Guys, What does it mean if my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex, he says he loves me but he wants long spans of time inbetween us having sex?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

There could be many reasons why your boyfriend may not want to have sex as frequently as you do, and it's important to communicate with him openly and honestly about your concerns and needs.

It's possible that your boyfriend may be experiencing physical or emotional issues that are affecting his libido, such as stress, anxiety, depression, or a medical condition. It's also possible that he may be feeling disconnected or unfulfilled in other areas of your relationship, and that this is affecting his desire for physical intimacy.

It's important to approach this conversation with empathy and understanding, and to focus on finding solutions that work for both of you. You could start by expressing your feelings and needs, and asking your boyfriend to share his own thoughts and feelings on the matter. From there, you can work together to come up with a plan that takes both of your needs and preferences into account.

It's also important to remember that every individual has their own unique preferences and needs when it comes to sex and physical intimacy, and that it's okay to have different levels of desire or frequency. The key is to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to prioritize mutual respect and understanding in your relationship.

[msc545]

@jasondaman It is ok to use the output of an AI in your answers, but you should state that you did that please at the top of the post. I usually post "chat GPT says:" followed by the output. Thanks!

[richardcory]

Peoples desire for sex varies, and some are actually asexual. If he wants sex far less often then you do, its probably nothing to do with you, just the way he is. Its a very major compatibility issue.

If he is asexual (or nearly so), nothing will change that.

[slatyb]

It means you should find a new boyfriend.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

A man who retains his seed unlocks the powers of nature and opens up his true potential. By containing his inner beast, he's unleashing the dragon within himself. He should be on an all meat diet too

[Dargil]

How long a span?

[oldguystillhasit]

It sounds like he has other irons in the fire.

[Guardian45]

If girl said that to me, I'd say thank you, but NO thank you. Have a nice life!

[Luckycharms12]

Sex is boring or he has low sex drive

[Cheerfull009]

May be he has other girl to fuck

[Notfoolinganyone]

He's gay. Or he's getting it somewhere else

[Anonymous]

Probably fucking another chick. If he doesn’t want you are ask to do it or pull you aside and initiate physical contact or anything of the sort, that’s trouble for you because he doesn’t really give a fuck about you physically any more and that means emotionally he will distance himself as well. You are a friend or about to be in the friend zone because you are trash in bed.

[Anonymous]

He's either cheating on you, or he's addicted to porn.