What does it mean if a guy says your butt is "soft"?

My guy friend told me my butt is soft. Not sure if that's good or bad.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It means that he wants to take it slow and have a first kiss on date 3 then buy you flowers that you willfully accept, then he will write in his diary how much he loves you and will get married on July 17th and have 3 kids 2 girls and one boy, and grow old and die happy together...

    OR (and this is EXTREMELY unlikely) He thinks you have a soft bum.

    Soft is good... Soft hair? Good. Soft skin? Good. Soft tongue? Good. Soft anything on your body is good never be confused again.

    • LMAAAAOO the "never be confused again" goddamn your a funny little fella!

    • Hahaha okay that was funny

  • Softness is a characteristic that men seek out and appreciate in women.

    You think:

    firm = toned and healthy
    soft = lazy and unhealthy

    He thinks:

    firm = male
    soft = female

    • Took the words out of my mouth!

    • @sobg71124 Glad to hear it. You'd think after using moisturizers to soften hair and skin and makeup and clothing to soften appearance, that women would come to understand that softness is a positive trait which men associate with women.

    • I know, right? There are other such questions posted by women, to which the answer would seem obvious to me as well. But, maybe they get confused because older guys like you and I tend to have answers that a bit different than many of these "kids" on here.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • He probably wanted to compliment you, but couldn't think of a better one haha. I think sometimes guys have a hard time speaking to girls they like :P

    • Sometimes the things that guys like about girls are not things that girls like about themselves. In that case it is not a problem with words but rather perspectives and values.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It means your butt doesn't feel like concrete. =p

  • Soft is always a great compliment! And there is nothing more amazing than a soft bum bum on a cute girl! But, soft belly, soft love handles, soft thighs, soft breasts, soft hair, soft face, could all apply!

  • I think its a compliment.

  • Simple answer = he loves it, deadass

  • it means that your butt is soft...