What does a woman feel when she sees a man who she finds physically attractive? What goes through her mind? What does attraction feel like?

[Anonymous]

What parts of a man is she most fixated on?

I get this answer from Quora

Men are programmed to spread their genetic material as fast as possible through as many females as possible. Thus, men pay more attention to physical beauty than women. That's why you can rarely see women checking out men in public or catcalling men. We aren't attracted to strangers just passing by. Even if a man is gorgeous, we don't instantly switch ourselves to “I'm so horny the if this person offered me sex out of the blue, I'd say yes” mode. We need time to know a man, to trust him, and only then we start getting attracted to him. When it comes to purely sexual attraction, with men it's quantity and with women it's quality.

According to this women are totally opposite when it is "sex or opposite attraction"? They are unresponsive to hot guys and hot bodies because they made for response only to their emotional partner? As as our body never response when we see our same sex and our mother, sister.

Women never experience dopamine rush, tingle, jolt when they see sexy things because their eyes can just acknowledge the object in the same way we can acknowledge the consonants "A B C D E"

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I found one who's really attractive. His body is gorgeous, his face's so adorable esp. when he smiled at me. (without a lewdly facial expression.) When he mentioned about something sexually, I didn't feel disgusted as I do when dirty old men do the exact same things. However, when he tried to kiss me, I paused. I had a doubt if he's truly single. If he's not available, I couldn't stay near him at all cost.

[VestaH]

His eyes... once I saw his eyes all I wanted to do was hold him forever! And kiss him!
I got warm all over and I even fell out of my chair, my balance was off.
In my mind he was to good for me and there was no way I would ever get to feel his arms around me.
(I was wrong, and he is perfect for me, I still keep in touch with him)

[Asker]

Do you experience physical attraction when do you see random hot guys?

[VestaH]

I don't get the burning feeling. It's just a quick thought of how cute he is and I just keep walking. When I'm drunk I'm more confident and will walk up to them and tell them how cute they are, but that doesn't go over well. Maybe cute isn't what they are looking for, but I'm not about to change me for some hot stranger guy. Dancing with or brushing against guys I find attractive will bring some physical attraction. I've only fallen for one guy by only looking at him.

[Asker]

When do you see got guys, six packs, hot bodies visually you feel nothing? No turn on, no tingle, no flash, nothing?

[VestaH]

No, they all look the same to me. Once I found guys with no chest hair fascinating. But I prefer a chest with little hair or some hair at least. I do have a friend that goes all bonkers when she sees guys. So they are out there.

[Asker]

If you don't experience any turn on when you see guys then what's the difference do you feel when you see guys and girls? You can recognize the difference between two persons but it wouldn't invoke a response from you.

[VestaH]

Girls send a feeling of "prepare to defend yourself" or "avoid" when around them, unless they have on a cute outfit. If they have on something cute I will approach them, tell them how cute it is, and then ask where they got it. Girls are a ticking time bomb in my mind, while men are relaxed and carefree until I get to know each one. The few girlfriends I have, all befriended me at one time or another. I've seen too many girls hurt my guy friends to trust any that are not already my friends.

[Asker]

So, you are sexually attracted to girls by default but guys do nothing for you?

[Nicolio]

well, I've only gotten attracted to a guy after I liked him.. but I guess the feeling of wanting to hold hands, be closer, hug, or even kiss? Like, just something to feel closer to them. heart seems like it's beating a little too much and there's a small bit of embarrassment. I'm not sure that I answered you right though XD

[Asker]

So, when do you see sexy guys you feel nothing? Then what is the difference do you feel when you see hot guys and hot girls?

[Nicolio]

when I see people I think look nice, it's nearly the same as when I see flowers and think they look nice. the only person that I find different is the person I like.

[Asker]

Then how do you recognize that what is your sexual orientation? LOL

[Nicolio]

why does it matter? maybe I'm only sexual for one person and never another. maybe I am attracted guys, but only when I start to like them. maybe I could lbe attracted to either given that I like them. I'm attracted to personality and actions, the rest comes later. I don't see why I have to simply choose an orientation. The people that are butthurt over what gender I like are probably the ones I'd never be attracted to any way, so their opinions of preferences don't matter to me. sorry.

[Asker]

May be you are dump pink account who knows. LOL

[Nicolio]

sorry, what is a "dump pink account?" Did you perhaps mean "dumb?" maybe I am a dumb pink account, but if people of my intelligence are considered dumb, I fear for people with your intellectual capacity. If you don't want opinions, don't ask. Even my five year old self had enough logical sense to figure that out. Have a nice life. :P

[BabyBirdy]

I definitely notice a man's stride, shoulders, chest, legs, jawline, brow bone and if he's symmetrical in his face and body.

[Asker]

Just notice in the same way we notice consonants "A B C D E"?

[BabyBirdy]

It's very quick. It only takes seconds

[Asker]

What? I asked "Women never experience dopamine rush, tingle, jolt when they see sexy things because their eyes can just acknowledge the object in the same way we can acknowledge the consonants "A B C D E""?

[Mislehoor]

They think... that this man is so handsome... but there would mst be a darker side of his personality which is hidden at the moment. So better not to trust him by his looks.

[Asker]

So, you are asexual?

[Mislehoor]

what do. u mean?

[Asker]

Asexual never experience sexual attraction when they see their opposite sex. They can just acknowledge that the person is attractive.

[Mislehoor]

Not so, sexual feelings are common in result of looking a handsome man but they are definitely temporary. What long lasts is personality virtues... that must need to be known.

[Asker]

Do you get sexual feelings when do you see hot guys?

[Mislehoor]

Well, I keep my eyes on my man... not other guys. I feel it bad to look other guys except my man. All my love is for him and not for others.

[Asker]

When you were single you never looked at guys? According to you your sexuality is made for only one person and you are only sexually attracted to the person you have emotional attachment. When you were single you never get the urge to look at guys.

[Mislehoor]

When I was single... I was attracted to look at guys. But why you are asking so deeply?