Guys, what do you think of waking up with?

Question

a girl giving you a blow job?

Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

When you begin performing a sex act on someone without their consent, there's a chance they'll welcome it as a pleasant surprise, and a chance they'll feel upset about it. The relative likelihood of each of these outcomes varies based on circumstances. In many circumstances, there's basically 0% chance of a happy reception and 100% chance of anger; for some circumstances, those percentages are reversed.

If you know your boyfriend likes getting blowjobs from you, it's highly likely he'll wake up and think, “Fuck yeah! Best alarm clock ever!” He will essentially retroactively consent to the things you did without consent. But if he woke up and said, “Whoa, who said you could do that?” then yeah, you sexually assaulted him.

If it makes it clearer for you, imagine that instead of blowing him, you put on a strap-on and started fucking him in the ass. Now, some guys love this! But in my experience, most men do not; and while they might be up to try it, they don't want to wake up to a dildo in their ass with no prior discussion. You would be highly unlikely to receive cheerful retroactive consent, and more likely to be accused of sexual assault

Anpu23 · Accepted Answer

I think it's rapey if you hadn't discussed it first. No, correction it is rape (or at least sexual assault) if you don't discuss it first. Some guys are good with it, but some guys aren't. Often you wake up needing to pee, and all that does is make it so you can't, hurts like... So talk first.

centerline · Answer

no problems at all... the only problem is that I've never found a girl that could wake up before I do...

Mark-IV · Answer

Sounds like the best way possible to start a day

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I have actually had that happen! It was fun. That was years ago and I still think of it...

normalice · Answer

It's wonderful. I had one girl who did this once. I tried everything i could think of to hint at her about doing that every day. Never happened again, though..

guitarguy1995 · Answer

Why not?

JPrez · Answer

It would be a great start to the day. Would there be more?

jshm2 · Answer

It didn't end well for her.  I am not into giving, or receiving, oral.

Dargil · Answer

It's too intense. Start with a soothing hand job and go aggressive into oral when he's hard.

Natehunter199 · Answer

I would absolutely love to wake up to getting a blow job. I have mentioned it to my wife a time or two and I still haven't been lucky enough to be woken up to any sexual activity.

blutwolfe · Answer

Well Id prefer to be waking up to that ass grinding on my dick but a bj is still like fuk it'll wake me straight up like it'll be a great morning

Ripper_E · Answer

If I really need sleep, pretty pissed off. Otherwise, great. Depending on who she is.

Angelo75 · Answer

Heaven

Makeushiver · Answer

The same thing, every day, "Shit, I wish I could just keep sleeping

Browneye57 · Answer

Do you even HAVE a guy?

es20490446e · Answer

A good day start.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Bomb

Mr1derful · Answer

Yes absolutely! That or a handsome followed up with sex is fantastic!!

Outofcotrolboner · Answer

Girls topless in tennis skirts

wondering_guy · Answer

I'd love it but want you slowly wake me up first above the waste, then I know it's you on my cock and not something that's gonna make me jump out my skin lol