Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So we'll talk about having sex at night. I'm usually at work while we have this conversation. And he plays with himself to pictures of naked women before we have sex. I'm not sure how long before sex he does this, but does he do this in order to be aroused by me during sex at night? He gets hard for me very easily but since I discovered his search history, I'm starting to feel like maybe I'm not hot enough for him so he uses pics of other women to get himself in the mood? He also has my nudes in his phone, they were even taken by a professional, and he still. looks at other naked women on the internet. Am I just not hot enough for him I guess?
What does it mean if he edges himself to pictures of naked women before sex with me? Am I not enough to turn him on?
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27 d
Trash shit bitches making a living off of men who are unsatisfied with their fucking literal girlfriend. FUCK YOU BITCHES. I HOPE YOU'RE READING THIS. YOU ARE LITERALLY RUINING LIVES OUT HERE AND YOU JUST DON'T CARE. GETTING MONEY FROM MEN IN THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME WHILE THEIR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND IS BUSTING HER ASS TRYING TO MAKE A LIVING. WELL I HOPE YOU'RE LIVING IT LARGE BECAUSE ONCE YOU'RE NO LONGER YOUNG AND HOT, YOU CAN'T EXPLOIT OTHER WOMEN'S BOYFRIEND'S OR HUSBANDS ANYMORE.
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0 3Is he jerking off a lot when you are not around? How often are you two having sex? Maybe ask him to edge with you present!!
Yes... he jerks off to other women on porn a lot... am I not hot enough for him I guess?
Not just sex pictures either... like a naked girl by herself in a sexy pose, vagina spread out and tits out...
He sounds like a normal horny teen boy. I'm sure you re hot enough but you are his sister and that may make things weird for him. Maybe ask him if you can watch while you are naked and see how he reacts to that.
Why aren't I good enough?
You may have to ask him!
He's not a teenager, he's literally 25. And I'm not his sister, what? Lol
My bad I replied to the incorrect question... sorry
That's okay!
Since my boyfriend looks at other naked women online so much, does it sound like I may not be hot enough for him?
I'm sure you are hot enough... Does he have any issues having an orgasm when you have sex? Maybe he is just a curious horny guy that gets off looking at other naked girls but I do not think it is right.
He orgasms everytime we fuck. And he gets hard for me very easily. But do you think he gets hard for me so easily because he's looking at naked girls a few hours before sex?
I don't think so. He sounds like he just enjoys getting hard or jerking off to looking at naked women. But I think he is getting carried away. Is he a good lover to you? Does he go down on you and/or get you to orgasms also?
Yes he does... but he's got my nudes that were literally taken by a professional photographer. But he still chooses to look at other naked girls... if I were hot enough, he wouldn't do that, right?
Guys can be weird. If it were me I would not look elsewhere just at you. I think you just have to ask him and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. How often are you two having sex? Maybe to increase the frequency. Does he like to go for round 2 or 3?
We go for round 2 sometimes. We used to fuck every single day, sometimes multiple rounds. But I am working every single day now, so we don't have sex as much anymore
Porn is addicting, OP. It has absolutely nothing to do with how attractive you are; please don't take it that way.
@iluvtoknow why can't I be addicting too? :(
Surely you are! Porn and having sex with one's girlfriend are completely different beasts. Porn is getting off to raw objectification, and it desensitizes you the more you watch it so you need more of it to have the same effect. Sex with one's girlfriend is bonding with someone you care about. Personally, I think porn is a problem in our society and people should make an effort not to watch it, but not everyone sees it that way. Even for people who don't though, it is in NO way a reflection of how attracted or enticed he is with you. Please don't doubt yourself, and if you're still insecure, talk to him.
That's what it sounds like if pictures turn him on and he don't get turned on by u. Tell him later
So I'm not hot enough for him?
Oh I'm sure ur hot
It's not you sweetie it's him. He's just weird. I'd much rather get turned on by u than some dumb magazine pictures
It doesn't matter. I broke up with him earlier today about this. I was tired of not being good enough.
Sweetie I bet ur more than good enough
Good for u proud of u
Broke up with him tonight and told him my reasoning and he blocked me. It was me or the porn and I guess he chose those bitches over me.
So no, I wasn't good enough. Guess I'm just a failure. I'm done with dating.
What a lame. Good job dear.
No no ur not a failure he failed not u
I'm sure ur way good enough actually u were too good for him and he just didn't realize how good you are
Nah I'm fat and ugly. And u let myself go because I worm literally every single day and I eat crappy food and I just look like shit. So I understand why he prefers those women.
I doubt ur fat and ugly
Even if u were it still wrong for him to get off to pictures
*work Yeah haven't had a day off in literally 2 weeks
Nah. He can prefer the other women I guess. I just don't want to be in the picture.
Damn he had a hard working woman and messed that up too what a fool
Ur right u don't have to be
Can u private message me
Trash shit bitches making a living off of men who are unsatisfied with their fucking literal girlfriend. FUCK YOU BITCHES. I HOPE YOU'RE READING THIS. YOU ARE LITERALLY RUINING LIVES OUT HERE AND YOU JUST DON'T CARE. GETTING MONEY FROM MEN IN THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME WHILE THEIR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND IS BUSTING HER ASS TRYING TO MAKE A LIVING. WELL I HOPE YOU'RE LIVING IT LARGE BECAUSE ONCE YOU'RE NO LONGER YOUNG AND HOT, YOU CAN'T EXPLOIT OTHER WOMEN'S BOYFRIEND'S OR HUSBANDS ANYMORE. FUCK. YOU. rant over
Is it wrong if I get off not having a girlfriend?
No if you don't have a girlfriend, there's no problem in that. But my now ex boyfriend had me as a girlfriend and I literally wasn't good enough for him because of these "so called beautiful pornstars" and they won. I'm a fucking loser. And I'm losing my head.
I fucked him literally everyday and he still had to see about these porn bitches. I'm over it. Fuck it.
I was never good enough and I guess I just have to suck it up and accept it.
Wait u fucked him almost everyday damn.
It's his loss.
It's his loss
Why wasn't I good enough? I guess maybe my body just sucked and he needed to look at better girls?
It's not you it him that's not good enough
I think he is used to watching porn way before you guys been together, that's why he look at nude pictures! I'm pretty sure you're hot enough to turn on anyone, he doesn't know your true value.
He says he loves my body but I can't believe him with how much he watches porn and other women. I think I'm about to throw in the towel. It's just and because I really love him. It sucks not being enough for the person you love.
It sucks discovering all his porn habits after we have really good sex and how he's looking at these women BEFORE and AFTER we have sex. I just can't compete I guess.
It's pretty messed up though that he is so addicted to watching porn! I know it's hard to leave a person that you love so much, try solving this together, by the way can you send me your Instagram or Facebook so we can discuss this further? I'm all ears and i've some questions to ask.
I already broke up with him for this
Ahh! And now you're together again and he's still doing it?
Nope. Broke up with him tonight and told him my reasoning and he blocked me. It was me or the porn and I guess he chose those bitches over me.
Bruh he's such a trash person, blocking you without even discussing meaning he was there just for sex and was not into you since the beginning, you did better by leaving him bcz he doesn't deserve you! You deserve better than this porn addict bcz you seem to be a beautiful and caring person.
So he wasn't into me I guess? He said he loved my body and loved the sex and I did everything he wanted in bed. But I guess he just lied. I'm just fat and ugly and work literally every day of the fucking week. I'm done. I can't anymore.
He is a lier! And don't say that about yourself, i didn't see you but i can tell that you're so pretty, i'm sure you'll find the right person that truly loves you not just your body but your soul too, keep your head up.
Nah I won't keep my head up. I'm done with Men. I'm done with not being enough. I'm done with other women being better than me. I HATE Other women now. So fuck it. I'll be alone the rest of my life and if another man comes my way, I'll literally fucking spit on him. I'm done. I'm done with not being good enough. I spent SEVEN YEARS of my whole young life not being good enough and I didn't even get a baby out of it. FUCK IT. AND FUCK MEN AND THE FACT THAT IM TOO UGLY AND FAT TO EVER BE GOOD ENOUGH COMPARED TO ALL THE SLUTTY BIMBOS OUT THERE.
Trash shit bitches making a living off of men who are unsatisfied with their fucking literal girlfriend. FUCK YOU BITCHES. I HOPE YOU'RE READING THIS. YOU ARE LITERALLY RUINING LIVES OUT HERE AND YOU JUST DON'T CARE. GETTING MONEY FROM MEN IN THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME WHILE THEIR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND IS BUSTING HER ASS TRYING TO MAKE A LIVING. WELL I HOPE YOU'RE LIVING IT LARGE BECAUSE ONCE YOU'RE NO LONGER YOUNG AND HOT, YOU CAN'T EXPLOIT OTHER WOMEN'S BOYFRIEND'S OR HUSBANDS ANYMORE. FUCK. YOU. rant over
Don't let one fuckin BOY ruin the image of men to you! Not everyone can be like this stupid shit, he didn't treat you the way you deserve, so don't let this bring you down! Be strong, for now, take a break to take care of yourself and do the things you like even while you're alone and believe me, the right person will come in the right time.
Why wasn't I good for him? I guess my body just sucked and he needed to look at better women?
The problem is on him not on your body! He can't get "hard" unless he looks at porn on his phone because he's used to that, personally i'd like to foreplay with my partner and enjoy every inch of her body and the same for her so we can be turned on together, that's the way to do it, but that guy is just different! So don't put the blame on your body.