What does a submissive feels in a BDSM relationship?

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Have you or are you in this kind of relationship? If yes how is it like? If no, would you ever like to try?

(I know i'm kinda anoying always asking sex ("what a slut!" not yet!!😊😊😊), but i'm a curious girl, and i like to learn and read different opinions.
(by the way, the image is not mine, but i like soooo)

TheCunningLinguist · Accepted Answer

BDSM is a power exchange where the submissive Gives himself over to the dominant for the purpose of pushing their boundaries, while looking out for their health and safety. Sadly the story Fifty Shades of Grey Left that out Because the author actually has no BDSM experience. Through discussion prior to each Round of play The Dom and sub discuss things such as Soft and hard boundaries. A safe word whereby the submissive Has absolute authority to stop all play and go immediately into aftercare. One of the things not discussed in those Fifty Shades stories, Are things like Adrenaline dump Similar to that of combat soldiers after a firefight, Which can be very emotional and at times make you nauseous and exhusted. I have had submissives tell me that it was the safest and most secure feeling they had ever experienced as well as the most gratifying.

OlderGuy965 · Accepted Answer

by the way, you're not a slut for asking a whole lot of sex questions. Not at all!
Submissives are usually (not always) dominant outside of the bedroom, perhaps a lawyer or a CEO someone who has authority. Stressful job. They need someone else to take authority in bed

OverCaffeinated93 · Accepted Answer

Being a sub is about trust. Depending on what you do an INSANE amount of trust.
I was a switch in a previous relationship and being a sub was comforting. Gave me a feeling of being taken care of by someone who loves me (even if it left marks lmao).
Don't do it unless you trust that person entirely.

Being a dom was empowering and strengthened the relationship because it felt good to be trusted so deeply by the other person.

lifeisgames · Accepted Answer

I'm in a BDSM relationship as a submissive. it's wonderful. it's letting go of control and it's freeing. it's the best most trusting relationship I've ever been in.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm usually the dominant one because I'm in a lot of same-sex relationships, but if I was with a dominant guy I'd love being submissive.

Riclo · Answer

it's fun and also scary if you are too obsessive about it.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

I mean I'm the dominant one so I don't know. Lmao.

Intraluminal · Answer

Well, hopefully love, submissive feelings, sexual excitement, a sense of freedom to be totally sexual within the context of her servitude, and a feeling of safety and warmth.

Sowhoawolf · Answer

I like to switch, gets boring when im doing all the the destruction

johnmichaei · Answer

I don't know girl I'm the dominant one

joker786 · Answer

bdsm?

TallAnon · Answer

I'd try it, I'm 6'7, so I don't often notice a girl that seems dominant to me, but when I do, it's pretty hot.

jtjtjtnffnhfhhghg · Answer

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masterkamasutra · Answer

i think its fun for sure.

Schumy · Answer

I would love to try it

payt977 · Answer

I'm switch, so yes, I wouldn't mind. Right now. I'm the more dominant one in the relationship, works well since she is submissive.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend is submissive and he loves it.

Anonymous · Answer

I like playing both roles, so I've been submissive to my girlfriend before. I think it's great stress relief to give up control completely to someone I trust and let her do anything she wants to me. It also gives me the feeling of being totally free to try new things because I won't say no to anything she tells me to do.