Guys, What does it mean if a guy is still soft after am naked? Is it a problem with me?

This is regarding my partner, i have always taught that guys are the ones who get into the mood quickly, here even after foreplay, after making me climax , which means all kind of handstuff , when he starts for action, it's most of the time soft and he comes in less than a min for over a 1.5 year of duration now that we are together...

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  • It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your concerns and feelings. Erectile dysfunction can have various causes, including physical and psychological factors. It might be helpful for both of you to discuss this issue together and consider seeking advice from a healthcare professional, such as a doctor or a therapist, who can provide guidance and support. Remember, it's not necessarily a problem with you; it could be related to various factors that affect him personally.

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  • -porn addiction

    -ED from either physical or mental issues

    i could understand if he lost his erection after the foreplay and making you climax (sorry girl but not every guy likes servicing girls and working like a dog to make them cum) but not having it in the first place is ed from either mental issues, physical issues or too much porn if he is not some kind of asexual or has intimacy issues.

    • I can understand that not all guys are into giving the pleasure, but right from the beginning he insists on giving me the climax experience first, and then move on to him.. i had already discussed with him on this and he is not happy that he can't penetrate for a long time... What can I do.. i only initial how the flow goes right from kissing to last moment he dominates.. i would have dominated may be 10 times in whole 2 year

    • seek help from professionals.

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  • Ok at first I thought he had to be nervous or something but after saying how long you been together that is something different. Honestly he may have watched way to much porn before you. You watch too much porn and get addicted to it your brain can get programmed to need those digital image. That is a possibility.

    • 😞😞 am very good looking what more can I do...

    • I don't know if this is a you problem, This sounds like it's a him problem honestly. There's either something going on in his head that's keeping him soft. Or he's watched a little too much porn and it's messed him up. Those are really my only two guesses. But I really don't think you've done anything wrong yourself.

  • Sounds like he may have some circulation issues. Is he active or sedentary?

    • What does it mean by active or sedentary you mean lifestyle... Very very less active he is jobless for 2 years now...

    • Could be circulation issues. Can't get blood to your penis if you can't get blood pumped.

  • He may have early stages of ED and be suffering from PE and should speak to his doctor. Other things like drugs and alcohol can have an affect. Please feel free to PM if you wish.

    • Sure

  • No. You’re not the problem. Your man has a problem, so talk to him. It might be temporary. I went through a stage where I had no desire for sex due to stress. You can’t help it

    • I know am stuck between the taught it can be purely stress 😕 cus he is jobless after marriage

  • It means he’s not turned on although some guys are more nervous: you got to tease him