What does it mean if stayed hard after he came? Good blowjob or weak orgasm?

I gave him a bj and I felt him cum in my mouth. We cuddled afterwards and 10 minutes later when I got up, he was still very hard. He was sleepy and seemed relaxed, but I asked him if he wanted more and he said no because he just came. But he usually goes down pretty soon after he cums. I did feel him cum in my mouth, but was he just not satisfied, like maybe he had a weak orgasm? Or does that mean it was better than usual? I'm just curious

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  • what's confusing is he didn't want a 2nd blowjob and still hard... i gave a blowjob recently and the guy was still hard after he shot his cum but he said keep sucking and 10 minutes later he was able to cum again for me... but your guy was hard and didn't want a 2nd blowjob very strange.

    • Maybe he didn't actually cum?

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  • So this can happen and in my experience is not dependant on the stimulation before the orgasm. If you stimulate it or get it hard any other way (like cuddling) he can stay hard or quickly become hard again. But that doesn't make him ready faster in my experience. I had situations where I thought he was ready for another round after only a few minutes but he said he stayed hard and its still too early and sensitive for him.

    • Sorry to not be able to say that you were great and it was that. On the other hand it doesn't mean it was bad either. But I can only speak about my experience with one guy so it may not be the only way this works.

    • Well he usually goes soft after he cums tho. I don't know what happened this time.

    • @Asker did you have fun sucking him? or is it more just a chore?

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  • it was really good... he was super horny and still hasn't calmed down yet. It happens and is not a bad thing at all

    • He usually goes back down after he cums tho. And I offered to make him cum again if he was still horny and he said no...

    • not saying he was still horny... he was just really horny before he came. I've had erections last for a while after a good nut, so you have nothing to worry about. You did good

    • thanks for the MHO!

  • sometimes that hapens to me too, i cum and it stays hard for a while, and you said you cuddled so thats why

    • Could it mean he had a weaker. orgasm or something? Because he usually goes soft after he cums?

    • I can see you are insecure about your bj, ask him if he liked it if you are confortable with that, but i assure you that he didn't have a weaker orgasm, he was just aroused because you cuddled after

    • He continued to stay hard tho. It didn't go down and come back up when we started cuddling. He just continued to stay hard and that doesn't usually happen...

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  • Men's erections are surprisingly tightly connected to their emotions and they can become or stay hard when they're happy, too!
    My husband gets boners when we are bonding on an emotional level like cuddling or laughing together about something. Same applies after sex, it'll usually go down after ejaculation but can go straight back up with snuggling, being intimate in non sexual ways too, as others have said 😊

    • He continued to stay hard tho. It didn't go down and come back up when we started cuddling. He just continued to stay hard and that doesn't usually happen... he usually goes down after ejaculation.. what could have happened?

    • It can sometimes! He was probably just really happy tbh. Unless he didn't get everything out? I know with my man sometimes he'll ejaculate and keep pumping for a few moments after because he's got a lot in there. It doesn't generally come out in one squirt. Did you keep going to make sure everything was finished?

    • Also, is it possible he might've tried using viagra or has he started medication that contains stimulants? Because some stimulants keep an erection up for a very long time post ejaculation

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  • Still hard or hard again?

    • Still hard. Maybe he didn't have a very good orgasm?

    • I dont think so but some men can just stay hard for quite some time after they came

    • This is unusual for him tho. Usually he goes down after cumming.

  • Just means he was still horny.

    • So I guess I didn't satisfy him that time?

  • Young guys do that sometimes

    • Does it have anything to do with him being unsatisfied? Because he usually goes soft after he cums

    • Nope, it just happens sometimes

    • He may want to go again or not

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