What do you think of people who are celibate and / or virgins in the dating world?

Is this a turn-on or turn-off?

Would you date someone whose celibate and / or virgins?
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  • I think they are strong minded, and strong willed people. I have the utmost respect for them actually. They stood firm to they're own beliefs regardless of what society says is the social norm for this generation. Good for them.

    Relationships should be built on mutual trust, goals, likes, views and values. Sex should come later, but that isn't what happens anymore.

    To each their own and respect and no judgment towards anyone. Live your life so your happy.

    • I agree and relationships aren't anymore , but I vow to remind pure to God / Jesus

    • umm some dont have a choice. Lol but yes "strength", "Courage" , "Bravery" for not having sex. Ill take those adjectives thank you. lol

    • I was referring to the asker. Because she was referring to those whom choose chastity. I did the same thing. Waited until marriage it wasn't easy. But I don't regret it. Good luck to you though

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  • One basic rule; if there can be no sex before marriage, there will be no marriage proposal. Why not? Because sexual compatibility is Very important in a relationship. If your are not a match sexually, that will destroy any chance of having a happy life later on. Sex is the glue that keeps a marriage together. You need a match between your sexual preferences, kinks, ideas about frequency, etc. If you don't have that, it will lead to frustrations and an unhappy marriage/life. So in order to find out if you are a true match, your relationship needs to include a healthy sexlife before you even consider getting married.

    So when dating, I'd expect to become intimate within a few months at most, and I also expect my partner to have previous experience, so she already has a good idea of what she likes to do.

    • Absolutely.

    • Sorry I follow God's laws nkt man laws or societies rules

    • You can have a sexual discussion doesn't mean you need to have sex. For women, most perform good. For guys though it can be traumatic for guy to be reject by a girl if she is not impressed by him.

  • Dating a girl for a long time as 'friends" - work associates- several years, shared expenses on 'dates, and travel times. One weekend, we started kissing, French kissing and I felt her up in the car, and fingered her for a few minutes.

    Afterwards she said I was a 'good kisser" and we should "get together" with the obvious implication and we were going to fuck on New Years Eve that year.

    That night, we got naked, I ate her pussy, to orgasm, and she screamed so loud, I was afraid she would scare someone on the sidewalk--- (never happen on NY EVE)

    Anyway, I could not get a hard on with her, so no fucking, she did not suck me or even attempt to get me hard.

    Next day, New Years day, she tells me she is becoming Celibate.

    This past New Years, I dropped her for good. That really sucked.

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  • I'm a virgin, so if I refused to date another virgin I would be hypocritical.

    I see sex as something personal, a decision that it's up to the individual. So if someone is celibate or virgin, or if they had multiple sex partners, it's their live and their choice. I have nothing to do with it.

    However, I must admit that I'm concerned about dating since I have no experience. At my age, it might be complicated...

    • Right it's complicated for me I stopped all together dating

    • I have limited experiences with men

    • I understand. I have no experience, so it might be harder for me.

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  • Its a turn on for me. I’m celibate outside of (6+ month/year+ long) longterm relationships

    • But they have to be a virgin or celibate by choice. I get annoyed by the desperately seeking to lose it ones

    • Actually maybe i mean abstinent since we’re abstaining from sex for a certain period of time

    • 😍😍😍

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  • I wouldn’t date someone who’s a virgin, as I’ve done that before and I don’t enjoy showing someone how to do everything, I enjoy someone who has some experience and can take control. But I respect peoples choices regarding celibacy or staying a virgin. It’s just not for me.

    • I only stick to virgins and celibate people

    • That’s cool, I was just stating my own answer to the question. No hate towards people who are celibate or remain virgins, or people who prefer them.

    • I follow God not man

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  • I would say we're just fine.

    • Thanks

  • They're people I have a lot of respect for. It's honorable to be able to have that kind of strength in our days of degeneracy. I remained celibate till marriage and have the most respect for others that can do the same.

    • Yes thank you

    • Lol it takes effort for guys to have sex with girls.

  • I don't have an issue with it, as long as they are open and upfront with me about it.

    • Okay

    • However if its a Long-term celibacy, like virgin for life scenario, I'd maybe pass unless I loved her.

    • I wouldn't date anyone who can't respect my beliefs as I only want a monogamous mate someone who csn respect my religious beliefs

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  • Emm I'd probably think that they are in celibate and / or virgins in the dating.

    Another words it is their choice.

    • Yes pretty much what it means

  • Well, sounds like they bein' safe and not fukin' up their life by giving into the horniness. Well done on them, i would say

    • Why is honiness wrong. Part of being human.

    • Thank you

  • I gotta ask... who actually does dates? Like I'm hella old now with a huge body count... dates? I always see it though... does drinking at a restaurant and then having sex count as having a date?

  • Neither a turn on or a turn off. There's an intersection of age and reason for virginity that may make me ask some difficult questions about why they're a virgin. There's a whole scale from "religious" to "fear of commitment" and "unwilling to be an adult" and a lot in between. So, I might date them and wouldn't reject them for virginity but, again, depending on the reason, it might not be a long-term, committed relationship.

    • 👀...

    • Religious beliefs and stances / morals and values?

    • Right.

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  • Much better than a person sleeping around. However in this world you can hardly expect a virgin but you should find one who can count their body count on one hands fingers.

    • I'm celibate and have been 11 years

    • Agreed

  • There's nothing wrong with virgins, but I won't pretend they're any fun in bed

  • My boyfriend was celibate before I came along and hadn't been with that many girls before me which I prefer. So I don't mind someone who is celibate or a virgin. I would prefer it.

  • Just a question if having sex with a virgin in considered being a turn off, won’t sex eventually be a thing of the past. Say in about 100 years. Women will not become the new virgin Marys and the population of Earth will plummet.

    • what? lol lay off the drugs

  • Yes, because I'm a virgin myself.

    • Hallelujah 👐

    • Not many of you left or celibate men

    • @cth2188 Yes, I agree, thank you

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  • I don’t care, to each their own and I don’t care for dating much so it doesn’t matter to me

  • It would not be an issue to me.

  • I would never date or marry someone who celibate.

    I would end up cheating on them. I need sex

    • You wouldn't be the type of partner for me - of course small things would be done to ensure my partner is satisfied and pleased

    • That goes Ditto for me as well.

    • I couldn't fornicate

  • Well, if you have previously married (mutual orgasm) - you get stuck on the person you married and hate all others/keep wanting better but feeling guilty you ruined or got abandoned in your first marriage/relationship.
    Only virgins/never previously married are worth dating for those of us who are like that - the rest is adultery/power games amongst the cheaters and divorcees.

    • I wouldn't date a virgin guy only a celibate one and furthermore ny ex husband cheated

    • You said 'I insist on multiple husbands' - which , apart from being criminal, will get you the worst males there are

    • I don't know where you saw me comment that anywhere on this board

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  • I'd be happy to date another virgin so that we can learn together if the relationship lasts for awhile

    • Same also someone celibate and pure

  • I'm a woman. I don't like virgin guys. I prefer he is experienced but not a whore. that's cause I am inexperienced and I feel it will be disastrous if the guy is also thesame.

    • @gloree make right sense.

    • @MasterKS thanks

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