What does his sex body language say about his feelings for me?

We have just started dating. During sex he moans a lot, and says

“You are so tight.”
“You are so sexy.”
“It feels so good.”
“I feel comfortable cuddling with you.”

Holds hands with me, kisses and smiles, embraces me and hugs me.

We had unprotected sex and he said It feels so good to have sex with me, he just wants to go on and on.

In the end, he came a lot and was surprised himself “Wow, that’s a lot of cum.”

It was all over my ass, back and upper back.

He was going on a dinner with a friend after that and joked “You’ve taken all of my energy out of me.”

We cuddled a little and I left, he asked me to stay a bit more, that he wanted to cuddle with me. But I left.

We tried a few positions: Missionary, Doggy Style, Cowgirl, Spooning.

Is he catching feelings for me?

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  • Based on your statements can't really say if he is catching feelings for you. I can say that he enjoys the sex and his complements sound like they are birthed from a deep gratitude he feels.

    The fact that he wanted you to stay to cuddle says that he sees potential in there being more to the relationship and potentially wants to explore it.

    You should probably need to decide if you want more and are willing to explore it too.

    • I want more with him. I am just not sure if he wants the same.

    • Why’s he feeling deep gratitude?

    • That's the most I can say based on my impressions the description in you question because he is constantly expressing how good you feel to him. And he expressed a desire to be around you more. I didn't know the nature of your relationship with him, but if you want more then you will need to stick around when he suggests it. Then you should mention how much you enjoy spending time with him too if you are not already. Laugh at his jokes and be yourself.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Better to judge it from whether he is truly committed to you. Whether he is dedicating his time, energy and future family to you (marriage). In short, never judge anything through the lens of sex and / or lust because that is like judging a person through their words only. This may not be what you want to hear. If you want more from a man, only give that more when they have earned it through their commitment, respect, dedication and loyalty. The problem is that this has been forgotten and replaced by a watering down of the role of each side. Once this occurs then neither side is balanced and nothing will come of it beyond pleasure.

    What do you do when you value something? You secure it at all cost!

    God bless you with wisdom and fruitfulness.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Is not very clear to me to be honest with you. He's behavior could mean he's catching feeling and really enjoys being around you but to be very honest with you I've seen men acting that way then out of nothing they ghost you or say they're not ready for a serious relationship. So, enjoy the moment and do not jump into any conclusions yet. If you feel like you could be something more have that conversation with him. Good luck!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Guys can typically detach emotion from sex

    • For me, the emotion comes from after sex. Falling asleep together afterwards. It's the best feeling in the world.

  • Lol... no honey, he had good sex with you.

  • Maybe, but at this point he loves your pussy for sure. Maybe there will be something more.. maybe not.

    What do you want?

    • I want him to develop an emotional attachment with me not just my pussy. What makes you think he loves my pussy?

    • You have a tight pussy and he said it feels so great you made him cum a lot. So everyone would love a pussy like that. If you want him to catch feelings then next time he wants you to stay.. stay and spend time with him

  • Nothing. There is no such thing as "body language". Involuntary bodily movements do not constitute an attempt at communication.

    Not to say they can't be informative, but it isn't a "language" by any stretch of the imagination. It isn't consistent from one person to the next.

  • Is this a friends with benefits? If so it seems possible but not certain.

    • Na. Not friends with benefits. Been going out for 2 weeks. He’s open to see where it goes.

    • He's into you. Well, also on back of you... 😂

    • Why u think so? Had only 4 dates.

  • sorry but sex is not catching feelings for men.. it is for ladies. we care about how you treat us.. men can be run by sex, addicted by behavior..

  • Yes!

  • I think he already has them.

    • Why u think so?

    • Because that's similar to what my girlfriend and I do during sex, minus the fact I cum inside her.

  • His language: Stop reading those stupid magazines.

  • He could be; he certainly likes to fuck

  • He definitely likes fucking you

  • you should have left the sec he said “I feel comfortable cuddling with you”

    This guy needs some testosterone therapy.

    • Why?

    • I'm not sure why, his current level of testosterone, whatever it is, seems to have gotten him what he wants.