I have some mixed feelings about that, even if it's true that most women don’t come from penetration alone, some women can come from penetration alone, and women that can come from penetration alone and men that can make women come from penetration alone seen the ideal sexual partners, so it suboptimal and it can be little upsetting for him to feel like he and/or you are not ideal sexual partners, that said he likely able to accept that not everything in life is perfect, and he should appreciate your honesty, at least you are not a faker, also a woman helping herself is better than nothing, if a woman get bored during sex it's worse. Some men prefer to take charge over their woman masturbation, but in practice it's quite hard to do that while they focused on penetration, except when a woman is riding the man, also it's very lazy of the woman to expect to the man do all the work both with sex itself and with her masturbation, though if a man prefer a woman who is totally passive then he might be okay with that, anyway it's subpar to a woman coming from the man's cock alone in any case, so it didn't matter much if the woman is doing the clit rubbing herself.
As for performing oral, many men are not into it, and those men would rather have sex with woman that get orgasm from rubbing herself than sex with woman that claim that she can only get orgasm from oral. All things considered, I put women who rubbing their clit during sex in the second place on the list of ideal sexual partners, below women who able to come from penetration alone, but above women who can't come from penetration but too insecure and/or lazy to do something about it, and above women that claim that they can come only from oral. Some men might place fakers in the second place, because they rather be with a woman who is selling them an illusion than accept that they are with a woman who can't come from their cock, but I prefer honesty over a lie, even when it comes to hard truths. Anyway I doubt that the new guy have such high ego that he would leave you the moment that he see you start rubbing yourself, and I don't think that you want to live in a lie, also you can talk to him about his personal preferences before you have sex with him first time.
Well, try and think of it in the reverse and what you might feel, we feel that way too lol. I don't have a problem with it, and it's cool to watch, and I know in my head that penetration alone isn't often enough, but at the same time, it's hard not to take it a bit personally also (just human nature I think) and more to do with feelings than logic and what we know in our head. We don't know what it's like for you down there, so we can't relate to it. So it doesn't hurt to just reassure him maybe that you love what he's doing? Depending on the guy. But no we don't really mind, just wonder sometimes. Like I say, we don't know and can't relate. And we like to be the source of your pleasure.
As far as I know by experience they do like and some guys asked me to do.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some guys might feel weird about it, but if you make it clear that you playing with your clit while he's inside you just makes him feel even better, he's likely to get past that very quickly. Just make sure he knows how good he makes you feel - that's what he's going to worry about.
Not a problem at all. I think it's hot when she totally works on bringing herself to orgasm. I usually assume that she enjoys a cock sliding inside her. It turns her on and combines with her own adept finger stimulation to bust an O. A girl knows how to get there. And there's nothing I like more than a girl being carried away in orgasm.
Most guys love it, but most girls feel to insecure to do it.
If you tell him before sex, if you have that kind of communication, then he is likely to be excited to anticipate it. Telling him before lets him know it isn't about his performance, since you two haven't had sex yet. Tell him its how it really makes the experience better.
I think it is way hot. It makes the sex even better and if it helps her get to an orgasm all the better. Have you tried it?
it's hot, and can intensify the experience for both in my opinion
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