It’s a lot of responsibility and is going to effect your relationship and lives for the duration of both. Being the first guy in there is for some a point of pride but for me it’s a chance to give her a reason to be comfortable with and expect to enjoy sex. Though she had many opportunities in high school I am the only person my wife has been with, and she didn’t tell me that right away because she thought it would be a turn off in an age when “everyone is doing it” (no, they aren’t, at least not as many as public perception seems to think). Exploring sexuality with someone for whom everything is new was such a turn on. Getting to share in that excitement of seeing and doing everything for the first time was 👌. I don’t see anything happening to our marriage, but if anything happened to her I don’t expect to find many virgins in their 30’s, which is by no means a deal breaker. If I’m not a virgin it’s not fair to expect my partner to be.
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Anal don't matter to me, being a woman's first is a huge ego boost.
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(21)Virginity is not a thing.
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Only because they've been brainwashed by perverted adults. It used to be a thing because abstinence was the only way to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Those days are long over.
I wouldn't know... I've never been with a virgin.
0 0 0 0Don't know how you can be sure if your broke her virginity? You can rupture her hymen, but she could have had a penis in her prior and the guy did not rupture her hymen. I think that was the case with my one and only virgin.
0 0 0 0Im guessing they feel some sort of pride.
0 0 0 0No such thing as anal virginity.
0 0 0 0You are a virgin before a penis has penetrated you for the first time. After that you are no longer a virgin.
Exactly.
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