What does a female orgasm feel like?

[Juicyred921]

Sorry if this is TMI. I was wondering what a female orgasm felt like. I’m sure its probably different for everyone. But I’m not so sure I’ve ever had one. I’ve “squirted” before (excuse my vulgar language) and I heard that’s not the same. You can do that without having an orgasm. I’ve just never had that crazy explosion of pleasure that has been portrayed in media and from conversations I’ve had with other females. Is what I felt all that it is and it’s just hyped up or is it Al people say it is? Cause if it is, I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced one. (Again, sorry if this is TMI)

[Apple1996]

Feels like the muscles in your vag contracting like crazy. There can be different types like harder/softer, bigger/smaller waves of contracting. It just depends on how the woman is getting off like dick, tongue, fingers, toys all give a different feeling of orgasm. Squirting is not that great. I've learned how to stop it but when I was younger I'd squirt soo much like it was embarrassing to the point I never wanted to orgasm with a partner. It doesn't add any extra pleasure just makes a mess.

[EaterPeter]

That is a hot mess I like to see up close may be collect it

[CrimsonAngel09]

Um... let's see.

Feels like a temporary high as your body tenses up, and definitely makes me fall asleep easier. Can feel like you're pulsating as you leak out after orgasming. Never squirted myself, wouldn't even know how to do that.

Best I can describe lol.

[Juicyred921]

Yeah… never had that. Sounds awesome though.

[ohsheeT]

Juicy red how have you been well I just read your question about your boyfriend and p*** sites

I don't think I've talked to you in maybe a year year and a half or something

So I'm curious is this the same guy that you were living with and you like him but he was only interested in friends with benefit

[Juicyred921]

Yup. Same guy. How are you?

[ohsheeT]

I am pretty good what have you been up to well that's kind of cool that it's the same guy and that you guys are still hanging in there are you are anyway

[Juicyred921]

Definitely hanging in there. It’s been like a roller coaster lately. He’s a complicated guy. There’s been some ups and downs, then more downs. Lol. But you gotta keep riding this roller coast of life. Sometimes you plummet down so fast, praying not to hit the ground, praying for the incline. But it will go back up, just have to be patient.

[ohsheeT]

And that's exactly it too it's just a moment in time that moment will pass in another one will happen

[MementoMori777]

I'm not trying to be a wannabe pussy doctor here but I think there's different kind of orgasms, I thing there's a clit and g spot orgasms, maybe you are missing intimacy but it's possible maybe you are missing the comfort when you do your thing so your orgasms aren't explode-y

[Juicyred921]

Tried myself. Not too sure how to hit the G thang. And the clit feels good for a while then just stops feeling good and that’s it.

[MementoMori777]

I see, from what I heard the G spot is located 3 to 4 inches inside on the side where your stomach is, vaginas are different but it's said that it's the most common spot for the G spot, I would recommend to explore yourself more, supposedly it's said that it's like a dent inside the woman's body part, I'm sure you'd feel the sensitivity once you make contact with it, vaginas are different so I'm sure you'd have to feel around a bit, I'm sure at some point you'll reach it

[Billlewis]

I've been told that it's much different than a guy's climax, and it lasts a lot longer, as well.

[Juicyred921]

I’ve heard that too. Women supposedly have more nerves in the clit than the guys penis.

[Dargil]

Obviously I have no direct insight. But mine lasts 7-10 pitiful seconds. Hers can last 20-30. It's just not fair! :-( It must be a Feminist Plot against men!!!

[Mr1derful]

It sounds like it might be mental? Is this with a guy or just in general and you’ve never even given yourself one that you know of? Have you explored with a vibrator privately and just focus on yourself? As a guy if I were with you I would try a lot of different things to help you have one! I would take my time and use a nice warm oil or maybe a clit warming stimulating gel and slowly massage it into you. Nice kissing and licking everywhere on your body. Of course I would try nice slow oral and see if that does anything? I would try a vibrator nice and slow at first and then change the speed and pressure as thing’s hopefully progressed (I love We-Vibe toy products and never had failed!). Prob my favorite thing that also never fails, is wearing a vibrating cock ring (of course I also have through We-Vibe that feels so good!). I put it on very slow speed, rub some lube or oil on my penis, have her sit still in cowgirl on top of me inside her (clit is flush on the vibrator), wraps her legs around me and were sitting face to face, and she slowly rocks and grinds while we kiss and I suck her breasts and nipples. I wrap my arms around her butt/waist and pull her deeper into me as we rock and she cums so hard!!

[Mansearching]

What does it feel like when we're inside you? Or in general?

[LavLavLuv]

Like seeing stars 🤭🤩🌟⭐️🌠

[Guido]

Your most recent post explains why you have never had an orgasm. It's the tune of sex your having. It's the guy getting off on that porn style sex and not the woman.

It's not uncommon for women not to have orgasms as there are lots of women like that but if a guy knows what he's doing and cares then he will do the things that are needed to ensure you get off.

You can always get yourself a vibratory and masturbate until you have an orgasm. It will help uoubknownwhat works on you so you can direct the man in what you want.

[EaterPeter]

I don't think it is matter of Apollo gizing. I like to mess with words purposefully. One may say pun intended or not intended.

[EaterPeter]

I bet it feels great I think I have had one similar experience though me no female.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your right it is different for everyone one and im sure I knkw why you haven't had that explosion of pleasure

[Juicyred921]

Why?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Message and I'll tell you why

[MasterKS]

sorry to hear! get a better dude who do that for you! female orgasm comes in variety.

[Anonymous]

We are women, not "females."

[Anonymous]

You tell me. You're a 38 year old woman and should know this.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Meanwhile guys like you can't find the clitoris.

[Juicyred921]

I should. That’s the sad part. My last partner was extremely selfish. Just wanted to get off. He didn’t care much for kissing, or touching, just went straight to business. Sex with him was nauseating. Just wanted it over. I was with him sense I got out of high school. So.. guess I’m not super experienced. I figured that was sex was, guys getting off and nothing fir the girls. Like the female orgasm was a myth.

[Opinion Owner]

@crimsonangel09 I already have done that. There's surrogacy for me to start a family so I don't need a girlfriend. Money is more important to me.