What does it mean when a guy holds your hand during sex and not by the wrist?

When I was having sex with my boyfriend and we in the missionary position, this time held me by the hand and not by the wrist but before he did so he looked staring into my eyes for a while ( he's never done that before) then he gently took my hand.
Am I over thinking this or does this means something?
What does it mean when a guy holds your hand during sex and not by the wrist?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know if it means that he feels something particularly for you or is in love with you. But it is certainly a psychological sign of a desired for deeper intimacy. At least in that moment.

  • Don't overthink it yet, see if it happens again. Holding by the wrists indicates he is more dominant, holding your hand and looking you in the eyes shows his softer side

    • Alright thanks 😃 for the tip I've never thought of that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • For me, I would think that by staring into your eyes for a while and then he gently took your hand is special. I think he just wants to know how special and how he cares and loves you. 😊

  • To me it’s like him saying he’s always going to be yours & always be there for you. I think it’s so cute & romantic whenever as guy holds my hand

  • Nothing it just means he wants to hold your hand...

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  • it's called making love. When it's less about sex than emotion, hand holding and other affectionate acts are common.

  • Nothing

  • He's just trying to be intimate and its a way of telling you he loves you and lusts you.

  • I wouldn't read too much into it. I'm too busy getting it that I don't even realize what I'm doing with my hands.

    • That's what I'm saying it may the subconscious

    • Maybe, but when we're in missionary and I'm into it, I just go for it and lose track of where I'm at.

  • I think it is a display of a closer bond. Possibly more of a making love display

  • Id say it was because you were putting it on him and he was getting close to cumming so he wanted to lock in

  • You're absolutely overthinking!
    The only thing that this means is that he loves you.

  • What ever a guy does during sex don't mean shit. It's the equivalent of beer goggles..

  • The world may never know