What does it mean for a woman to be “sexually liberated?” Is it a false term that is made up? Is it unhealthy? Your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I’ve heard this term before but just wanted to know exactly what is meant by it? What do you think?

[topi_tonge]

"sexually liberated"

this term applies to both men and women

i think it simply means that he/she wants​ to have sex with anyone with their wish, then they are not stopped, opposed or punished for doing so

sexual liberation
means no opposition or punishment if anyone wants to have sex with someone or has sex with someone

i think people (both me and women) in a Western society or simply in America are sexually liberated

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1031819-do-you-believe-that-women-are-really-still-being-oppressed-by-men

sexual liberation gives rise to promiscuous acts like ONSs , hookups, etc

sexual liberation brings pre-marital sex , but that's not an issue. I think its their personal decision. But, personally i think its not a good idea.

But sexual liberation supports casual sex and thus, promiscuity (both men and women) which i think is not good but if it's a personal decision of that person, then it's not my headache.

morally, promiscuity is condemnable
BUT. what is happening in western countries that when a person decides to indulge in promiscuous activity as a personal decision and if anybody tells that don't do it. It's a wrong decision.

it's a suggestion and/or request. But the person thinks that they are being restricted from doing so
and they want to oppose this restriction. So they wrongly* classify these thoughts of opposition under the concept of Feminism

Slut shaming adds up to this spark and end up into a fire creating a trauma under the name Feminism

that's wrong. its not Feminism.

Its unhealthy for the society.
when a woman has sex with multiple men, she's called 'slut' , but there are less cases that a man who has multiple sexual partners is called a 'man Whore'

calling anyone 'slut' or 'man Whore' is wrong according to me because it's their personal decision

what has anybody to do if he/she is dressing in a provocative manner or is getting indulged in promiscuous acts?

I think its unhealthy​ for the society. It has many side-effects on sn individual's body, which results in disturbances in his/her post Marital lives
and then, gradually influences the life of each and​ every individual of the society.

[topi_tonge]

i think sexual liberation for a woman simply means that if it's a consensual decision, then she is not shamed on for having sex with somebody; she is not stopped from or punished for having sex with​ someone

[JDavid25]

Just a term for women to be out here bein fairly easy, and not feelin bad about it.. LOL..

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO! :)

[aicarg]

In my opinion, sexual liberation in women simply means that the idea of traditional behaviours that revolve around sex are no longer applicable as it was challenged in the 60s when the sexual revolution was pushed. The acceptance/"normalcy" of contraceptives, sex outside of marriage, choice of abortion... All followed along as women took more of a stance on deciding on making their own decisions on the topic of sex rather than having to conform to traditional norms. Is it healthy? As I believe that everyone is entitled to make their own educated decision on things, yes, I find it healthy that women are given the choice to think for themselves. To each their own.

A side thought, since overall men psycollogically have the desire for sex without strings more so than women do, I feel that the so-called sexual liberation of women is more so like sexual liberation for MEN. As in the end men get more sex and more sexual variety without making an emotional commitment.

[Asker]

Love your last part about sexual liberation possibly being more for men than women, that’s interesting insight that I’ve thought about but no one seems to bring up. I guess if everyone is getting sex, it can’t be a bad thing lol. Not everyone, but women aren’t being as restricted as in the past.

[aicarg]

My mind rambles on with random thoughts and views when I'm sleep deprived haha. Exactly! As long as the sex is consensual and all parties are safe, all the power to those that care to engage in the sexual acts that they care to engage in - win, win for all parties. I personally know where I draw my line, so as long as I'm not pushed to have my standards changed, I have no issue.

[Asker]

Thank you Gracia sensei for your wisdom

[aicarg]

Always happy to shed some light Gene-san 🙇‍♀️

[cipher42]

Based on my understanding, it's about not feeling ashamed of being sexual, and accepting one's own sexuality. Women being told that they shouldn't want sex or shouldn't be overtly sexual has been a pretty significant issue even up to the current day, so "sexual liberation" is essentially about counteracting that kind of sex-negative attitude. I can't really speak to all the circumstances in which the term has been used, but based on what I understand it as meaning it's a good and valid goal which I tend to support.

[Asker]

Hey cipher, it’s been awhile lol.

[cipher42]

Haha yeah. College started back up so I've been kinda busy.

[Asker]

Thanks for your intelligent comment as always snowflake lmao

[cipher42]

No prob. And is that a snowflake of the special variety or a cutesy kind? I'm not rlly terribly inclined to be either tbh

[Asker]

How about the “intellectually charged” type of snowflake? Honestly, I’m a conservative but I think I’ve learned a lot talking to you and your opposing viewpoints. We probably disagree on almost everything politically, but I think you’re a really cool gal.

[cipher42]

Wasn't aware there was such a one, but I'm down to be that kind I guess. And thanks haha, I try my best to be informative/at least vaguely impartial, so I'm glad you think I'm doing a good job there

[Asker]

So many downvotes lol.

[zzzondarrr]

"Women being told that they shouldn't want sex " outside marriage, because then a woman (and I believe a man also) becomes unable to bond deeply to each other and have a healthy love life and family

[cipher42]

Lol I know right. Like, it'd be great if people could actually let me know what their issue with my opinion is rather than just downvote it. Especially since I really don't even see what's so controversial about what I'm saying, unless they're all just super conservative religious wackos who think sexuality is sinful and evil.

[cipher42]

@zzzondarrr And your evidence for that is where exactly? Scientific sources please.

[cipher42]

Also like why on Earth are other people's choices about their personal sexual lives any of your business? I for one think it's way more sensible to just educate people about sex as best as possible, and let them make their own choices about how they want to live their lives.

[zzzondarrr]

@cipher42 what do you consider scientific?

[cipher42]

@zzzondarrr Relatively reliable and unbiased studies, preferably. Failing that, the consensus of scientific experts on the topic.

[zzzondarrr]

"Also like why on Earth are other people's choices about their personal sexual lives any of your business?" because it has a huge negative impact on kids and future generations, and it might on my future kids, and I also I want to live in a society filled with love and happiness, not depression and other mental illnesses that come from dysfunctional families and relationships

[zzzondarrr]

@cipher42 "Relatively reliable and unbiased studies" well these terms are quite vague. Who are exactly the "scientific experts" on this topic?

[cipher42]

@zzzondarrr Okay, can you just find me something you regard as reliable evidence and I'll see whether or not it looks legitimate? Basically, for studies, if it's funded or published by a clearly conservative/christian/otherwise biased organization I wouldn't trust it, or if there's good reason to believe the study wasn't conducted in a reliable manner. Also preferably there should be more than one study saying the same thing, or if it's just one study it should be done/published by a reputable group.

[zzzondarrr]

@cipher42 While you're waiting for your studies the life is gonna pass you by 😂 I know there is one study that proved that people who entered a marriage without previously engaging in sexual activities were only 3% likely to get a divorce, compared to over 50% likelihood for those who did engage in sexual activities prior to marriage

[cipher42]

@zzzondarrr Divorce rates can be explained by the fact that people who don't have sex before marriage tend to be more religious/conservative, thus don't tend to believe in divorce as much. Now, I can't say for certain that that's why the study came out that way, but that's because you have yet to provide me with that study, let alone any studies at all.

[BellePepper]

@Cipher42 you are seriously the most patient woman Cipher XD

[cipher42]

@BellePepper Lol thanks. Though I dont know that its really patience at all, it is after all very much in my interest to appear calm and rational, and I do still throw in snark where I can. :)

[BellePepper]

That's why everyone loves you XD

[cipher42]

@BellePepper clearly not everyone, but I'll gladly take the compliment anyways :P

[BellePepper]

Anytime ;D

[RJGraveyTrain]

Sexual liberty in my mind just means that it's OKAY for women to be sexual beings. It's not slutty if you wanna dress sexy, it's not wrong to like or be open to sex, you're not less worthy if you aren't a virgin, etc. I don't think that means you have to hop on every dick you see but you don't have to be a virginous Christian girl waiting for marriage either.

[zzzondarrr]

And do you think that kind of a liberty is a good thing?

[Asker]

Do you think this shift has made women happier? The shift meaning, more and more closer to acting like a man when it comes to sex. I personally don’t think it’s self evident that this shift has benefited or made women happier over years, I actually believe it has had the opposite effect.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Yeah, I see nothing wrong with it. I don't get why you need to be ashamed to be sexual. Being okay with who you are sexually doesn't mean you have to be a slut. I remember I used to be so embarrassed about my body and the fact that I actually liked sex, until I met my partner who is supportive and really made me realize that it is in fact okay to like sex. Lol. If other people don't like it, well then, boo hoo I guess.

[zzzondarrr]

@PoliceLivesMatter I believe that it's actually one of the main reasons for the skyrocketing increase in depression and other mental illnesses (in both females and males) we witness today

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr But you also have to keep in mind, I've only been with one man my entire life. Embracing sexuality doesn't mean you have to fuck multiple dudes and walk around in a hooker suit. You can accept yourself as a sexual person without going to extremes.

[zzzondarrr]

@RJGraveyTrain Of course you're supposed to enjoy sexual activities, but they are called intimate for a reason, you should be enjoying them with the person you've chosen as your partner...

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Yeah, and that's what I did. Lol.

[Tony_1693]

Sex is natural and healthy. A lot of women sleep around with men because they feel as if they have that's all to offer to a man. It's not the sex itself that's making women unhappy. It's unhappy women that are using to help alleviate those insecurities that they have. A lot of women simply sleep around because they just genuinely enjoy sex as well. I don't see the harm in at all. Men who don't like promiscuous partners will choose to marry those who are more conservative. Men who don't mind it, will marry women who are more sexually liberal. I don't know but it's beyond me as to why men complain about slutty women. They're pretty fun to fuck. There are plenty of women out there who aren't sluts. Marry one of them if it bothers you. This is sort of I'll do me and you do you thing. no, I don't think women having sex is causing them to be depressed.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Tony_1693 Thank you lol.

[zzzondarrr]

@Tony_1693 "I don't think women having sex is causing them to be depressed.", well, sex alone of course not, but being detached from the persons they had sex with does

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Yeah, that's when you seek out sex because you have issues. But people also seek out drugs, alcohol, food - none of that is liberty. Lol. Besides, you aren't fucking those girls at the end of the night, so why care?

[Tony_1693]

@zzzondarrr I think that's a non issue. Sex is pretty natural and exciting. It would alleviate feelings of depression if anything.. this is why a lot of insecure women have so much sex. It makes them feel good lol. Some people don't feel emotional attachment from just sex alone. I'm one of those people. I simply see it as a dick going inside a vagina. A lot of other people do as well.

[zzzondarrr]

Why care about promiscuity, well because it has a huge negative impact on kids and future generations, so first of all it might habe on my own future kids, and secondly I want to live in a society filled with love and happiness, not depression and other mental illnesses that come from dysfunctional families and relationships

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr You can't save everyone dude. If you care about being conservative, then fine. Be conversation, mate with a conservative woman and have conservative kids. You don't have to fuck sluts, you don't have to even acknowledge their existence. You can dislike their behaviour all you want but at the end of the day you can't control people and how they use their bodies. Again, this is coming from someone who has been with one man. Who does what with their genitals is not my business so I don't impede. I'm not about to stand in someone's way at the edge of their bed lol. Just let people do what makes them happy and you do what makes you happy.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Also, I come from a dysfunctional family where both of my parents were committed and married. Trust me, trying to tell girls not to be sluts is not going to save all of us.

[Asker]

Yeah, I think women being unhappy and depressed more so nowadays is because some in society have shifted the disparity closer and closer to basically nonexistent between men and women. It’s clear that the majority of women feel and approach differently when it comes to sex. That’s a scientific fact, due to the release of things like dopamine and oxytocin, it differs between men and women during sex. I think people telling women to be like a man when it comes to sex HAS caused women to become more depressed and unhappy instead of the opposite 😅. Women love sex BUT they don’t love sex the same way a man does and THATS the difference.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Honestly, I'm really just of the opinion that while there are "natural ways" for us all to be, we evolve and adapt to our environment. We're no longer just animals based off of instinct. Some of us deviate from the norm - and that's OKAY. Some women love to fuck lots of guys, and some girls are like me and wanna be with one man. At the end of the day, women fucking lots of guys doesn't effect me and I have no right to tell people how to live. That's just how I see it. Let people do what makes them happy.

[zzzondarrr]

@RJGraveyTrain but I told you that other people being promiscuous make the whole society become promiscuous, and that's exactly what we are experiencing in the last century! And again, it just has a huge negative impact on kids who form their system of values based on the societal values of the society they live in, so even my own kids might think it's perfectly fine to be promiscuous. And again I want other people and society as a whole to live in love and harmony, if anything just because I'm personally living here, with my future family...

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Listen, people being promiscuous is not going to make EVERYONE become promiscuous. There is still religion, there are still traditional moral values. I know more sexually conservative women then actual "sleep with a new guy every day" types of girls. I know more MEN who are ready to fuck every other night actually. At the end of the day, unless you're literally about to physically stop people from having sex this isn't a "war" you can win. It's better for you to live your life and pass on your own values than try to force your beliefs on other people. But that's just my opinion.

[Asker]

I have to agree with Z lmao. I don’t want to tell people how to live but if they are part of the society that I live in and their actions affect people around me and myself, maybe you probably ought to tell them how to live. There’s plenty of evidence to suggest promiscuity is correlated with financial, emotional, marital, and even drug abuse problems. If you have society telling young girls that it’s okay to be like men and sleep around, you’ll seriously have a generation of young women who grow up with a shadowed value structure, hence why women nowadays are unhappier than their 50s counterparts... The one thing that the women had in the 50s that is good as compared to the women now, is the VALUE structure and clear distinction between men’s behavior and women’s.

[RJGraveyTrain]

You can tell people how to live but you can't force them. Lol. Like it or not, where people put their penises and vaginas is not for you to decide. Dislike it, cry about it, hate it, complain and wish it was different - but no one has the right to force their will on someone else's body. I have no issue if people have different sexual values, that's fine. But you can't force someone to live the way YOU want them to. If you really want to make an impact it's better to focus on the people who share in your message and pass that message on than to try and force your values on people who have already chosen their own. That would be like me saying I'm atheist so everyone should be atheist. I might feel that way, but I can't make people.

[zzzondarrr]

@RJGraveyTrain "people being promiscuous is not going to make EVERYONE become promiscuous" not everyone, but many of those who would have stayed pure become promiscuous, too many. And many of those who would have had a happy life and a loving family never achieve that because of it. I don't know if this is a "war" that could be won, but I just feel that it is a right thing to do to protect and educate the young about what will make them really happier in the long run... Do I just care too much about the people around me in your opinion?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I'm not saying by the way, that women SHOULD be promiscuous. I don't see a point in it either. But I also know it's not my place to say that people should have sex a certain way. I'm not the master of anyone's life. I'm not saying it's GREAT to fuck multiple random strangers. I'm with the guy I lost my virginity to. But of all of the problems in the world today I don't think how much sex people have is the biggest issue worth focusing on. AGAIN! That's just me. Hate sluts and women who have sex if it's what you're all for, it doesn't effect me at the end of the day lol.

[Asker]

Well, I don’t think anyone is forcing others to do anything, I’m just saying how there’s a biological element when it comes to the difference men and women and people trying to think that both genders are essentially the same when it comes to sex had significantly impacted both genders negatively and has created a generation where there’s no value structure and the word “traditional” is taboo now 😅.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I don't think we're the same either. I agree there but like I've said before, we're also not the same as we once were. Humans adapt to their environments and not everyone fits into every scientific study out there. The only real way to decide if something is universal for everyone is to do a world wide study that includes every single human being. There will always be exceptions to the rule. which is why I really only put my beliefs out there without trying to tell people what they do is always inherently wrong. Unless you, say, want to kill your mama. That I think is almost always universally wrong.

[zzzondarrr]

@RJGraveyTrain You might change your opinions on this once your own kids hit puberty...

[zzzondarrr]

@PoliceLivesMatter And I actually think men should also choose to stay pure, that promiscuity has in fact very similar effects on us, at least regarding our ability to bond with one woman only...

[RJGraveyTrain]

@zzzondarrr Yeah but you keep forgetting for one, I'm with the same guy I lost my virginity to. And secondly, I have no kids and no intentions of having any. So I'm not even mildly concerned. If my kids wanna be whores but they're still good people, I don't care. As long as they're healthy and happy. Lmao.

[Asker]

Yeah I think that’s another issue as well 😅. I think bonding is probably burned out after having so many partners due to the neurotransmitters like dopamine being over used during the course of time. Hence why the divorce rates like you mentioned for those with extensive sexual histories before marriage tend to yield close to 50%...

[RJGraveyTrain]

I don't know dude I've also known old school whores who ended up married and happy. My aunt, legit was a stripper, a whore, and ended up married with happy and successful children. And she became all born-again or whatever. Clearly, it works out for some people.

[Asker]

Well, yeah it’s always going to work out for some but statistics are IN GENERAL.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Yeah but my point is, don't rely solely on generalities to form all of your opinions. Always challenge yourself to see more than one perspective because it can really open your eyes. That's all. I'm not saying change your opinions. Just a GENERAL challenge. ;P

[Asker]

Agreed RJ.

[rgb008]

A PC way to say "I'm a hoe and u can't judge me" hahaha

[Asker]

You’re right as always rgb008.

[zzzondarrr]

Exactly

[Asker]

Isn’t rgb008 smart and sexy?

[zzzondarrr]

@PoliceLivesMatter hahah, smart probably, but she looks kinda unpolished on her profile pic :D

[Twinrova]

Do you believe in slut shaming? Like, shaming a girl for sleeping with different guys regularly?

[Twinrova]

I'm not judging just curious.

[Asker]

That’s classified info Twinrova.

[Twinrova]

You don't wana know what happened to the last guy who said that to me.

[rgb008]

@zzzondarrr I can assure you I am quite fat and not sexy. Also my body polish 2.0 hasn't arrived in the mail yet I'm stuck with my body polish 1.0. So maybe that is an explaination to my lack of polishedness

[rgb008]

@Twinrova I'm not for shaming anyone in any way. But if she willingly has sex with many men, how is pointing that out shaming her? If anything she should proudly admit she's a "sexually liberated modern woman" instead of resorting to "you slut shamed me!!! :( "

[Twinrova]

If you are saying the word "hoe" is just being used by you to describe someone of promiscuous nature, then I guess you aren't shaming anyone like you say. I only asked because people usually use the word in a patronizing manner. I don't care much one way or the other by the way. I was just curious what your thoughts were is all.

[rgb008]

Lol someone reported this. Disappeared for the night. Nice try, triggered moderator.

[Twinrova]

You caught me, man. I actually screenshotted it and called the cops too. Prepare for a swat to arrive at your house. I'm sorry, man. I'm sorry, but you forced my hand in this. I am being trapped in my gf's basement. My girlfriend is Ema Watson, and she forces me to eat ass and also to speak out against slut shaming. please forgive me.

[Thia18]

I think it’s a fancy way for a woman to fuel the idea that having a lot of sex is good and free / you can’t hold this women down... (Personally, I think it’s an excuse to sleep around. I think it’s unhealthy... But just my thoughts on it)

[LunaJ]

on the west it might mean that it should be accepted that women have random sex without being judged like men.
by some culture, like arabic, it's about that women are actually allowed to enjoy the sex. (usually they're only used to for the man's pleasure)

[Gypsy_x]

It means women are allowed to embrace and explore their sexuality without being afraid it makes them less human or less dignified.

I don't think it is synonymous with promiscuity, though they are related.

For example, women are more comfortable telling partners what they want in bed.

[rachelrockstheblock]

Historical, women were treated as property, a commodity, and a bargining chip, used to gain lands and cattle in marriage proposals. After you were traded/ sold to your new husband, usually you would be raped by him to lose your virginity, or you would tearfully submit to him. The man would dictate your sexual needs, desires and acts, and when and how you would act on them. Really in less than the last century, we've gained the freedom to get away from that. We get to decided and set the pace for what we want. We get an input and decided when where and how. So no, it's not made up or unhealthy.

[LittleSally]

In my own, personal, opinion it means not being ashamed to be attracted to someone and being able to say it's true if someone asks and if you're the kind of person who is okay with anyone knowing your own business...

Sexual liberation - for others, as I've understood it - means sleeping with whomever you want without feeling embarrassed about it.

[RuthAnn1781]

It means that a woman isn't afraid to talk about her sexuality. It's only unhealthy if someone is spreading diseases. My thoughts are I don't care, it's not any of my business what someone else is doing consensually and safely with their own body

[OlderAndWiser]

I think it is suppose to mean that a woman is free to decide what to do with her body and free to disregard societal norms. I think the idea also is that we are suppose to recognize this as an "advanced state of being" for a woman and that means that any desire to be critical should be suppressed.

Essentially, what @rgb008 said!

[BuckWild]

I have a lot of respect for sexually liberated women provided that they have respect for themselves. As long as they are very careful and take good care of themselves, I believe they should thoroughly enjoy their sexuality as the word 'slut' has effectively stopped being a bad word. Being a "sexually liberated" woman is only a made-up, unhealthy, and false term if you believe that for yourself.

[SaoirseS]

I think it’s a term of convenience that’s been hijacked to replace the concept of women’s equality in the workplace, and opportunities to pursue studies and careers that were formerly traditional male roles. Don’t think it was intended to refer to use of genitals.

[LaFemmeFatale]

To accept her sexuality and not be afraid to express it.

[karahiri]

to me it means... when a woman wants sex, she isn't ashamed, she goes and gets it (consensually). that might mean approaching her husband or boyfriend, or a friend, a hook up, etc. she isn't afraid of what people will say or think about her- she's pursuing what she wants.

[zzzondarrr]

and you wonder why you feel like you're "falling apart", how ironic...

[karahiri]

@zzzondarrr huh?

[zzzondarrr]

@karahiri www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2724800-anybody-else-feel-like-they-re-falling-apart

[karahiri]

@zzzondarrr i know what i asked, i just don't get how that question is related to trying to define "sexually liberated"

[zzzondarrr]

Well once you find those two are related, you might stop feeling like you're falling apart

[karahiri]

@zzzondarrr so you're encouraging being sexually liberal? That's refreshing.

[zzzondarrr]

@karahiri Only if you want to carry on falling apart...

[karahiri]

@zzzondarrr so... knowing nothing about me, you just assumed that being sexually liberal is the root of my problems. Good one.

[KhalidAmerican]

@zzzondarrr dude leave her alone. -_-

[QueenofCups]

It means she acts on whatever she feels sexually. It's not unhealthy, unless you take it to extremes.

[animus1988]

So basically she's a whore

[zzzondarrr]

@animus1988 yeah, and it's not unhealthy 😂

[ktdec]

Whores get money for sex. Regular people have sex for fun

[zzzondarrr]

@ktdec Normal people have sex for love only

[ktdec]

Having sex for love is a social construct...

[KhalidAmerican]

I think it just means a woman who is not afraid to talk about sex and her experience with it.

[Kimmy88]

Agreed

[amel23]

I think it means express their sexuality and accept it

[Dez22]

She can sex whenever and whoever, how many times she wants. She can also be comfortable with sex/sex talk, and doesn't need to pretend to be ladylike or innocent. Confident, she knows what she wants, and not afraid to show it. I dont see nothing wrong with that as long she she protects herself and others from diseases. I think every woman should be free to sex when she wants. It's her body. Don't bother me.

[madgoat]

A woman who wants sex and goes and gets it without worrying about societal double standards and moral code.
Probably has its roots in the last century, partly around the time the contraceptive pill became available.

[NerdInDenial]

Having multiple partners; it's not good for their sexual market value when it comes to marriage

[Asker]

100% agree Nerd

[Bandit74]

I guess It's the politically correct term to describe a girl who sleeps around.

[Hungry_Shark]

When a woman has many sex partners, or starts having too much sex.
she becomes a sex addict. Period.
At this point, its fine. When you can eat as much cock as you want, but once you get past mid 25, and then you want to get married and settle and basically settle for 1 cock for entire life, that's when the problem starts.
These women become unable to stick to 1 person, they can never be loyal to 1 person.
Females get attached to the guy they have sex not like men who can have sex and completely forget who they did it with.
It (too much sex/too many sex partners) has destroyed many women and it will continue to destroy many women's lives.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

I saw something online by a girl who said she got raped but ended up really getting into it. She called it "liberation" because she "never got pleasured like that before."

After reading that, I just threw all fucks to the wind regarding the word.

[Asker]

Yeah, there’s apparently a lot of definitions out there making this term very ambiguous.

[amel23]

She was confused u can't blame maybecshes in chock and will get back to her sense and the thing about rape it makes u feel guilty bc ur body gets turned on and pple just hate them self for that but its not their fault its just ur body reaction to stimulation it have nothing to do with what u want its like ur body reflex if I hit ur knee it will bounce up u didn't make it bounce up its just a natural reflex and she got wet its not bc she liked it its all bc her body reacted and nothing is wrong with that

[FýrdracaDócincel]

@amel23 Reflex or not, she still felt somewhat positively about it.

[amel23]

Well I don't know if u can take the word of traumatized pple what's positive to her is messed

[FýrdracaDócincel]

@amel23 That's what I tell myself.