Guys, what do you usually think when a girl gives u her virginity? Does that anything mean to you? Or it's like nothing?

[Anonymous]

[sandytoes]

I try to not let that happen without a lot of discussion. It doesn't feel any different to guys, just more pressure mentally. I have been the first with three women. Each time i made them wait several days after they asked me to fuck them. Obviously the first mention was in the throws of passion so I said instead of fucking i wold do ANYTHING they wanted. Those were some of the better nights ;) Anyway, i think when I finally agreed, I feel like they were convinced they wanted it to happen. The first time is usually the worst due to nerves.

[LibraPisces66]

For me, it only happened once, and we both gave each other our virginity. It meant a lot to both of us. We recently reunited online, and the love was still just as strong and pure. She really appreciated that it was me she gave herself to. And she was no less special to me.

[JSmith925]

It used to mean something. These days I'm not so sure. Sadly, sometimes women sleep with a man just to get it over with. Not my idea of sexual awakening.

I suspect for most girls it still means something if they choose you over another for a first time experience or any experience, for that matter.

[summiter]

It means a lot to me and I am glad to be the one during her special moment.

[Asker]

I Wish he would think that way.

[summiter]

Why are you contemplating giving up your virginity to him? It is a special moment for a girl (for the guy too) I like being gentle... letting her control the pace and I always have let a virgin call the shots in case she wanted to stop. Yes I get a great orgasm, a girl most likely will not her first few times. What do you think?

[Asker]

I already did. I love him and that was the only time we had a big moment and I really wanted to do it. but he asked me probably 5times that I'm really sure bout giving it to him. I thought if I gAve it to him, things would get different like bEcome closer. But after all, nothing really happened, he hasn't even tried to contact me. Now I am kind of in a bad mood.

[summiter]

Sounds like he kind of used you. Was the sex any good? Did you have sex more than once that time?

[Asker]

We did twice.

[Asker]

F***. Now I have a feeling that I shouldn't have done it.

[godfatherfan]

having sex with me is special to me. Virginity would not mean anything at all. I think women are insane for the amount of importance they put into something so meaningless. there are only negatives to keeping your virginity.

[Veebee]

Many will consider that as a trophy, but or me it will be a cherished moment - something worth remembering

[AleDeEurope]

Knowing she chose me instead of the other guys that came before makes me feel special and that she really likes me and cares for me. These days it's so easy to find someone to have sex with, but she decided to wait till she found someone who she truly likes, and that was me.
Sex with a virgin woman is not too fun, cause you gotta go slow and be really careful, but it's the feelings involved what makes it good.

[KDA20]

It is nice but depends on personality of girl whether to make a deal of it or not.

[sean1234]

At that point I hope we're married. It should mean a heck of a lot to me.

[Asker]

Seems like it is a big deal for guys! Good to know that

[micheal727jovanie]

It means a lot to me because now a days its rare to find a woman like that

[The_Lone_Ranger]

Since I grew up in Christian family my view virginity is special. In this culture people losing there virginity is normal. So not losing you're virginity makes you special. Losing it makes you just like everybody else.

[Phoenix98]

Well considering it will be my wife, ya it will mean something.