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What does it mean if a guy tells me he masterbutes by thinking of me?

We haven't had sex yet and probably we won't be able to have that for a long time as he lives in another state , but guys answer please what do you think he meant to say by that? and i think im kinda offended... should i have been offended? or is that mean good? tell me what does it mean exactly!! and one more question , Guys would you do that if you love a girl? i mean a pure love... thanks for your time and answers!

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  • I have told a girl I was in love with once that I masturbated thinking about her. She wasn't offended but encouraged it lol.

    If he said that to you it means exactly what he says, and that he's turned on by you. Question is, since you both like each other and are obviously considering sex, what would offend you about him saying that?

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  • I had a girl friend who I would masturbate to thinking about her! She was ok with it we worked together & I would also tell that I would masturbate in the bathroom at work thinking of her! This really turned her on a few times we would fuk in my car after work! There was also a floor that was vacant & we would sometimes go up there & fuk on our lunch break those were the best days! So don’t be offended at least he told you. So maybe you should tell him you masturbate thinking of him.

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  • Take it as a compliment, I say. My husband admitted, years later, he masturbated think about me after our first date. Specifically my big butt haha. I'm flattered he still thinks about me when he masturbates.

    • @chubbychick That is cute that he admitted it to you years later. He sounds very attracted to you!

    • @ArrowheadSW Yeah, he's great. I never saw myself as very attractive, mostly because I'm overweight. But from the moment we met seven years ago he's always raved about how beautiful I am and calls me a major hottie. It makes me feel good. And I can make him excited.

    • @chubbychick I can only think of one time when I told a girlfriend that I masturbated thinking of her. I remember that I told her that I don't go to strip places because "why whet your appetite if you can't eat"... She said that I could do myself when I got home. But I told her that I only did that while thinking of her... I think it turned her on that I said that... LOL

  • If you are having some kind of ldr then you should want him to be doing that and you should do it thinking about him.

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  • I am Sexting, Masturbating, Voice memo with women around, and trust me... makes it even better when they get in the mood, because it brings up what really they have in mind, and what are their desires... But if you feel offended by it you should let him know, but if he sexually very aroused to you, and u object him, he might could back off and "find someone else", as he might feel that you lost interest in him. 🤷‍♂️

  • People masturbate. If you two are in a ldr, then he masturbates to relieve his sexual tension because you are not with him. It means he wants the sexual relationship with you rather than someone else. It is a good thing.

  • As you may know or now know all younger guys masturbate frequently (but most will never admit it) You should not be offended... it is normal for guys to jerk off to girls they are attracted to.
    Have you fooled around with him at all when you do see him?
    Are either of you virgins?

  • It depands how close is your relationship or friendship to that boy and your question 1st answer is he want sex with you, he want to see you naked in real but may be he loves you like you

  • He's your little simp clawing at the threads of his thoughts of having sex with you. I highly doubt that's love

  • “By“ thinking of you or “while“ thinking of you? There’s a huge difference in those two words. If he can do it simply by thinking of you, he is a master of his mind. If he’s doing it, while thinking of you, you should be flattered.

  • It means he's using his imagination, in his mind he is seeing you naked while he rubs his erect penis until it ejaculates warm seaman all over

  • It means he thinks you are very attractive, and masturbates thinking of you because he can't be with you.

    There's no reason to be offended... he's paying you a compliment.

  • It depends on the nature of your relationship. If he’s just a friend, it means he’s a sicko for being lewd with you. If you are his girlfriend, it is meant to be both flirtatious and to assure you that he is loyal. Given that 99% of men who are not having sex with a woman masturbate and most of the other 1% are lying, isn’t it better that he thinks of you than of other women?

  • It’s a good thing. He’s sexually attracted to you and he may have feelings for you also. What you don’t want is for him to only view you in a sexual way and not want a relationship. If the feelings are there, then you have nothing to worry about.

  • It's from my understanding, and I could be wrong but, from my understanding, women don't care if a guy masturbates to them, just as long as they're not being told about it

  • As long as its you and nothing else, flaunt it.

  • It's not meant to be insulting. It's a compliment. Funnily enough I haven't masturbated to any girl I love except my girlfriend. So if I love someone, but we aren't dating, then I won't masturbate thinking about her. I don't know why, I just don't. I think most guys do though.

  • It means a good thing and never an insult... He really likes you and loves you. He is also excited about dating you and having sex in the best way... I'm talking to you and I'm sure of my information because I went through the same experience..

  • Be flattered. He likes you so much he gets turned on by you

  • That mean was a bait. He told you this and wants to see your react. Then if you said '' Awwww that's so cute i like that'' he would told you this '' wanna see '' or ' can i see you '' etc.

  • ask him straight forwardly lol 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Masturbating by thinking of someone is a sign that he is sexually attracted to you and you should tell him if you are getting offended by this. After all, you can't control him from jerking off by thinking of you

  • he has the hots for you

  • It means he’s sexually attracted to you. It would be weird if a couple isn’t sexually attracted to each other. It is a big compliment. Have you not thought of him when you please yourself?

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