What does it mean when a woman doesn’t like to kiss?

[ROB15656]

Would prefer a peck as opposed to a passionate kiss.

[btbc92]

It means that you're not showing her how to really be a romantic person. To be honest the fact that people like tongue kissing and everything else is personally disgusting to me. Has nothing to do about if you like the person or not it is personally is. A pack or so is completely fine. But at the same time if she don't trust you kissing her you probably have the simple-minded as I do. Not knowing where your mouth has been. To be honest kissing as well as anything requires trust if she's not ready for that then you have to respect that. It's best to ask the person directly what it is that they want. Not other people because at the end of the day you're not kissing other people.

[btbc92]

Kissing is highly intimate. And it's the same level as having sex. As a virgin myself, even I know better not to kiss anybody that I'm not prepared to be completely attached to. Because you're not just exchanging hormones, you exchanging parts of your lives. So be careful about who you want to connect to but not just on a spiritual and emotional level but also on the physical level. Trust has to be developed. No matter what other people say remember that you are trying to date her. You are not doing this to other people and she is not other people she has herself just like you're not like any other man. You are your own man. Would you prefer if she treated you like every other man? You probably wouldn't like it either.

[Who116]

exactly! i'm glad you understand you did a good job of explaining as well

[Who116]

i was sexually abused as a child so I feel dirty whenever someone touches me and I get uncomfortable I can barely stand to be hugged and peck kisses. so just double-check to make sure everything is alright.

[btbc92]

I understand exactly what you feel. If a person makes you feel uncomfortable you are not entitled or obligated to kiss them. That person has to have a desire to truly get to know you not to be selfish about what they want out of you and not understand who you are. If they can't respect you, you are free to walk away.

[ROB15656]

Never thought of that aspect. Thanks

[Anonymous]

Find another woman

[Anonymous]

You're not very good at it.

[Anonymous]

It means she's not that into you.