What does it mean if he comes fast?

He told me that it's a good thing because I'm very tight and feel like a virgin every time we have sex. But other guys would rather have loose than tight. I was wondering what it means when he told me that I made him cum faster than he usually does with other girls. Is it because I'm good at sex or something? Some guys say it's bad sex if he comes faster than usual.
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  • Wait wait... lol..."But other guys would rather have loose than tight" ?
    where the fuck did you get THAT particular piece of knowledge? lol...
    probably the same place where you assumed it means you are good at sex lol...
    no boo boo... some guys just can't hold it in... doesn't make you good (or bad) at sex.
    Just recently i found out that there are guys who cum, damn near right after penetration... i always thought it was a myth... apparently not.. and it seems you have one of em.

  • If he comes fast then he is getting very aroused very quickly. That is rarely ever a sign of you doing something wrong. It could be a sign that he needs to work on his self control. He might say that he lasted longer with other girls but you don't really know that to be the case and, even if he did, you don't know how much longer that was.

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  • If you enjoy the sex, then him finishing quickly isn't an issue. If you're not left satisfied then have him get you off before penetrating.

  • No guys would prefer loose one... who told you that?

    • by the way he may have pre mature ejaculation but was lying to cover himself lol...

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  • whoa what? guys would rather have a loose vagina? on what planet?

  • He's not supposed to cum until you do or after you. He's piss poor

  • he is inexperienced and is a bitch

  • everyone has their own tastes.
    the only important factors are do both of you enjoy yourselves and each other?

  • It means he has no dick control and is probably lying about not being a virgin. Weaksauce

  • I'd be embarrassed

  • could be you feel different to him than other girls. It might be good for him to cum fast with you. Most guys won't admit not being able to last long with a girl

  • couple reasons in my opinion
    1) still new to sex or hasn't had it much
    2) you're good at sex
    3) he might just be really sensitive
    4) the other girls were looser or bad at sex

    also you could be good at sex, if any guy says coming faster is bad sex then immediately discredit anything they have to say on the topic. coming is the end goal, why would taking less time for it mean it's worse 🤔🤔

    • coming is the end goal, And this is why people have crappy sex. Connecting is the goal.

  • Nah. Tight is better, though actual variation isn't that much from girl to girl. I think the real deal is that he's just new to sex. When it's your first times, you cum quick. You either learn control or you stay a bad lover forever.

    • He's had sex for years haha

    • That doesn't bode well… sorry!

  • he liked it a lot

  • that means you have a very nice butt, that makes men come inside you really fast, try enlarging your vagina next time, i'm sure that would work!

  • Lol some guys are so awkward in their praise of girls.

    It probably did feel good for him. If he says he enjoyed it he probably did. If he was in control of the pace of screwing then you don't need to worry about how quickly he came. That's more in his power to control than yours. Don't think too much about it.