What does it mean when a man doesn't always cum during sex?

He'll fuck me for 30 minutes and won't cum but says as long as I'm satisfied that's all that matters. But sometimes he does cum during sex. Is it my body or face he's not attracted to or am I just a boring fuck? Maybe there's no excitement? But it doesn't make me feel good about myself because I'm 10 years older than him to begin with.
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  • Some guys like to NOT cum. To keep the excitement and stay horny. I dont cum very very often, because it turns me on when only she cums. Dont try to think too much. Whenever i noticed that a woman needs my cum to feel attractive, it was a huge turn off.
    Cumming isn't hard. Guys cum all the time! Its not like a guy can't cum if he is not attracted to you. Guys can always cum 😋 but NOT cumming, that is the real challenge! You only hold back your cum if you really care for the woman. Maybe he shows you how much he cares for you and your orgasms?
    You could ask him if he enjoys to not cum while you cum.

  • Do not blame yourself or your looks or how well or not well you are performing sex. Your sexual partner could have erectile dysfunction or he isn't moving the right way to make himself Kum. If you continue you can always try different sexual positions or he can work at it and go harder which sometimes helps with people or maybe he's more turned on if you take action and be more dominant

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  • Sometimes a guy just can't cum, it happens to me. Right now though i get enough pleasure from pleasing my girlfriend as much as possible and getting her to have an orgasm, it feels great while she's having an orgasm i could just stop and be happy with the sex that we just had even if i didn't or couldn't get off.

  • I don't think that it is you - in general. I (rarely) have this situation as well when it all begins in an excited mood, but while 'on the job' there is some kind of lack of feed-back and at some stage I just shrug my shoulders and look forward to my 'coffee after'.

  • He's on medication that effects that

  • He might be masturbating and he’s still used to the feeling he gives himself. I’ve heard a woman’s vagina feels great but can not have the same…umm…pressure or feeling as a hand.

  • Never had it happen

  • Try orgy and try to make him cum outside like in ur mouth or tits.. it will be more fun I bet.

    • An orgy? Um fuck no. And I let him cum wherever he wants for awhile now, I even swallowed.

    • Great.. so u like giving BJ?

    • Yeah I do but not with every man.

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  • guys can have a dry orgasm where when they do have an orgasm nothing comes out.

  • He’s probably using Viagara.

  • ask a democrat

  • Some people have long stamina, some are short, it is good that he tries to satisfy you

  • Suspect a drug/medication. When this has happened to me, drugs have been at fault.

    • He doesn't abuse drugs nor is he on medication. For what it's worth he's 25 and I'm in my 30's. Also the last time we had sex he came quick within 2- 4 minutes.