What does it mean it a guy holds your hand during sex and oral?

For example I slept with this guy and he always reached down to interlock fingers when I was giving him oral. He also held both of my hands during sex and continued to play with my hands while we were cuddling afterwards (like massaging them and comparing sizes)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Could mean something, could also mean absolutely nothing. If you want to know if he has feelings for you or if he wants to be in a relationship, don't make the mistake of looking at what he does during sex or how affectionate he is with you for the answer. You guys just have to talk about it.

  • He's trying to be all cutsey or he just misses the affectionate side of intimacy so he acts things out with his sexual partner that he fantasizes experiencing with an actual girlfriend. Sometimes guys/girls aren't actually into us but they're kind of using us as a cuddly placeholder.

  • ask him, its better to know what he thinks.
    tell him if you like it etc or not. will make your sex life better.

  • Don't question it... sounds awesome. Bj hand holding is weird though and should only take place in relationships.

    • Yeah we have been friends for a while though

    • Oh, then he might either be in love with you or he's starved for human contact.

    • I was once with a needy dude whose mother beat him. He didn't love me but did that kind of stuff.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It could mean something, or it might mean nothing at all. \

    In general, people shouldn't glean all that much from the behavior of their sex partner, especially during sex.

  • He is a touchy feely type of guy , he likes to feel connected during those intimate moments

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  • My boyfriend did this too. While he and i were having sex, he hugged me, but it felt more like a cuddle. I freaking enjoyed it. It made me feel more spiritually connected to him. <3

  • He considered it intimate, not just casual.

  • It means he likes holding your hand.

  • To me that is a sign of connection intimacy.

  • Waiting for the info

  • that's really cute just saying

  • He loves u and it makes him feel connected to u