What do you think of sex with no foreplay?

Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend, he doesn’t really initiates foreplay. We just go straight PIV into it. It doesn’t hurt bc I tend to already feel aroused everytime I’m around him but I’d like for him to take his time to lick me everywhere and finger me before putting it in.
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  • Foreplay can be amazing. A person's entire body can be erogenous if skillfully and sensually stimulated. That's true for both men and women.

    I suspect that there are a lot of guys who have never had any foreplay performed on them other that getting the cock sucked. And consequently, they think performing foreplay on a woman means one thing - eating her pussy. And those guys might assume that women can't get off unless they get their pussies eaten. Those guys may also think they they always have to be in control and call the shots, even if they don't know what the fuck they are doing.

    So, foreplay can be magical and drive a couple to ecstasy if done right. Some music, soft lighting, wine, pillows to set the mood. It begins slowly and sensually and builds until the receiver is writhing, panting, and aching to be fucked.

    There are certainly no examples on porn. Cock and pussy is all porn focuses on.

    But foreplay is not always necessary. It depends on the woman. Some women are really horny and love being fucked. And a couple doesn't always have time to engage in a long, luxurious session of foreplay.

    Sometimes a couple may enjoy an urgent quicky. Begin with some passiont kissing and groping, then bend her over a piece of furniture, pull down her panties, and drill her. I've had girlfriends orgasm from that kind of occasional sex.

    And what about waking up in the morning spooned together naked? She feels his hard cock pressed against her back, raises a leg, and guides him in for some passionate PIV before getting ready for work.

    I do agree, though, that a guy who doesn't ever want to kiss and caress you, lick and kiss your body, and stimulate you to the point of begging to be fucked is either selfish or has no idea what he's doing.

    I admit that I was that way when I was young and inexperienced. It took a woman doing it to me before I understood the ecstasy of luxurious foreplay.

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  • It is only half the fun. I think you need to try and train him a little.

  • If he uses a lot of lube in you and on him it can be great!

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  • There's a time and place for going straight to it, but in my opinion foreplay should be the norm, not the exception. I enjoy it tremendously, especially her reactions to it.

  • I have never been so stupid as to do that! Besides preparing the woman, I get to enjoy the view and giving her pleasure.

  • peanutbutter without jelly.

  • It can be fun if both people are already turned on

  • Almost all the time I prefer a long buildup / foreplay. Maybe a quickie once in a while for novelty, Have you told him what you want?

  • Not every time, but sometimes it's just what you need.

  • Wouldn't work for me, I enjoy the scenery along the way while getting to the destination. You should demand he take his time.

  • Not good at all, and I have to confess to having done that.

  • I need to give and receive it to get out motors running.

  • It is better than no sex at all.

  • It can be very exciting not to do any foreplay at all. I can tell because sometimes we go straight to it and she's super wet immediately. It feels very rough and dirty and spontaneous

  • sounds like you're his F**ktoy..

  • Tell him

  • I never had sex without foreplay. I have to work up to the sex.

  • I always do foreplay. But you need to talk to him first and tell him what you want

  • I think sex with no foreplay is selfish of the guy. Foreplay makes it better for both parties, but especially for the woman, and without it she's likely not getting off at all. For a guy to only participate in PIV sex shows he's only interested in getting himself off and doesn't care about taking care of you

    • I assume you're talking about cunnilingus? That's not the only way every woman can get off. Some women love cock. And what about all the other forms of sensual body stimulation that can go into foreplay? Is that a one way street? Is she selfish if she doesn't perform foreplay on him (and I'm not just talking about sucking dick)?

    • I'm not just talking about cunnilingus, but foreplay in general, anyone who assumes foreplay is any one thing, has never truly participated in foreplay

    • That's absolutely true. :-) But is a girl selfish if she doesn't do it for a guy? I was just reacting to what you said about a guy being selfish if he had sex without foreplay. Or maybe you were just commenting on her guy's refusal to do it for her.

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  • No experience, but I’d definitely like some romantic foreplay.

  • It’s great, but not my favorite. I only do that occasionally when short on time/space.

  • Can be good.

  • It happens

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