What do you (women especially) think about when you masturbate? A crush? Fantasy?

Question

I talked to a girl I know, who's just a friend, and we talked about people in school and stuff. I like a woman in shcool, and she likes a man, and we talk about our frustrations together. Suddenly she brought up if I thought they had ever thought about us while masturbating, and I replied "what?".
Then the strange question:

"Don't you fantasise about her while doing it?"

And I honestly don't. I don't even know what I think about. I might as well be looking at pen on my desk and just feel the physical sensation. I don't have any fancy fantasy to get me going. It's more like relieving a physical need. I have tried to imagine her while doing it, and even looked at pictures, but I just can't focus on a thought.

Is this a girls thing, to need to fantasise and all that?
What goes through your mind?

MissMonstaz · Accepted Answer

I do think about my sexual fantasies a lot when I masturbate. That's what helps me get more aroused. I can't really masturbate without thinking of something that turns me on. And I usually think of some random attractive guy I've seen on the street or a person I know lol

boyishgirl225 · Accepted Answer

For me it tends to be me thinking about someone i want to be intimate with. Not necessarily completly lustfull. Just thinking about what it would be like to do somthing special with someone i care about. For me im only into guys so its only guys i think about.

Kimikiwi · Accepted Answer

In My teenage years I could masturbate by just thinking about a boy in My class and My fantasies were weirder and crazier back then. But now that I'm 22 I am too lazy so I just watch a porn video and do dat for like 2 minutes and continue my day x)

ChelseaGlow · Accepted Answer

I usually watch porn. Or I think about my boyfriend being super dominate. Or I think about a random older dude forcing me to cum whilst saying dirty things. Usually it’s porn.

MecheD · Accepted Answer

It’s common in women to fantasize about a lover while masturbating due to the fact of connection between sex and emotions men like you said separate the two

dinhuhisserved · Accepted Answer

I fantasize about women I been with, women I could have been with, women I should have been with, women I shouldn't be with.

giota123 · Answer

Well we can imagine things but porn makes everything easier and more simple.

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

I don't think about anything specific, just having sex

QueenofCups · Answer

I usually think about past experiences.

helpmate82 · Answer

I fantasize about penis. Sometimes about more than one guy approaching me naked... stuff like that.

MakanaNorton · Answer

Usually someone I really like but I sometimes fantasize

Cyndilucy · Answer

I watch porn. My favorite is backroom casting couch and excogi. I use t fantasize when I masturbated but it takes too long for me to cum

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

I try to not think about my crush, it seems weird. Especially if you see them or talk to them the next day. Usually I think about a fantasy or some porn I've watched.

dwiller943 · Answer

I don't think about anything at all. My mind goes completely blank when I masturbate. That, or I fantasize about myself. But it's normally blank.

Flower-petal · Answer

Sometimes nothing but lately I think about my newest crush

orangecherry · Answer

I mostly think about how amazing it feels

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

They think about me, duh...

j_e_n_n_y87 · Answer

I don't think about anything while masturbating usually I watch porn and imagine myself in it

jensproul19 · Answer

Fantasy

Anonymous · Answer

I relive previous sexual encounters with my boyfriend in my head, or I imagine new things I want to try etc.  If I want to orgasm quickly, porn.

Anonymous · Answer

I usually watch porn so I just imagine the things I am watching and it works

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, nothing. The few times I did masturbate (don’t anymore), I never thought about anything

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest I just think about finishing, I don’t watch porn as I just wouldn’t nor am I interested.

Anonymous · Answer

I think about my boyfriend. Makes me have the best orgasm. Only reason I would masturbate is if I haven't seen him for a while though because of college