What does it feel like when you are getting close to having an orgasm?

I have been sexualy active for almost 2 years now and still have not had the big O. I just wanted to know if I have every gotten anywhere close to having one.
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  • Obviously I can only comment on the male perspective.

    Subjectively there is a lot of tension that builds up in my body. It is like a spring being wound tighter and tighter. The sexual pleasure being felt in my penis and scrotum get more and more intense and starts to kind of radiate all over my entire body. My penis lengthens a bit more and thickens a bit more and becomes a little bit harder. There are small spasms in the muscles around my penis' root and in my anal area. I tend to start breathing faster, and get a strange kind of swirly excited feeling on the pit of my stomach (like when you are about to fall over backward, that empty / tight kind of feeling.) There is a feeling of intense physical anticipation, like when you jump in a cold swimming pool - that moment you are in the air and the water is coming and you know it is going to be COLD - that kind of feeling.

    Usually a few seconds after starting to feel the above sensations (if stimulation continues, e. g. I keep rubbing my penis or keep thrusting in a woman), the orgasm itself happens, basically the tension is released all over my body (like a spring being let go) and the sexual ecstasy so far felt only in my penis kind of explodes outward out of it and my entire body -burns- with extremely intense electric sexual delight. At some point just after the waves of orgasm start radiating from my penis all over me it will start spurting semen, this happens five or six or seven times to almost unendurable, agonizing pleasure and delight and then the arousal starts to fade and the waves of ecstasy fade as the orgasm subsides.

    For a woman (I've been told) it feels much the same. There is the same kind of excitement, the anticipation and the "tension" in the body. Tingling and very pleasurable sensations are felt all over the vulva (labia / lips, and clitoris) and sometimes her anus. Her body gets tensed up, she has the same anticipatory kind of "panic" overcoming her. If her vulva is stimulated for a few more minutes or seconds, she orgasms just like a man would - EXCEPT for ejaculating. E. g. I've heard it described that the "vulva-pleasure" intensifies, the tension in her body gets worse as the orgasm approaches, and incredibly intense sexual delight then starts to radiate out of her sex all over her body. One women described it like hot lava spewing out of her pussy / vulva all over her body, setting her skin aflame, not with pain, but electric sexual pleasure.

    Hope this helps?

  • Can feel it building and my body starting to tense up in anticipation.

    So none of your guys have given you an orgasm form oral? You need to find a new guy... if it's been 2 years with no blast-off.

    • i have been with 2 people

    • So you been having sex for 2 years... and over that time it's been with 2 different guys... and either have ever gotten you off? Do you tell them that you haven't orgasmed? If you have and they haven't tried hard, done different things... they aren't worth your time. You have orgamsed by yourself... Toys, fingers?

    • I have tried fingering nothing feels good. They always think I cum

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  • Have you gotten to the point where your only thoughts are what's being done to you, and the hands, mouth, fingers/Dick doing immense pleasure. Being so wet that you feel like your dripping everywhere, squeezing whatevers inside you really hard. That feeling building and amounting until (for me anyway) you can't breath, everything turns into slow motion, and everything is too much too quick, back arches.
    Then reality comes back to bite you on the ass, and you start panting to get the air back that you've lost, your body is still lost and takes you a few minutes to move or get back to it and start all over again 😶😊

    • no have to gotten there yet, I don't know what to do I feel bad cause U can never cum

    • Thanks for the mho, sorry I can't help you tho. Is there perhaps any fantasies you have and could try that would help you?

  • have you ever had the back arching, toe curling, about to scream in pleasure because all you can think about is the pressure building in the pit of your stomach feeling? But honestly, its really hard to have one through penetration, why don't you try and encourage your partner to use more foreplay?

    • Wouldn't you agree that it's much easier for her to orgasm by receiving oral alone?

    • yep, maybe she needs to get another guy? my friend said she couldn't orgasm, turned out the guy she was with was shit

    • @AnotherConfusedGirl why was he shit?

  • Like you can see a giant wave about to come crashing down on you, and you're just anticipating it, but the wave is... awesome and will probably make you make funny sounds and faces.

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  • It's a cool feeling and you get a surge of sensation that is about to boiler over and explode.

  • It feels like you are about to explode down there in such a good way. It feels so good and you start tingling and shaking.

  • Have you tried giving yourself one? I might make it easier for you to figure out what you enjoy during sex.

  • It's like having all your body's energy transferred to one location then getting hit with an EMP.

  • You know when you sneeze, and there's that brief period where the second one is coming up and you've reached the point of no return?

  • A volcano about to burst out lava

  • Stop ur pee for sometime... N then do it finally... Its similar to that kinda feeling.

    • so you feel like you have to pee before? I mean for girls

    • Sorry didn't get what u r asking? Did u get my point actually?

  • amazing feeling of completion and satisfaction... relief.. ;)

  • who body feels the huge waves and feel like i would release everything from my dick, feel like dick would blast out.

  • Your butthole will start pulsating

  • It feels like an angel was send down to slurp on my penis

  • It feels like something is building up and waiting to be released. For me, anyways. But I've only ever given myself one so I don't know.

  • Well never had sex but when I masturbate I just kinda lock up

  • The most amazing feeling of pleasure you will ever know!!!