What does it mean when a guy calls you "his whore" or "his slut" ?

[Anonymous]

Does he think your these things?

[Stacyzee]

If he's only saying it while having sex, it means he just loves to play the dominant role.
No disrespect.

If he's saying it outside of the bedroom, I would talk to him about this.
If it makes you feel uncomfortable put your foot down and tell him to stop calling you those names.
If you have to ask this question, chances are you know being called those names are offensive to many.

[harakiri]

is he saying it... affectionately? lmao.
um. I don't know man. some people use those words in a sexual content because it's a turn on. but if he's like... calling you that in public, in non-sexual situations... I don't know... that doesn't sound good.

[harakiri]

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[Asker]

Haha yes. He's never called me a whore just talking to me so. I'm glad to hear that though. I didn't think it was normal to get turned on by being called a whore haha

[harakiri]

just means you like being submissive and perhaps degraded, only in a sexual content. i doubt you would be okay with someone speaking to you that way in public, in a non-sexual situation, or by someone you didn't trust. i just hope he asked you... if you were okay with this. i think it's a bit disturbing when guys just assume all women like being degraded. so many are absolutely turned off my dirty talk of that nature.

[harakiri]

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[GoldenWing]

It means what it says... It means you're his whore/slut & that he sees NO value in you whatsoever. If he's gay, it's irrelevant though... LOL. Just joking :)

[Your_boss960]

That means he's disrespectful and you should never talk to him again.

[genericname85]

i don´t think it has something to do with disrespect, if for example said in sex. maybe it just makes him horny but it would make me worry, if he said it to you outside of sex.

[Asker]

Well when we're talking like that he us Uses it like "be my good whore and make me happy" or something like that. Haha. I mean it doesn't bother me. It kinda turns me on honestly.

[genericname85]

i think it´s the same for him then :D

[front2back]

You his main chick, not his side chick.

Really though unless it's in the bedroom I'd be concerned. He's being possessive (his) AND is demeaning you.

[Asker]

Well that's when he calls me that. Why is that something to be concerned about exactly?

[TheWiseOwl]

More than likely.

[KHaskins]

It means he has zero respect for you. You can do better.

[LovesTVDx]

it means he has no respect for you

[SurströmmingLover]

It probably means that he doesn't give a shit for you.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

It means he loves how sexually open you are and is really just playing as a dominant character.

[Asker]

What do you mean by sexually open?

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Basically someone who likes sex and isn't afraid to admit it? Just go with it. Guys love women who are open about their sexuality.

[Cowboy6666]

It means u r being used n fool by the dude which don't respect u.. Just using... loooool.

[Elitekilla8759]

If it's just a "in bed" thing that's just him using what he got from say an explicit video. But if it's in all day situations he's probably not a good boyfriend for you.