I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and it wasn't by choice. To regain my power I then had sex with many people and found it crampy and hurts. But looking back I was so anxious about it to begin with, it caused me to me a lot more tense which is likely why it hurt.
Then I had about three years of abstinence and got to learn more about myself and my body. It wasn't until I was 24 when I truly had sex because I wanted to. And it was fantastic. I was relaxed, and happy, and fully willing to do it.
It felt like I had something inside me but I didn't want it to leave. But that's the pleasure from it all, is when the guy thrusts, all you want is it back in you, so when they pull it out the feeling is unreal and hard to describe.
Moral of story, is if you are with someone who you feel safe and relaxed with, who also has your pleasure in mind, it may not even hurt at all. Or if it does you aren't focused on it because you are having the time of your life.
Exception: if a guy has a long dick and you have a short cervix, or if you have ovarian cysts, it could hurt but it's more of a pressure feeling than a painful one.
1 0 0 0I was 15 my first time didn't hurt at all, but we had a long make out and play session before, so we were both really ready. Later in college experienced so discomfort, little painful, but it was usually after I had been drinking and it was more than average.
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mine didn't hurt the first time and i thought it would
0 0 0 0Damn it was pleasurable?
Most Helpful Guys
You could always buy a dildo and try on your own first
It'll give you a good idea of what it's like0 0 0 0I don’t wanna ruin my hymen for him. I rather have him break it first and he gets the blood on him first
Alright
Try a hot dpg. That should fit in without breaking anything.
Depending how you can take it. Also depending on his size. Size matters you know.
0 0 0 0Thanks for the MHO 😊
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5 3As a best friend said once for a first time, "It hurts like a Motherfucker."
0 1 0 0Then why ask and just find out
0 0 0 0For me it hurt really bad I was crying it felt like a huge knife going into my vagina
0 0 0 0It's good but overrated.
0 0 0 1People always say it’s like a 10/10 but in reality, what is it on a scale from 1-10? Is it like a 6/10?
I have no fucking idea and I hope to stay this way.
1 0 0 0It hurt
0 3 0 0Can you dm me?
@Mrgoodstuff62 sure
Great thanks
Painful
0 1 0 0Put a finger in there
0 0 0 0Scared of my finger nail scratching my walls and giving me an infection
Do you want me to put my penis in there then?
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