Guys, What does it mean if a married guy shows you porn?

[Anonymous]

OK I’m gonna redo this question. So I have a friend at work who is a guy, and is married. He knows I like him a lot, and I’ve asked him if he wanted to do anything. He has told me no and that he is married. But he and I were messaging on Facebook and he started sending me his favorite porn. He has told me what he likes in the bedroom, but he has also told me how to get a guy. So what exactly is his deal? Does he like me or not? He sent me a few videos and was telling me what he found hot.

[AustinMan]

I'm guessing he wants you but for now is resisting. That may erode over time, depending on what you do. If you start baiting him and tempting him, he will likely cave. Do you know what his favorite fantasies are? Knowing that will help, presuming you wanna have sex with him.

[Asker]

Yeah we have had conversations about his fantasies and what he likes, and what my fantasies and what I like are. I do eventually. I mean i don’t entirely like that he is married and would prefer he leave her before, but i dont think that will be happening anytime soon. Which i understand because why leave your comfort zone?

[Asker]

And i mean I've asked him his opinion of me and how hed rank me in terms of attractiveness and he says im a 7. So i feel like he likes me. Im just confused as to why he wouldn’t jump at the opportunity if I literally laid it on the table for him.

[mayur1598]

Yes he likes you...
But he don't want to be physical with you because he is married...
So respect his decision and don't see him that way...
Someday may be your husband would go from this phase... What will you expect from him...
So just forget him and move on...
And don't some adult sex talk is normal...

[mayur1598]

* doing some adult and sex talk is normal...

[Asker]

Hey thanks for the advice! I mean i would totally understand if my husband ever did that because marriage is an outdated construct at this point and people are complex and life is long so things like temptation, cheating, etc are bound to happen. But i mean i guess i can see that. I haven't tried to physically pursue him. Just small talk here and there and i mean i tell him he's my friend but thats it for now. I guess we will see how it progresses

[mayur1598]

Ya sure... Do what you think is best... Just don't be the reason for divorce of that man and his wife...

[DavidFox]

He’s trying to help you learn more about what guys want, so you can get a guy

[RickyyyG]

Hmmm, this is a good one. I can see why you'd be confused. Its hard to say since he had the chance to do something with you. Was he showing you normal porn or something more fetish like? If it was something a little off normal I would say that he probably does want to do something with you and is feeling you out to see if you will do what he likes...

[Asker]

Thanks for the feedback! So he has sent me more hardcore fetish type porn. Favorite porn stars and their videos, and some of his personal favorite things to do/get done in porn videos.

[RickyyyG]

No problem. Ahh ok. So yeah, i would tend to think that he wants to do some of those things with you and he is feeling you out by your response or reaction to the videos or whatever they are doing in the videos. Have you responded in any way yet?

[Asker]

Yeah I've replied to the videos he has sent because i mean im into most of what he sent as well. But I've also sent him a few videos of things im into as well because i have a few favorites too off the site. he's replied agreeably to the videos I've sent.

[RickyyyG]

Hmmm. Did you ask or did he say if he does any of the things in the videos with his wife?

[Cowboy6666]

seems he was horny and wants to ride you in bed

[mayur1598]

Man thats not what he want...