What does having a vagina feel like?

[ElizaPam]

I always try asking this and I never get answers! I want a vagina so bad but I’m stuck with the wrong part. It would help to be able to daydream about having the right part!

[RydiaMagnifique]

Incrediy vague question, but as a fellow trans girl, I feel your pain. I will know soon enough. I got a dick, but that fuckers days are numbered. I have a VC with a social worker from Mt Sinai hospital for transgender medicine which we are going to go into the presurgical screening. Then after that, I will get the mental health assessment to see if my PhD overlords deem me worthy of going through the vaginoplasty. I'll probably ask the doctors right before the surgery takes place if they could graft an autologous buccal mucosa so that I can lubricate during intercourse, if not, I'm stuck with vaginal dryness coconut oil. But it's a step in the right direction. I can't wait until tomorrow to see of this is happening officially or if I'm getting that forewarned denial, requiring me to come back in 6 months or so.

[ElizaPam]

I’m so scared of the surgery because it doesn’t seem to make people happy.

[RydiaMagnifique]

Some trans women may be okay with keeping their penis because they don't experience any dysphoria over that particular part, hence why they may regret getting the surgery later, other reasons for regret is that the surgeon fucked something up and so they have no sexual function, therefore they miss the good old days of having a penis, because while they were dysphoric over it, they miss the enjoyment of sex, others like myself think of it as a parasite that draws out my life force eating me from the inside, out, and it would be nothing but a 100% relief to get rid of it. My goal though is to keep some sensitivity down there so that I can enjoy sex, but if I don't keep that, I will be happier to have a vagina, but I will miss having a penis due to the sexual aspect of it. A friend of my mom has a trans male friend who had his vagina changed to a penis, but the problem is that he needs a catheter in order to urinate and he cannot have sex, he can't even feel anything. So it's dependent on the surgeon and whether or not he is a moron who can't do his job, plus a person's reasons for wanting the surgery.

[ElizaPam]

I used to feel like you when I was a teenager but after I got older and realized how hard it is to save the kind of money that a vagina costs I became more content with my penis lol

[RydiaMagnifique]

I'm not bill gates. Lol I'd say move to NY. Vaginoplasty, Facial Feminization and Breast Augmentation are covered by medicare. My out of pocket expenses will be reduced. Hopefully if I do have to pay out of pocket, I don't need to do it up front. I'll take a bill and work out some way to pay it back, because I need this surgery.

[ElizaPam]

Lol when I turned 18 I moved to Philadelphia. Tennessee is better, I hate living in cities they’re way more transphobic. I love being a southern country woman.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Been there too. The problem is they can’t tell you because there’s nothing to compare if you haven’t had both. It’s like you prefer cats over dogs if you’ve never had a dog.

[tonynaik]

How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that..

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

Put a dildo up your ass and imagine there’s nerves in the wall of your anus like there are on your dick, and then have it bleed for a week every month while flooding your brain with hormones and messing with your emotions and dealing with physical pain because of it, and have to deal with yeast infections and keeping good hygiene and then on top of that guys trying to fuck you any chance they can get, etc etc etc...

women can add more of the “fun” of owning a vagina can be lol

[ActiveSh1tter]

It's just a hole. Like maybe a gap of air between your legs. That's how most women have described it.

by the way I don't mean to be offensive but if you cut off your penis and testicles then take a power drill to create a hole in their place you'll probably regret it.

[Quackthulu]

Uh… nobody can ever answer that because nobody with one has ever not had one to be able to compare the two. Even with MTF transition it’s not a biological vag, it’s more accurately described as an inside out dick.

[ElizaPam]

Well I really want to know how sex with a vagina compared to anal sex

[Quackthulu]

Maybe if a vagina transplant or something. Still not sure it would be the same because there is a hell of a lot of nervous tissue to connect to make it function properly.

[tonynaik]

How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that..

[Just_a_human]

I pretty much forget it's there. There's no feeling of having a hole between your legs or feeling air pass through. It doesn't feel like anything.

[Iron_Man]

Your female you do have a vagina

[COMMODOREII]

can't you get surgery?

[ElizaPam]

I’m scared of it and it’s expensive

[Joe__Exotic]

Autogynephelia

[GSYamaji]

No one can comoare the two but people can share their experiences. You having a dick and asshole can be good for you. You can crossdress and enjoy as a girl. Let people fuck your ass. Or you can act as a boy too

[Anonymous]

A guy asked the same question a while ago and the women said that they didn’t feel anything down there and therefore didn’t notice it. I guess what they mean by that is that you wouldn’t feel something dangling as you move, there would be no balls to stick to your legs, no annoying erections and nothing to tuck away to wear bikinis or jeans. Sounds wonderful compared to having a dick.

[ElizaPam]

Having a dick is so uncomfortable and weird 😣

[Opinion Owner]

It’s it just 😒 and I bet masturbation and sex is so much better.

[Opinion Owner]

*Isn’t it just

[RydiaMagnifique]

Hence why I feel like mine is just a parasite. That, in addition to the dysphoria that comes with it. Almost like it feels like someone sewed their dick over my vagina and I want it off.