  • Yeah it’s fine, obviously emotions are in full flow so avoid being collateral

  • It sounds good to me to whether it be on the phone or s e x t i n g or even role playing I think I need some of that too well I'm looking for some comfort

  • Go for it. Use a condom every time and have fun!

  • Go for it. There's no better fun for an adult than sex. Just be responsible.

  • Get a friends with benefits.

  • Rebound sex ain't a bad idea to me. Go for it

  • Go for it

  • Yeah, I would help her recover for sure.
    I would actually take t as an opportunity to get her to fall in love with me.
    I know how painful breakups are and how bad she needs comfort, love and sex.

  • As long as you bring know its just a casual arrangement then it's fine

  • I lived like that for a long time.
    It wasn't healthy for me because I did some things that put me at risk but was so desperate for "comfort" that I did anything I could to have some comfort.
    I hit some real lows in my life.

  • As long as everyone knows what's going on, sure. I've done it with friends before.

  • Well i am in very well need of that 😂

  • I would give my wife comfort sex if she was having a bad day. (And I would be happy to do so!!).
    I don't just fuck random people, though.

  • Not my cup of tea. I only enjoy sex with the woman I love

  • This is called "climbing back on the Cock Carousel".

  • Do not fall for them cause you will probably get hurt!
    Sex and friendship only.

  • Love it !

  • I volunteer to comfort you in your time of need.

  • I've never heard of comfort sex

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